When Love Only Remains a Name
Jay and Ila Household
Ever since Jay and Ila were gifted a child, their lives have been perfect. Jay and Ila love Alina so much that they always give their best to Alina. Love and compassion, they always devote to their children. All the needs and desires of Alina, they always give the best, no matter what the price. They also work for their own children.
Allah Subhanahu wa Ta’ala has made everything on the surface of the earth as a jewelry for the life of the world, including in it are treasures and children.
Made beautiful in the view of (human) love for anything desired, namely: women, children, many treasures of the type of gold, silver, selected horses, and so on, cattle and field fields. That is the pleasure of living in the world; and it is with God that there is a good place (heaven). [Original Imran:14].
The child is a gift and grant from Allah Subhanahu wa Ta’ala as a conditioning eye view, the pride of parents and at the same time jewelry of the world, and soulmates who walk on the face of the earth. Allah Subhanahu wa Ta’ala.
Treasures and children are the embellishments of the life of the world, but eternal practices are better for the reward of your Lord and better for hope. [Al Kahfi: 46].
And among the ornaments of the world is to be proud of the multitude of children, as the word of Allah Subhanahu wa Ta’ala.
Know that the life of the world is but a game and a shirking, a jewel and a boast among you and be proud of the wealth and the children. [Al Hadid: 20].
Nabi Shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam.
Marry a woman who has many children (fertile) and is loving. Because I'm proud of your large number. [HR Nasa’i].
Marriage is my sunnah and whoever does not practice my sunnah is not of my class. Marry a woman who has many children (fertile) and loving. Because I'm proud of the large number of you on the day of the apocalypse. [SV. Nasa’i]
A wise person, if he already knows that the child is a jewelry, of course, he will take care of the jewelry as well as possible. Equipping them with a good education. Until they really become eye conditioning, have moral nobility, noble character and knight attitude. This is mandatory for every parent. Allah Subhanahu wa Ta’ala.
***O you who believe\, keep yourself and your family out of hellfire. [At Tahrim:6]***.
From Abu Hurairah said, that the Prophet Shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam said.
If man dies, then his practice is interrupted, except for three things; shadaqah tangiah, useful science and a righteous child who mendo’ him. [1]
So, an educator will achieve high degrees, multiple rewards and leave a noble legacy in the world for his grandchildren.
From Abu Hurairah said that the Prophet Shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam said.
Surely a man will be lifted up in heaven, and he says, ”Where is this recompense?” It says,” From the cause istighfar your son to you”.[2]
In addition to being jewelry and eye conditioning, it can also be a slander (test and ordeal) for parents. It is a trust that will test every parent. Allah Subhanahu wa Ta’ala,
O you who believe, among your wives and your children are enemies to you, beware of them; and beware of them; and if ye forgive and do not scold and forgive (them), then surely Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful. Surely your wealth and your children are but trials (for you), and with Allah is a great reward. [At Taghabun: 14,15].
The Word of God above is very firmly emphasized, children can be a slander of the world for us. Like an emerald jewel that we must preserve. So beware, let us not be complacent and deceived so that we violate the commandments of Allah Azza wa Jalla and desecrate His prohibition.
Let not our children be the cause of the descent of the wrath and disaster of God Azza wa Jalla on us. Allah Azza wa Jalla,
O you who believe, do not betray Allah and His Messenger, nor do you betray the trusts entrusted to you when you know. And know that your wealth and your children are only a trial, and that Allah has a great reward with them. [Al Anfal: 27, 28].
this article I took at almanhaj.or.id entitled a baby between jewelry and also a test of faith.
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Jay and Ila always taught her daughter to teach, even though she was not yet 2 years old. Every Jay and Ila pray together, Alina will be placed beside him while on a small face that is special for children. Of course in front of him also in love with various toys and milk, so that Alina does not disturb when her parents pray again.
Usually also finished praying, Alina will he bench so that Alina can listen to every parent teaching. At first, it is always a revolt and cry but over time can start to be comfortable and silent if there are people to teach. Even almost every day, the house will turn with the holy verse of the Qur'an. Since Alina was born, Jay and Ila have agreed that there will be no more dangdut songs, pop songs or other songs. All of them fill with holy verses Quran and occasional sholawatan.
Every night, when Alina wants to sleep. Jay and Ila often tell a story of course. But not about the clever one but about the story of the prophet, although Alina does not really understand but if it continues to be repeated will also make Alina understand and will even be very understanding with what we say. Jay and Ila also sometimes read a short letter every time Alina wants to sleep until now Alina can only say Allah, Muhammad, pappa, mamma, and some words that actually have not been heard clearly. Maybe it was because she was so small that Alina could not speak clearly.
