"My Husband Doesn't Match My Expectations"

Husband sick

The nature of the calculation of my husband to me was still ingrained, still he was stingy, still he was more sensitive to others than to me.

When our wedding anniversary was 14 years, I seduced my husband to buy him food Resto but his meal at home, meaning the food was wrapped and then taken home. The husband then agreed so we ordered a 5-pack fried duck with one pack each, husband, me and children. All happy and satisfied do not forget also we buy a cold drink that is orange juice.

All expenses from husband. The total expenditure for one meal is quite large should be for 7 weeks if you buy a side dish for the expenditure of fried duck, I am always rationed by the husband, she said, do not hold a lot of money just to spend enough 4 days should be, but sometimes if immediately asked again must be the beginning of a storm first, so I ask once a week 100,000 it must be enough, it must be enough, whereas there is a need to arrive to buy gas, 1 tube size 3 kg runs out 1 week, not to mention 1 day/gallon refillable gallon water. 100 Rb to buy what side dishes and vegetables?

After spending buy fried duck and give me 100k husband immediately realized that the money is up. because there is little sustenance that the husband got from overtime money, he said, because last month there were many red days so the husband got a decent amount of overtime.

The husband intends to make a bench in front of the house for a relaxing bench made of cement, because the husband does not understand make it his own husband took the initiative to call a handyman, and the husband, called a handyman 2 people on condition that it must be completed in 1 day, the work makes a relaxed bench so on the run after the deal with the wage fee agreed on by both parties.

The making of the relaxing bench was finally finished, but without the knowledge of my husband I found out that the husband gave additional money to his handyman, though this morning before the handyman came I first asked my husband if I needed money, it happened yesterday there was an expenditure for the needs of children's school so I used a little shopping money. Directly answered ketus by the husband "have I given you, moreover, yesterday had bought fried duck, where there is more money".

At that time I was just silent, the pain felt this heart. especially now the husband gave money tips to the handyman when I no longer hold the money, I intend to borrow children's money because they are given 50k/month. Not to disagree on the provision of tip money given by the husband to the handyman, the love of the right money is not a problem. Meningan money tip was given to my husband, anyway I was given money not for my own person, it was to eat 1 family.

****

"I'm not feeling well, my throat is also not good, like swallowing, my chest hurts like a lot of wind in my body" the husband complained about his condition.

Then I held her forehead, it was quite hot"Your body is hot'" I spoke to my husband while touching his hot forehead.

"Yes, I do feel like she's feverish" her husband confirmed my statement.

" Go to the clinic" I recommend to the husband.

"Yes yes, before it gets worse" the husband told me as he prepared the necessary files for claims from health insurance cards.

The husband immediately went for treatment without my company, because I could not leave our fourth child who was still 7 months.

Bremm.tit....

The motorbike stopped ahead, immediately the children rushed out to open the turnstile.

"Where is the result"

I asked my husband full question mark for the doctor's examination of his condition.

"That's acid reflux" replied the husband answering my question mark.

" Yes well, ok. eat medicine yes" I suggest while I get a plate of rice and a glass of water, meaning the husband eats first before taking medicine.

****

I changed my husband's clothes because it was soaked with sweat after taking the heat-lowering medication that the doctor gave me this morning.

Thankfully the medicine turned out to be effective, and I did not have to linger long to take care of a husband who was sick because I also had to bother to babysit the child.

***

Late in the evening, the husband's fever rose even higher than the fever this morning. I was worried that I would give him fever-reducing medicine, I told him to wear a jacket and blanket, long covered with blankets, meaning that the husband's sweat could come out and the fever could go down.

It turns out that the fever did not go down, even the husband also had a cough, every time he let out his cough, pain all over his body, tightness and difficulty breathing said the husband, telling his condition spoke with a broken speech due to tightness.

I am very worried about his condition. I tried to splash with wind oil that is quite warm, meaning that if you feed it with warm wind oil it is easy to sweat it out. Turns out the fever also did not go down, even I tried to give again the drug dehumidifying after 4 hours ago I gave also the drug dehumidifying.

Until the morning my husband could not sleep, I went back and forth to his room to check on him, I did move rooms not with my husband because I was afraid of sick husband nular to my son who was 7 months old.

I also feel tired almost no sleep, because briefly see the condition of my husband and baby is also awake to ask for milk.

After the medicine given by the doctor was exhausted, the husband returned to treatment, the second drug was also exhausted and precisely the husband had a fever for 7 days never healed, never recovered, the husband was referred for hospitalization the husband was afraid and did not want hospitalization on returning home and asking for my opinion.

We agreed that the husband at home, who infuses and gives drugs is a neighboring midwife.

After being given a heat-lowering drug, gradually the husband's fever dropped, midwife predicts that the husband is sick with typhoid is recommended for antibiotic injections for 6 times, every day 1 injection, the doctor said, after the injection of this antibiotic even the husband's condition has not fully recovered, he feels powerless, the body feels weak and helpless.

" I'm still limp, I can't go to work" said the husband telling me about his condition.

" What should we do?" say

" There's a crook on the street sweet lemau, said a nice person, queuing there for treatment because the patient is a lot" husband told me about the repercussions of his coworkers.

Actually I believe I do not believe, because the experience of the 3rd child was also brought husband kusuk typhus same treatment model using the medium of glutinous flour and eggs.

"We will have such a prickly experience, why should we go to such a place, good we buy vitamin vitamins, food is regulated so that your condition can quickly recover.

"I don't know where else to go for treatment, the one who feels the pain is me, if it doesn't heal it's me, because the one who seeks money is not you, I'm not you, maybe you don't want me to heal" talk emotionally and cry.

Though it is said who is the most tired I am the most tired, because in addition to taking care of him I still have to take care of children, take children to school and take care of our fourth child baby boy.

My husband even accused me that I did not care and did not want him to heal.

"It's not like that I mean, yes we go tomorrow to the prickling tipes, if you believe you're cured after the prick, yes, now your belief anyway." I said while apologizing and continued to encourage my husband.

Three days we were told to come, and finally the carpenter said no need to come again, every come must bring glutinous flour 1 pack, and chicken eggs 6 eggs, kampung, after the kusukpun had to hand over the envelope containing money, the flour was rolled on a roll over the body of the husband while lying down after a few minutes was finished, just like that his healing method.

I can only pray that the husband can be cured, the treatment and costs we spend are not in vain. After the ribs are finished the condition of the husband is still weak helpless, what we can do is focus only on sop foods that are said to increase platelets, and vitamin vitamins.