Our Love Among Corona

3 Types of Love

After yesterday's discussion with my mentor, now my heart condition is more agitated. Because I need to raise my confidence level a little more to determine the attitude in my love relationship. There was still some doubt there, no matter how much I waited to pretend that everything was still on its way. Doubts are growing. Not enough one mentor, I need a story on the next mentor.

I am Vashla, the woman who often tells about the state of mind and heart. Not only when faced with a doubt of career affairs, the same applies to love affairs. The next person I'll meet is Alin, he's my brother and my mentor.

"Are you ready to go home?" Alin asked while turning off his computer.

"Wait a second" I turned off my laptop and put things in my bag. I have a lot of luggage today because I decided to stay at Alin's house. Again, Luky I left alone in the apartment.

We left the office earlier than usual because we wanted to go to the beach. Near Alin's house there is a beautiful beach that borders several other villages. The beach is unique, there white sand mixed with black sand. Like there's a sand border along the shore. Can't wait to get there, breathe the fresh air of the sea. It was cold, though, twice as much. We headed to the parking area, got in the car and prepared to leave the office area.

The song fly me to the moon is back on our way. Lady Gaga's songs started from Shallow, Always remember you this way and more until we got home. We immediately changed clothes and then walked towards the beach, planning to spend our afternoon while telling stories on the beach. The road to get there is a little slippery, as some of the water on the road freezes into ice. We walked through the trees, most of which had been laid down.

A walk like this in the afternoon, fresh and fun. Moreover, we always have a topic that accompanies. Not feeling tired at all. We can discuss anything and also laugh at the little things we come across. Sometimes we stop by the supermarket at the end of the street, enjoying coffee or hot chocolate sold there.

"So, is there a specific topic we want to discuss today?" He asked when the two of us had arrived at the beach and sat on a swing facing the sea.

This beach is not far from his home and the beauty of the beach is famous. Even one of the beaches is enshrined in the most famous rap song in the whole country. From where we were sitting, I could see two people surfing in jetski. Estonians are amazing, it's winter and they're straddling in freezing temperatures. It's a special dress, but still, it's hard for me to grow up in a tropical country.

"I had a discussion with my mentor yesterday. I asked her what was the most important thing to consider in a relationship".

"What answer?" Alin's waiting for my follow-up.

"He gave me an answer beyond my expectations. I thought he would answer love. But apparently that's not the answer. It says not love or*** that is a big consideration of a relationship".

"played it?"

"Feel safe and comfortable with him. The opportunity to be fully ourselves in the presence of our loved ones. That's the answer he gave".

"Agreed!" Alin answered quickly.

"You too? So it's not love or*** that people have been thinking about all along?".

"Whose person? you're kali".

"It's okay not to generalize. Everyone has their own considerations, some people may agree, maybe not. For example, for myself, agree with your mentor. But.of course there are other parts that can be included in consideration. It depends on your own needs as well. Sometimes love has many kinds".

"Love many kinds?" I scrunched my forehead.

"Yes, it depends on how people define love itself or also divide it into several types".

"Tell me, how many do you know?". Can't wait to hear.

I was curious about the kind of love she meant. All I know is that love is love. It feels that mixes with the vibrations that our own bodies respond to.

"I'll call 3 here. Passion love, intellectual love, and secure love" she replied with a smile.

I was stunned by what he said. Now the complexity of understanding this is increasing. I think I've understood it well all along. About the love I lived. Hearing these two people talk about the way they look at love and consider things in a relationship has taught me something so new.

"Explain to me about these 3 types of love" I asked.

"Ok, first passion love, this is a burning love, full of passion and passion in love, whether we are with him, do **** with him or even when not with him, he said, we can feel this feeling. It is like something is constantly calling within us. A taste that is not only in our hearts, but also like something in our stomachs. Lust mixed with passion, mixed with affection and all the beautiful feelings you can imagine, understand?"

I digest his words well, because I understand the taste described by him. Of course I've experienced this feeling a few times in my life.

"Ok understand. Then intellectual love?"

"Intellectual Love is the love you have with knowledge and insight. Couples who are compact and comfortable to discuss, master the topic if spoken to or want to learn from each other. Every issue, or there is a topic that wants to be discussed, people connect and put themselves in an equal position in the discussion. Even we can feel the longing to be able to chat with him from time to time".

"Yes. Continue, what about Secure Love?".

"Well this category is the kind of love that sometimes relies on matter. Sustainability, good work, reliable in maintaining family financial stability. Full planning of the future, for couples and build a family independently, also means maturity that makes us comfortable and feel safe protected if being with him, it is called secure love. Do you understand my explanation?" Alin looked at me deeply, maybe he was trying to assess the expression I was showing.

Heavy and deep, I thought. Why don't I think about these types of love during my relationship. Alin then left me by taking a walk on his own. I knew he meant to give me time to digest his words. Of course, I need to understand all this. More precisely put the relationship I now have.

What my mentor said, what Alin said. Now, I know that I have a new PR to know my heart's thoughts more deeply. This should all be a bigger provision that will support the decision I will make. Thanks for this lesson, I whispered softly, to the wind and sand.