Today is Sunday, where Jay is off work and usually, whenever Jay is off work. Jay will take his wife and son for the holidays. Last week they went on vacation to the house of Love and Taufiq, and last week they also vacationed at the house of Elsa and Angga, last week again, they vacationed at the house of Pram and Will, too, as well as to the house of Rachel and Arsha who now they have become her brother-in-law for having married Ani and Ana, who are her own siblings.
For now, Jay wants to take his wife and son on vacation to the zoo. Jay wants to introduce the name of the animal to Alina.
When he woke up, Jay and Ila immediately prayed, before their prayers puffed Alina first so that she was used to wake up and after that they also prayed.
After the prayer, Jay invited his wife and son to walk in front of the house. Alina is now able to walk even though she still falls sometimes but Alina is a strong child, even though she fell several times never once she cried. He will rise again and walk without knowing the direction. For that Jay and Ila must watch him closely for fear that Alina will hit something that will hurt him. Alina is also now, if there is something she will eat even if it is not a food. For that Jay and Ila always prepare snacks such as wafer, bread and mari rome to hold Alina but still Alina with her active take something for her to eat.
Ila can't leave Alina alone for fear of what's happening. After half an hour of small exercise in front of the house, now the three of them enter the house. They will be ready for breakfast and after that, will go straight to the Zoo.
"Darling, I took a shower" Jay said.
"Yes" replied Ila smiling.
Jay went straight into the bathroom while Ila accompanied Alina who was playing cooking.
All of Alina's toys are very complete and all pink. Jay and Ila always buy what Alina points out. Every time Alina was brought to the toy store, surely what she would point to was cooking dishes. I don't know if Alina might want to be a cheff.
Jay also bought a motorcycle and a child-only car for 3 million and 4.5 million.
Alina sometimes if the afternoon is often riding this motorcycle with held by Ila for fear of falling. Actually, this motorcycle can walk alone because there is a remote and can also sound like a real motorcycle just the difference is that this motorcycle uses a battery. Likewise with a car that can also drive itself. Both of them use a remote, but even without a remote can also walk.
Alina was very happy at that time when she herself pointed to the pink sepda motor. It was Sunday afternoon, Jay and Ila took Alina on an afternoon walk in the park. Incidentally the park is so vast that many people rent their motorcycles and cars. And at that time there were many who made it even until there were all just want to try the sepda motorbike and car.
Perjamnya also very cheap only 25 thousand special cars and 15 thousand khuss motorcycles. And because full Jay and Ila had to wait but Alina who was impatient at that time could only cry. Inevitably Jay and Ila immediately took Alina at that time to the Mall that sells motorcycles and cars. Since then Alina is happy and likes to play motorcycle in front of the house. While the car is only used occasionally if pengen.
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After waiting for about half an hour, Jay finally finished his bath. Jay immediately put on his clothes and after that, he took the dhuha prayer. After the prayer, he approached his wife.
"Yank, there if you want to take a shower. Let Alia take care of me." Jay smiled.
"Yes, um." Ila immediately went to the bathroom while Alina was taken care of by Jay.. Jay went to cook with his daughter. Jay was so happy to see his daughter who was always happy. Alina is different from others, Alina is always cheerful and rarely cries. Just crying at a certain moment, like what he wants and not immediately followed. But the rest of Alina will play with her own world without thinking about her surroundings.
Jay stroked Alina's hair but Alina brushed it off as if she were going to say "Don't bother you, I'm playing." Yeah like that. Alina also stared at Jay long after that she started to get busy with her toys. Jay almost laughed at his daughter's behavior, like a busy boss. Even his boss, never got that way. Jay believes that Alina will be a successful person and a great boss.
"Pis, pis pa." said Alina, staring at Jay.
"Alina wants to pee?" jay and Alina just nodded their heads.
"Yes, let's go." said Jay, holding Alina to the bathroom.
"Yank?" call Jay from outside the bathroom door.
"Yes, what's wrong?" ask Ila from the bathroom.
"Alina will pee, she'll take a bath" Jay replied. Shortly after, Ila opened the door. Ila took Alina from her husband's arms.
Meanwhile, Jay asks her housekeeper to clean Alina's toys so they are not scattered. While waiting for Ila and Alina to finish bathing, Jay also opened his phone.
And after 20 minutes, Ila and Alina came out of the bathroom. Jay immediately put the phone back.
"Mas, Alina's done taking a shower. I'm asking you to put him on a shirt, get his shirt in the closet, whatever. I also want to wear clothes." said Ila.
Jay swiftly took Alina from Ila's sling. I looked for clothes in the closet. Likewise with Jay, while holding Alina, Jay took a shirt in Alina's closet and played it. Jay seems to be very good at taking care of his baby. Jay also combed Alina's hair slowly so that Alina did not get sick after that giving baby powder on her cheek.
While Ila after she finished wearing clothes, she also prayed dhuha 4 rakaat with two greetings. After the prayer, Ila immediately combed the bamboo and put on makeup and hijab. After she finished, Ila invited her husband to breakfast. While Alina returned to Ila's arms because it was impossible to continue to let Jay carry her.
