When Love Only Remains a Name

The Household of Love and Taufiq

Love and Taufiq, they used to know because of matchmaking. But alhamdulilalh they can love each other until now and although the household test is always there, but they both can go through it.

In the early days of marriage, their marriage was really tested even what had been experienced by both of them was almost the same as what was experienced by Jay and Will. I had an accident and forgot my memory. Even separated from her husband for months.

But all the bitter events have been passed and now they can live together and be happy. Love and Taufiq know very well, no life can escape the trials and trials. All humans must experience it.

Examination Is Sunnah Kauniyah On Every Muslim. Azza wa Jalla said:

لَتُبْلَوُنَّ فِي أَمْوَالِكُمْ وَأَنْفُسِكُمْ

You will truly be tested on your treasure and yourselves [li ‘Imran/3: 186]

The test is the kauniyah sunnah (the ordinance of Allaah Azza wa Jalla which is certain to occur) for every Muslim. A Muslim cannot avoid such tests. Therefore, Allah places emphasis on His word ⁇ ⁇ by using two letters (i.e., the lam and nun are notoriously worded, so the meaning of the sentence, therefore, you really or really will be tested).”

Imam Ibn Katsr rahimahullah said, “Firman Allah (which means), “You will truly be tested against your property and yourselves” as His word (which means) : And we will certainly give you a trial, with a little fear, hunger, lack of wealth, soul and fruit. And give glad tidings to those who are patient, (i.e.,) those who, when they are stricken with calamity, say ‘Inna lillahi wa ilaihi raji’u' . A believer will definitely be tested on his treasure, soul, son and family.”

Azza wa Jalla also said:

ذَٰلِكَ وَلَوْ يَشَاءُ اللَّهُ لَانْتَصَرَ مِنْهُمْ وَلَٰكِنْ لِيَبْلُوَ بَعْضَكُمْ بِبَعْضٍ

Thus, if Allah wills, He will destroy them, but He will test some of you with others [Muhammad/47: 4]

Rasulullah Shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam said:

For the sake of which my soul is in his hands! This world will not be mortal, except after someone passes by a grave and ponders for a long time nearby saying, ‘If I had been like the inhabitants of this tomb.” It was not religion that encouraged him to do this but it was just a test of course”

The Robustness of Faith and the Level of the Test Always Compared Straight The stronger one's faith, the test that will be given by Allah will be even greater. Rasulullah Shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam was once asked by Sa’d bin Abi Waqqash Radhiyallahu anhu :

“Yes Rasulull! Who is the hardest test?” He replied, “The Prophets are then the ones who are for example, then the ones who are for example. A person will be tested according to the level (strength) of his religion. If the religion is strong, then the test will be heavier. If his religion is weak then it will be tested according to the level of strength of his religion”

He Shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam also said:

The amount of reward depends on the size of the test. Indeed, if Allah loves a people, He will test it. Whoever is pleased with the test, he will have His pleasure. Whoever hates him will get his wrath.

Why Did Alla Azza wa Jalla Tell You That This Examination Will Happen? There are several benefits that can be extracted from the news about the certainty of the test on us, including:

We will know that the test contains the wisdom of Allah Azza wa Jalla . Namely, it can be distinguished who is a Muslim whose faith is true by who is not.

We will know that it is Allah who predestined all this.

We can get ready to face the test and will be patient and will feel lighter in dealing with it.

Every soul will feel dead. We will test you with ugliness and kindness as trials (the real ones). And it is only to Us that you are returned [al-Anbiy’/21 :35]

Sometimes a Muslim when overwritten with misfortune and distress, he is able to be patient.However, once given excessive pleasure, sometimes he can not pass the test. ‘Abdurrahman bin ‘Auf Radhiyallahu anhu once said:

We were tested with tribulations (when) with Rasulullah Shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam and we were able to be patient. Then we were tested with pleasure after his death and we were not patient.

The Examination Is the Grace Of Alla Azza Wa Jalla The test given by Alla Azza wa Jalla is the mercy (love) of Allah Azza wa Jalla to all mankind even more so for Muslims. Azza wa Jalla said:

And verily we will test you so that we may know those who fight and are patient among you, and that we may declare (good) your deed [Muhammad/47:31]

With the test, it will appear that people who truly believe in those who do not. This is the mercy of Allaah Azza wa Jalla .

(This article I took in Almanhaj.or.id under the title Every Muslim will face trials and trials)

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Love and Taufiq are very happy at their present age, they both still have time to enjoy the time of their master. They are also happy to see their son and daughter-in-law getting along and no one has a problem. Everything is happy like there is no burden.

Now Pram, Jay and Will have their own children. Only Ana and Ani stay but they both deliberately delay first until they are even 20 years old, let them enjoy the courtship period first before they are busy with other things.

If they have children, they are no longer as free as they are now and it will be difficult to continue alone because there will be children between them. So mumpung now still do not have children, they are free to do anything and can take a vacation here and there without thinking about the burden.

Toh Cinta and Taufiq already have 3 grandchildren, and they are already quite happy with the presence of the grandson. They look handsome and sweet. Everything is funny to make anyone become anxious themselves.

Love and Taufiq never feel lonely, because every week or every holiday (red date) they will come to the house of Love and Taufiq alternately even sometimes with the arrival to make the atmosphere so crowded immediately.

If they do not come, Love and Taufiq will visit them one by one.

Since Cinta and Taufiq no longer work, they both seek their own busyness at home. Love is busy making cake recipes and also recipes of various kinds of dishes and after he found the right recipe, the, he would take note of it and give it to Ana and Arsha as a new menu in the restaurant they manage. Sometimes when children, daughters-in-law and grandchildren come, Love will cook them all with a new menu that he has.

Love also sometimes helps his domestic assistant like cleaning all the bedrooms and wiping the table that obeys a little dirty.

Taufiq himself since he gave his company to Ani, now Taufiq keep fish and also gardening..Taufiq made a garden beside his house and behind his house. Taufiq grows a wide variety of vegetables such as: Kale, Spinach, Chickpeas, Long Beans, Sawi, Manisa, Pumpkin, Gambas, Cucumber, Tomato, Chilli, Kenikir, Cassava, Sweet Potato, Eggplant, Eggplant, Vegetable Kol and so on.

Taufiq also grows spices such as ginger, turmeric, laos, locks, lemongrass/leam, leek and leek/leek.

For fruits, Taufiq only grows oranges, pineapples, apples, jackfruit, watermelon, guava, banana, papaya, srikoyo, red guava, water guava, salak, soursop fruit, rambutan and mango tree.

Taufiq very painstakingly planted all the trees but until this moment, not all of them were fruitful and only a few.

Taufiq also enjoyed his day in gardening and also raising fish. Love itself also keeps a variety of flowers, she does not want to lose with her husband.