"My Husband Doesn't Match My Expectations"

There is wisdom behind everything that happens

My HP ring, "sister, don't be surprised" said my sister-in-law Krista, speaking from the other end of the phone in a soft voice.

"Why Kris, what's wrong" I asked with a question mark.

"10 minutes ago, I got a call from my coworker brother, he said he fell from the elevator at work" said my sister-in-law krista trying to explain to me slowly afraid I might scream, yelling or crying. "How he said his condition", I tried to listen clearly and did not panic what she said. "It's been taken care of, now it's in Medistri's hospital" said krista replying to my question. "OK, I'll come to the hospital to see what the truth is. So that I can also tell the parents.

I called my sister-in-law Nosta, Nosta his house was closer to the hospital where the husband was treated, meaning he let her come first, so that there is a family party that accompanies, so that there is a family party that accompanies, and that is, do you know something is needed. Because waiting for me to come, in addition to the distance from the house to the hospital far away, I also still have to take care of the mother-in-law who stroke, half of her body can not be moved only relying on a wheelchair, he said, as a tool to move.

I have to bathe her first, cook rice, children also do not need to go to school, I called brother-in-law frista, I, I told you that my husband's brother was in the hospital because of an accident at work that fell off the elevator, I told him to come so that someone would take care of the mother-in-law and take care of the children. I was afraid to leave the children alone at home, they were shocked to hear this news. "Yes, brother, I'm coming in 10 minutes" said frista answering my phone.

Oh my God what is this problem. Do not God happen things that I do not want, do not let the husband experience defects that make him unable to work anymore. What about our lives if the husband does not work anymore. I kept praying in my heart, if it's okay.

Husband got the night shift after the accident, at 23:00 the husband left the house to go to work, before his we had a fight, I asked for money, I asked for money, I told him that I had no money for a cent, "i also had no money for it". said the husband angrily.

"Yes, in this house the cigarettes are in stock, not the tobacco even nyetok cigarettes" I said angrily. Husband also did not want to lose "if there are friends who credit sembako, I must credit too", "if I can stop smoking, I must stop.

"It's free to talk to you, as long as I explain it, it doesn't make sense to you, go to work, it's too late. Some of the drivers who shuttle employees have come, later come to this house, embarrassed we saw a fight" said I ended our quarrel. The employee shuttle driver just nyampe at the end of the alley, can not nyampe in front of the house because the alley is narrow, not fit the car. My husband left me too.

At home I just cry as I bring in prayer, O God if my husband does not smoke, You are God who is able to compartmentalize one's mind, change the mind of my husband God, God, if he can think rationally, it would be nice if the cost of cigarettes is eaten or saved, is not better?. It was my prayer before I got word that he had crashed from the elevator at work.

After I was done at home, and brother-in-law frista had also come. That means I can go to the hospital, the frista that looks after the child and the mother-in-law. I went to the hospital with our youngest daughter who is 2 years old, if I stay afraid she does not want to eat, she is quite difficult to eat, her body is quite thin, her body is quite thin, compared to her brother.

Arriving at the hospital, my sister Nosta had already given her the idea that her husband was in the room Melati 14 4th floor. I rushed to my husband's room. I saw my husband lying on the bed. I asked him the news, It is quite painful if the body is moved to the right and to the left, already on X-ray, by the guard doctor in the ER room, who is in the room, the results have not been told by an expert doctor, namely a bone doctor. Already at noon when it was taken to the hospital at 4 am, Medistri hospital is the nearest hospital to the husband's workplace, and this hospital is a large hospital, and the hospital is, the equipment must have been more complete than other hospitals.

The clock shows at 18:00. We were also in the room waiting for the arrival of the chiropractor. Until 20:00, the chiropractor had not yet arrived, "it was impossible that it would come" said the husband, full of annoyance "It is impossible for it to come", I chimed in.

Full of annoyance and disappointment, especially tomorrow Sunday the doctor's schedule is not Sunday, Sunday, severe almost 3 days in the hospital in his specialist doctor no one came even though the husband was the victim of a work accident. We are still worried about not knowing the true condition of the husband.

Husband wants to urinate, trying to move his body and legs, he does not want to urinate through the potty, he wants to be brought to the bathroom. I also helped her stand slowly, before I tilted her body to the left, and then lowered her legs to the bedside, slowly then tried to sit her body, and then tried to sit her feet, after that, gently wash it into the bathroom to urinate. After the first exercise, finally the husband can sit slowly, walk slowly, but the husband can not stand sitting for long.

With great annoyance and disappointment, we asked to go home. At first they did not approve of it, but we were so upset. Three days we felt disappointed there was no specialist. We plan to move the hospital alone, which is closer to home, is very time consuming for 1 hour drive from the house to the hospital where the husband is treated.

We also have to sign some agreements, that Sanya in case of things that are not desired, is not the responsibility of the hospital, but is our own responsibility. We are also willing to accept whatever the consequences are. At least we're still fighting than we have to wait for the unclear.

We arrived at the second hospital, entered through the ER line, after waiting for the examination and completeness of data, finally the husband was treated. still handled by the ER guard doctor, namely general practitioners, and so on, because it's Sunday, no specialist. The next day the husband was immediately taken by ST scan, immediately treated quickly, and the specialist was there and came at noon, he showed the results of ST Scan of the waist and spine, all normal organs. But I have to do some therapy.

I also could not accompany my husband in the hospital, the afternoon I stayed, because frista sister-in-law could not, there was a lecture that he had to follow. The husband was finally able to understand the existing conditions and situations.

For ten days, the husband had no smoking, other than because in the hospital he could not smoke. Trying to smoke, the tongue does not taste bitter.he was finally used not to smoke. Many of the husband's coworkers who came to visit, neighbors, and the ministry in their church expressed their concern for the work accident experienced by the husband. "you include lucky you know Justin (husband's name), and the name of the husband, 3 Days ago there was news on TV in Nestle's office there was an accident falling from the elevator, there were 3 victims yes all killed, Though you fell from the 7th floor but it's okay. what a miracle.for Among Among Among among me." said a friend of the husband's friend who came to see the condition of the husband.

It is a miracle indeed, a healthy husband is healthy and fine. Just a complaint husband can not linger long sitting. Finally we were allowed to go home, after coming home from the hospital, there was a brother offering to be pricked on the bone.

Gradually the condition of the husband can recover, but can not be agile to move, play ball, play badminton, even to run can not, it will feel tiring when the activity is done. But there is wisdom behind what happened. Husband doesn't smoke anymore, my God. It turned out that my prayer was granted through a very heavy ordeal, Fortunately her husband was fine.