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Jay took the rice and side dishes for his wife because he saw Ila could not take her own rice because she had to carry Alina. After taking it for Ila, Jay took the rice and side dishes for himself.
Ila eats with the occasional feeding of Alina. Since childhood Alina only drank Asi until the age of 6 months. And after that start MPASI but keep ASI in priority. And from the age of 12 months or one year just start in the feeding of bread, wafer, biskuitt. And since the age of 15 months until now, Ila gives rice that is rather soft with in love with clear vegetables for Alina, and Alina really likes especially when eaten warmly, especially when eaten warmly, not hot but not too cold. The clear vegetables also use traditional spices and without micin of course. Because Ila does not want if Alina eats with food that has micinya. Even the vegetables, Ila buy special hydroponic vegetables.
Hydroponic vegetables are vegetables that are grown with the help of a liquid that contains the minerals required by the vegetables to grow. Unlike other vegetables that require soil to grow, hydroponic plants only need mineral water to grow. The water used to grow these vegetables can also be recycled.
In addition to water and minerals, hydroponic plants also need lamps, filtration systems for water and air, and climate control devices. All these things are necessary to support the growth of hydroponic plants. Typically, hydroponic vegetables are grown both in greenhouses and outdoors.
Hydroponic plants are highly guarded ways and places of planting, and do not need soil, so hydroponic vegetables do not need the use of pesticides to protect them from insect pests. So, most hydroponic plant products are also organic.
In addition, the advantages of planting hydroponically are:
It only requires less water than the conventional way, so the cost for water is less as well
Nutrition, humidity (pH), and the environment as a growing place can be controlled
Vegetables grow faster because oxygen (from water) is more widely available in the root area
More crops
Can be planted anywhere, does not require large land to plant it
Does not require cultivation or weeding
Crop rotation is also not necessary
Some plants, such as lettuce and strawberries, can be well conditioned until they reach better heights for planting, cultivating, and harvesting.
What are the disadvantages of hydroponic vegetables?
Behind all the advantages, of course hydroponic plants also have some disadvantages.
Although hydroponic plants have a smaller risk of exposure to pests, but do not rule out the possibility of hydroponic plants can experience a little pest problems.
Some diseases, such as Fusarium and Verticillium, can spread rapidly through the system.
Skills and knowledge are required to grow hydroponic plants well. Hydroponic plants require temperature, humidity, and the amount of light that must be controlled at all times.
It requires high operating costs compared to conventional plants. Hydroponic plants require light control that requires a lot of energy and many other costs are used to control the growth of hydroponic plants.
Are hydroponic vegetables healthier?
It has not been proven that hydroponic vegetables have higher nutrients than vegetables grown by other methods, although it is possible that small-scale studies have shown this to be true. As a study conducted by the Organic Center in 2008 which proves that the nutrients in organic plants exceed the nutrients present in conventional plants. Similarly, research published in the journal Practical Hydroponics & Greenhouses in 2000 showed that hydroponic plants are superior in terms of nutrition and taste compared to conventional plants, depending on the nutrients provided during the planting of hydroponic plants.
Most studies show that hydroponic vegetables have the same nutrients as vegetables grown by conventional methods. As long as hydroponic vegetables have adequate nutrients (especially minerals in water) for their growth, also get enough light and air, then hydroponic vegetables can grow well and have good nutrition.
However, there are studies that show that hydroponically grown vegetables can also have fewer nutrients than conventional vegetables, although there may be a small amount of research. A 2003 study in the Journal of Agricultural and Food Chemistry showed that carotenoid content in hydroponic vegetables was lower than that of conventionally grown vegetables.
Keep in mind that the nutrients and phytochemicals in hydroponically grown vegetables vary depending on a variety of factors, such as the variety of the plant, the season, when the vegetable was harvested, and the amount of the vegetable, and how the vegetables are handled and stored after being harvested. The handling and storage of vegetables after harvesting also affects their nutrition. Poor storage can lower the nutrients contained in vegetables.
This article, I took from hellosehat.com
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"Yank, let me yes, who bribed Alina." said Jay who felt sorry because from earlier Ila was busy feeding her baby.
"No papa mas, eat only. Let me feed Alina first, later if Alina is done, then I eat." replied Ila smiled because she did not want to take care of her husband and disturb her husband's breakfast.
Jaypun just nodded, but he tried to speed up his meal and after that, he took over the task of Ila to feed Alina while Ila also immediately ate with pleasure.
After eating, Jay and Ila are ready to go to the zoo. No one brought anything but a bottle of milk, just keep watch if Alina gets thirsty. Inside the milk bottle, it was the contents of the ASI that had been squeezed by Ila.
When they finished, they left by car. For today, Jay does not use a driver because he wants to make time for his wife's children without interference from others.
