"My Husband Doesn't Match My Expectations"

I am thankful that I can give birth to a son

" I'm positive pregnant, sir" I said to my husband in a flat tone

"Seriously you" replied the husband in surprise

" yes sir, seriously I, this is my new test" I replied seriously.

"Congratulations, healthy yes, find out how to be born a man" the husband explained that I must be responsible for the gender of my child who will be born.

Oh my goodness, my heart is in my heart.

Who consulted the obstetrician and also participated in the program so that the desired baby.according to our wishes, not necessarily 100% successful.

I'm a layman, not a basic obstetrician's education, what I have to do to get the boy I'm born to a boy.

Again I just shut up and resigned, lazy noisily, ever I asked her "indeed what should I do?"

" From the type of food, if you want a boy to be born the recommended food such as meat" replied the husband explained to me.

I've heard the myth, husband and wife must eat a lot of meat before doing husband and wife relationship.

In my heart, but I'm already pregnant, which means it's too late. "Where can we economically if every day eat meat" I said to my husband while smiling.

Husband then angry instead of playing, "Have it, you don't know what, If you don't want to try yes already",.

I just kept quiet, afraid my husband would get angry.

I can only be quiet and sad.

After a year of miscarriage, God still entrusts me to get pregnant again, my husband and I still want a son to be born in our family even though I already have three daughters. The presence of a boy is desirable because the status of the husband as the first child, if there is no son means the successor of his family does not exist.

During the pregnancy period of the first month to the third month, I carried limp, dizziness, nausea and vomiting.

What is eaten sometimes directly in the vomit right, not the distance my stomach is often empty, because all the contents have been wasted.

Even though my condition is weak, my homework is still done, especially heavy ones such as washing clothes, because it happens that the washing machine cannot function properly.

Even the husband also forced to rub his body, because his work husband has a night shift so often catch a cold.

If the husband refused to accept it, even think that I pretend to limp, the husband like no matter what I feel.

During the process of conceiving this I was very depressed bathin, was was was and always thought how if the child I gave birth to later women again, do I have to get pregnant again?, in my age four heads, I am still pregnant, I am now 40 years old, already very risky, especially in the next 1,2,3 years. Oh God give me your miracle, that is what I always say in my prayers.

I could only go and pray to him.

All the ways of myth said people, I think prayer has been done, before after I gave birth to my third daughter, because the born female, means not to be born again female, she said, all the clothes of women who have not been used by my third daughter I give to people, meaning that no one else wears small clothes of women.

Second attempt: The name of my daughter's third child we named Leanne Marito means give a brother,

The third attempt: The name of Facebook is changed"Waiting for God's Gift", meaning that God hopes to give a boy.

Effort four: Not stingy to give alms or thanks in the form of money to the Greja.

Until the seventh month of pregnancy I never ultrasound, I was afraid to be disappointed later too early if the gender of the child I bear is female.

But I'm afraid also not USG, because it is through USG we know the position of the baby in good condition, Through USG we know the condition of our baby is fine, it's good, and everyone also advised me to still have to USG to know the health condition of the baby.

"Cowok ya" said the doctor directly without me asking her gender first

"Surely, doc, it's not wrong" I replied happily and hesitantly

"True, this already looks too late" said the Medan log.

"Thank God" I said, glazed over

"Why indeed?" ask the doctor full of questions

"My son is 3 female doctors, and this is the fourth child that is expected to be born a boy" he replied.

"Remain male doctor, I was afraid to invite my husband to see a doctor, afraid that later I would even stay on the street" I said

"Yes sure, the prediction will be born on 5/5" said the doctor again while informing the prediction of the birth of my child

"the birth of surgery or normal" the doctor asked me

"The desire is normal doctor, in addition to his recovery is fast, I also can not buy postpartum drugs" I replied to the doctor who examined me.

Then I excuse myself and say thank you to the doctor who examined me.

I am excited not to play, and can not wait to quickly get home to immediately tell my husband about this good news.

Once at home my husband did not dare to also ask me, afraid he was not ready to be disappointed.

I immediately tell my husband impatiently, do not dare to prank, then even the rules of joy even fights that occur.

"Mister man" I replied in a joyful mood to the husband

"Seriously" asked the husband still somewhat doubtfully

"yes seriously this is the result of her USG" while giving the paper the results of the USG to the husband.

" So I asked the doctor, seriously the doctor, replied the doctor he was very sure that the born boy" trying to tell everything that happened when in the USG room to the husband.

"Thank God" said the husband as he hugged me

The date set for me to give birth is right, but I feel there is no sign of childbirth right, usually if you want to give birth I always pay attention to my urine whether turbid or clear.if turbid means rupture of membranes, it means, clear times mean it is not yet time to give birth.

My urine is still clear, though,,

Until 2 weeks passed after the date of my prediction to give birth right, I became was and more tense when yes.,..

But I have prepared for baby clothes and my change of clothes in a bag, if the sign of childbirth already exists.I can immediately go to the clinic or hospital.

Dates 29/5 from afternoon to night I feel heartburn more and more into the night heartburn more frequent and regular until sometimes feel like BAB, but hard to get out. Even though the husband had time to go to work because he had a night shift leaving work at 23:00.

At 2 in the morning, I could not stand it anymore, afraid that I would give birth at home even bother. I called my husband and told him to come to pick me up and take me to the clinic because I felt like I wanted to give birth.

And finally our fourth child was born a boy, the husband then hurriedly reported the good news to the whole family.

Thank God, you answered our prayer.This is a wonderful miracle.