"My Husband Doesn't Match My Expectations"

The look of the father-in-law is revealed

"Hello sister, did you have a call?", asked Moria my sister-in-law to call me

"No deck, why ?"answer me

answer his questions.

"That is, people all in the village have been talking about the father, often he said women come to the father's house" Moria's sister-in-law explained

" What is that right?, I asked curiously

"Betul kak, Bibi, a cousin brother who is one village with the father has also told me a lot, even the children of the father's girlfriend often also come.

"Keep how the continuation of their relationship, do you want to marry again this is the story" I replied to try to guess the direction of the father-in-law relationship

"That's it, I don't know, there's no father talking to me" Moria replied

"Try me later tell your brother yes, to call the father to find out" I tried to give a solution.

A year after the departure of the mother-in-law, the father-in-law was widely rumored in the village, that the father-in-law often brought women into his home. Even the children of his girlfriend also often come and stay at the father-in-law's house.

The father-in-law did live alone in his house, but there was another brother of the father-in-law who lived not far from his house.

There is the 2nd Father of the father-in-law living there with the wife of the child and his daughter-in-law.

Moria's sister-in-law often asked the situation of the father-in-law if there was a reason.

Soon my father-in-law had a boyfriend, but my mother-in-law had just died a year ago.

The mother-in-law often said that the father-in-law had an affair, we often scolded the mother-in-law if she talked like that.

It turns out that the feeling of the wife is there, we also realize her at this time. Do not let the sick mother-in-law is triggered because many think of the behavior of the father-in-law who has cheated and sued the mother-in-law, the mother-in-law,

When the mother-in-law was sick in the hospital, the father-in-law there brought another woman, and it was in the pergoki by the sister-in-law of the frista, the father-in-law there brought another woman, frista happened to be behind something left in the hospital room of the mother-in-law, the father-in-law thought that the frista had left, then the father-in-law immediately told his mistress to come to see him in the hospital room of the mother-in-law. Pergok them, immediately frista asked in a tone full of emotion,

"who is this sir, pointing to the foreign woman", "friend", replied the father-in-law in a surprised tone.

"What friend?, girl friend. Never have I seen it" asked the frista full of question marks and emotions

"Friends only", Father-in-law explained as he was sorry to go home"

The husband also asked about the foreign woman the father-in-law brought to the hospital when the mother-in-law was treated. My father-in-law just said friends, nothing to do.

Now because it can no longer stand the gossip circulating in the village, is old and aged behavior kok like children, like not knowing the norms and rules of the effect.

Then all the children of the father-in-law also urged about the rumors circulating in the village that there are women and children who often come to stay at home.

The father-in-law explained, I am old, how if I am sick who will take care of me. I was so lonely in the village there was no kawa, "I meant to marry that woman"

"Is there no other woman?, he means he wants not to have children said the husband pleading.

"It can't be regulated or forced, it's my choice, you used to choose a life partner according to your wishes, not a match" said the father-in-law firmly.

We were just silent, yes, it seems like the father-in-law has been steady with his own choices. We can no longer force.

The wedding was held 14 days later, all the preparation dates, events, and finances did not involve us, he said, all like her has been taken care of by my father-in-law and the entire family of the female side who will be my future mother-in-law.

A wedding is like the wedding of a newlywed who has never been married. There must be an engagement event, even though the husband has advised the father-in-law, "marry customarily first, later if there is a hidden purpose of the woman, where he knows he only wants the father's property, only, it can be divorced without a long process".

Husband's advice is not ignored, yes have to say what, let it be run according to his will. so the husband said to me in between our conversation about the wedding of the father-in-law who was too fancy.

We are not too careful either, we just came like an invited guest at the wedding of the father-in-law with the future mother-in-law and it turns out that the woman was the woman the father-in-law brought when the mother-in-law was sick in the hospital.

We were shocked and surprised, our prediction of the father-in-law must have been in a long relationship with the woman, maybe even before the mother-in-law died. And don't let the mother-in-law get sick because of that woman.

We regret being angry when my mother-in-law told me that my father-in-law cheated on me and had another woman. We should have believed her words because the wife must have felt the truth of her husband.

We also left by chartering a rental car with the driver, so that it could be more economical, and we were not there for long, the next day immediately returned to the city because, because, my husband and sister-in-law's husband also have to work.

I submit all decisions in the hands of the husband, how much should he give to help assist in the expenses that have been incurred by the father-in-law to finance the cost of the party, his position as the oldest child must be understood. I always tolerate decisions and never get angry or forbid them,

But another case if there are activities on my side, the husband always shows that my position as a daughter is not too partaking.

Sometimes give potluck, angry, I have no money, want to pay the house.

Even though my brothers are people who are not, want to expect those who cover all expenses if there are activities on my side, where there is their money.

If he was also called sister-in-law, letting him spend all expenses would be husband would be angry and object.

Why is it so difficult husband can not even open himself, or feel if the position is behind it to him. That's what I don't feel is in my husband.

Not that the husband must give a lot, whatever is important sincerely not because of frills because of his position as a girl, as if not mandatory. As if I had nothing to do with my family anymore. Such a husband's attitude really makes me hurt.