The Toga Rahayu

Visit to the Teacher

When moving to the afternoon the state of the house is still quiet, all residents are still on the move outside leaving the newly halal couple.

There was no more activity for the two of them than watching movies and eating. There is no honeymoon event for the two of them because tomorrow Reno has been active as usual to return to work.

While Rahayu is still thinking about what will be done in the future.

“Darling how about we go to my teacher's house?”. Reno's bargain to his wife.

“Teacher? Which teacher is mas?”.

“Teacher lifeku”.

Rahayu understood what her husband meant and followed his invitation. The two newlyweds quickly prepare to go to the house of the teacher referred to Reno.

Rahayu uses a peach color gamis with a combination of white complete with a large hijab in line with the clothes worn, while Reno uses a white cocoa shirt with a light blue holster.

"God if you look around it turns out Reno is handsome too".

Inner Rahayu in the heart that never spoken directly to the person.

“Goddessa beautiful my wife”. Praise Reno to his wife who at that time looked different from using a headscarf that covered the chest.

Rahayu has indeed been hijab for quite a long time since she was in high school, it's just a hijab that is used Rahayu hijab that just closes the aurat but not up to the big one.

Realizing Reno will take her to see a spiritual teacher, Rahayu changes her appearance slightly to make her look polite.

Almost an hour away, exactly still one city with a Reno house just a little inland. After a fairly decent journey they arrived at a small boarding school in the area.

This is the first experience for Rahayu to enter the pesantren, before Rahayu had never stopped. Rahayu has never felt the mondok or Islamic school, during her education from kindergarten to bachelor Rahayu school in public places.

Entering the cottage area with a fairly old and classic building is not too big with a spacious yard, in front of the cottage there are many motorcycles and several cars parked so neatly.

Rahayu and Reno get off the car entering the courtyard. Both of them immediately greeted one of the santri in the cottage.

“Assalamualaikum to Reno”. The Santri reached out his hand to shake hands with Reno.

“Waalaikumsalam”. Reno answered with a shake of his hand.

Rahayu reached out her hand to the young man, with a smile the man cupped his hand to answer Rahayu's greeting.

Rahayu was made wailing and embarrassed.

“Eh sorry I'm not used to”. Said Rahayu in shame.

“Mbah Sabarnya no mas?”. Reno asked the young man of high school age.

“There is mas monggo pinarak”. He answered by letting the two of us meet with patience.

“Monggo mas please sit down first, I call Mbah”.

The newly halal couple sat together in the long chair in the room.

“Mas mbah Patience who is it?”. Bisik Rahayu to her husband.

“That patient babysitter of this cottage is dear, she is the one who nurtures santri-santri here. Santri-santri here are mostly orphans. There is no fee for students who study here. He is more comfortable on call “mbah” just like that”.

“Assalamualaikum”. Saba Mbah Sabar on the two halal new couples.

“Wassalamaik mbah”. Reno shook hands and kissed Sabar's hands while Rahayu cupped her hands like what santri had done with her.

Mbah Patience replied with a smile full of shade.

“How are you doing, son?”

Rahayu lowered her head and smiled.

So this newlywed is the girl.

So how does Reno feel about getting married?.

Reno just smiled.

Can you order a little for both of you?.

Reno and Rahayu compactly nodded their heads.

With great pleasure, indeed that is what we hope for, the message and the message of the Tabernacle of Patience.

“Nak”. Sabar began to speak to Rahayu and Reno.

A husband is not only responsible for supporting his family in the world. The husband will be responsible for his family in the afterlife.

Nak Ayu do not be afraid of the world's responsibilities, Reno nak this person is responsible for once, even with the non-main obligation only Reno nak never forget.

Nak Ayu, Reno's son is one of the main donors of this pesantren, it has been almost seven years.

“Masyaallah it turns out that Reno is so good, really I just found out about this”. Inner Rahayu in heart.

For the affairs of responsibility in the afterlife, may Reno be enabled by God. Nak Ayu also had to help her.

Do you know who the luckiest wife is?

Rahayu shook her head, It felt like she wanted to answer “aku”, but it must be really embarrassing.

Nak Ayu the lucky wife is the one who is given the gift of God a patient and loving husband, full of warmth and tenderness, helpful, and sincere heart. If he's away the wife misses him, and if she's there the wife wants to keep close to him.

Sabar smiled at Rahayu and Reno.

Does Reno know who's the luckiest husband?

This time with no hesitation Reno replied,

“I mbah”.

Sabar smiled back at the two in turn.

The luckiest husband is the one who has a good wife, a pleasant wife and caring, faith fills his heart, tenderness adorns his words and doing good is his soul. When the husband comes he immediately welcomes him and when the husband travels he always takes care of his household.

The heart of the house is a wife of Reno. If your wife's heart is not happy then the whole house will look like hell no joking laughs, spoiled and attention. Then love your wife so she'll be happy and you'll feel like heaven.

Nak Ayu as a wife has become an obligation to obey the husband, except in matters that violate religious rules. Especially for the good as closing the aurat, performing worship and fulfilling the biological needs of her husband.

Nak Ayu nak Reno getting married is a process of accepting the shortcomings and advantages of the couple. Never say anything bad about your husband or wife to anyone.

A righteous wife will treat her husband like a king, love him like a prince, but she also does not forget to keep reminding her husband that he is only a servant of God.

Marriage is half the journey of piety to Allah and part of the Prophet's circumcision.

Rahayu and Reno nodded their heads at the same time trying to digest every word that was said to be Patience.

It did not feel like they were talking to each other for a long time.

*Writing this part feels like it is advising itself.