SADNESS OF MY LIFE

73.Gotong Royong's

I am very grateful for my current efforts, the more multilevel the income. with this effort I can build a contract and support Naura with my own efforts not helped by her father Naura.

I was very happy, could be separated with his father Naura. Our life is calm not pursued again with him. Since I separated from him, my heart is very calm and happy.

fortunately I moved to this place, if I did not move, I would have had a messy life.It felt like being followed by fear, maybe this is the way I have to live my life here.

I'm happy to move here, my life feels excited again, because I can get together with Naura and my parents. During our life here we feel calm and always happy, he said, without disturbing anyone.

I moved here very nice, because we have neighbors and people who care about everyone so much that until I build a contract also do not ask the builder, but also the builder, but build it in a mutual manner similar to the local community.

So I don't have to spend big money to pay everyone, only I pay cash, so that cash can be scored again for people who are less able. I only prepared lunches and lunches for the neighbors who helped build this contract, because they didn't want money, they're helping my family with their concern for the people here.

Not even me who is helped, everyone who lives there is always helped by the local community.who needs energy, he said, all communities here are ready to help in a royong manner.

I am very happy to live here, because the community is very good and friendly friendly.My efforts are very good, every day the sale runs out and there is nothing left in the slightest.

Even Naura is not fussy if brought to the stall, she plays with her toys.

already have a temen in my sales place, if the fussiest want to eat and drink milk.

Since my parents were busy with contract construction, I always take care of Naura and warung/jongko. My parents focus on that development, right, if not for this task we will not live like this, we always complete and always understand.

Even though we live not accompanied by a guy, we live with enthusiasm and try to continue to live because we can live without a guy too, he said, because we are used to living like this and do not depend on the same guy, even without a guy we can live happily and we are more independent.

Instead of having a partner we are more complicated and a lot of heartache, even often lied to the same guy. Then we always fight with trivial things, continue to feel attached if you have a partner. what do you want is always confused and a lot of thinking.

Mending life like this, not tied to who is who. importantly we are healthy, rizky we live every day.why where free no one is forbidden, no one is forbidden, now I just have to think about my son and my parents.

Now the bigger Naura a lot to her wants and more spending, what else if later Naura has grown to her needs more than now.

In the thanksgiving stalls I thank her many customers, so every morning many who order vegetables to my jongko. now open her vegetable stall not until the afternoon, so every morning many who order vegetables to my jongko, it closes earlier than before.

So after closing in the vegetable stall, I immediately went to see the building and want to see where it's been? is it okay or not?.I went there while taking Naura, because she wants to see grandma, she misses her grandmother.

It turns out that the building was not well, still installing batak. I see the neighbors are very happy, because they are still his working spirit.they are really working royong.I salute them, I salute them, because helping her really has no strings attached in the least.

Before going home they eat together again, because my parents have prepared their food for them. So go home each of them do not eat anymore, because they have eaten at my house.

Yes Alloh, hopefully their kindness will be rewarded, because they are very good people who want to help the neighbors who are close or far away, I am very proud of them.

Life here always teaches us about the meaning of family and togetherness. Social interaction between residents is still well established. Every resident or neighbor who has a vision must help each other. This also happens when there are residents who want to build or repair a house. This term is often referred to as "gotong royong activities among the population". Here it is accustomed to hereditary traditions or gotong royong activities that often occur in the countryside which is usually done when there are residents around who build or repair houses. gotong royong is done by the fathers, while the mothers help cook and prepare food.

If there is one of the residents who want to build or repair the house, the homeowner will ask for help from the neighbors by going directly from house to house. This is as a form of courtesy as well as a form of respect for neighbors who are asked for help. The process of demolition and the establishment of a house carried out in a row by residents shows the spirit of family and togetherness, even heavy work if done together will feel light. One thing that is the main characteristic of gotong royong is that they are not paid at all, all citizens do is to maintain harmony and social care for their neighbors. It has become a tradition and legacy for generations

The community service that I do in the population is by helping mothers cook and prepare food for residents who do gotong royong make contract houses.

the process of demolition of houses up to the rebuilding of residents' houses runs smoothly. To prepare the food served for the celebration, mothers have started to help cook from 11.00 am to the end.

The soul of the family embedded in the residents is indeed very high. They are willing to take the time and energy to help others without expecting wages or rewards.

Due to the many residents who help and mutual mutual mutual assistance, the construction of this contract is more quickly resolved.Mom continue to cook and prepare food for lunch and afternoon food that will be distributed later. The lunch menu served is soto ayam, tempeh, tofu, kerupuk, sambal and others.I also helped distribute food from home to the homes of these residents who joined the royong.

What an amazing experience, so many experiences that can be taken from this activity. Although not paid, residents of both fathers and mothers remain sincere in helping their neighbors. A difficult thing to find in urban areas. With the tradition of gotong royong, the burden of all society is reduced, and of course the work is more quickly completed.

This tradition of hereditary gotong royong must still be preserved as a form of social concern for the surrounding residents. Because we certainly will also need the help of neighbors if you are having a celebration as well as the construction of houses and other residents of this population are ready to help him.