SADNESS OF MY LIFE

58.Seven Monthly

Finally my parents and uncle got better again, he had no grudge between uncle and my parents.My parents forgot all the problems and opened a new page with my uncle.

Even they manage the rice fields, gardens, rent together.just now it's all different to belong to, if now that has my parents if it used to belong to my Grandma.

After taking care of Grandma's inheritance, Elisha almost forgot, while the age of pregnancy I want to 7 is not too busy with the affairs of his parents, he said, he forgot to prepare material materials to hold a 7-monthly event.

elisa's family has been used every seven months, likes there is a 7 monthly event.let her son be soleh, many rizky, may his son seamlessly rahayu and his mother survive.

Therefore, the family of Elisha at the age of 7 months, usually will be held a thanksgiving event to welcome his first child. the 7 monthly Elisha event was also held at home and was only attended by the family of Elisha and the family of her husband.Elisa in a matter of months will bear the status of Mother.

Mamah, brothers, neighbors and incoming uncles also help to organize the 7 monthly tomorrow.they invite the nearest neighbors and sodarah only, because the event will be held usually not too rame.

In the decline of the sundanese custom introduced from Grandma, the term seven-monthly for a pregnant mother, and her gestational age enters the 7th month. In this tradition there is a ceremony by bathing a mother who is pregnant with various traditions that have been carried out in descending order.meaning my parents are accustomed to holding this 7 months.

The purpose of the 7 months is to pray to God that the baby in the womb of Elisha survived, as well as Elisha as his mother later must be healthy again.that one who is pregnant for 7 months, is safe, cannot be united with her husband until 40 days after delivery.

However, this seven-monthly tradition always changes once along with the development of the Sundanese first. Because in fact, all Sundanese people will experience and will carry out well to the posterity later.in the ceremony there is a recitation by reading the holy verse of the Qur'an, the holy verse, what is done customary sunda in holding seven months is to bathe pregnant women bathed by 7 people and a husband accompanied by an elder/paraji. which is done alternately by using 7 sheets of traditional batik cloth Sunda used to alternate from each flush and bathed with seven-figure flower water.

the time to bathe is inserted an eel, until it hits the stomach of Elisha who is pregnant, aiming that the baby he will be born will be able to walk smoothly like a slippery and agile eel. Along with the fall of the eel, there was water from study to bathe Elisha who was pregnant. 

And laid a coconut that was given a puppet picture by her husband Elisha to be cleaved with a very sharp machete.it is intended that the baby who is being conceived by Elisha and hopefully can do good birth and his mind like coconut conditions that have a beautiful and beautiful color.

In the end this seven-month tradition has been very attached to the Grandma family, now Grandma is no longer there now so downhill to my parents.

Elisha after finishing changing clothes he immediately waited in front of the house, he while waiting for someone to buy 7 months of rujak.

Everyone is busy looking for a tile, want in the shape to be round. so you can buy a monthly 7 rujak it. after in the shape of the temple, it is, everyone bring a roof that has been rounded right in a tuker with a monthly 7.

Sometimes like a lot of nanya, why buy a 7-month rujaknya using a circle of tile, do not use money? his word is characteristic of the birth of a child who will be born later.if his roof is round neat and smooth his son will be born a handsome man, who is handsome, while the tile circle is not neat and not smooth that child girl said the parents first.

And not much different from the taste of the spirit of 7 circles of Elisha was meaningful, and not much different from the tile that was. if from the taste of the spicy rujak it means that the child who will be born is a handsome boy, a handsome boy, whereas if the rujak no spicy at all means that the child will be born is a beautiful woman.

Sometimes from the taste of salty, sweet, acidic, old people in the past can also judge the character/nature of the child.for example, if from the taste of salty, sweetness of the child has a judes nature, kind, kind,and sweet.if from the sour taste, salty from the child has a proud and arrogant nature.

That's the word from the words of the parents first, so if in the past it was always meaningful and there was always a meaning of the meaning of the 7 months.

Seven months are in order, Elisha just waiting for the arrival of a child. let him be born safely and lungsur langsar ,Elisa must every morning walk with routine.let give birth to him safely, healthy no less than one.

Elisha always arranged all his own needs, because he had a rich husband and no husband. Until now I want my husband's birth not to look for work, all the baby equipment bought my parents.to give birth to my husband I do not remember at all, she said, he is very indifferent at all it seems there is no burden in the slightest, even though he is a figure of parents who will become a father if his child is born later.

Although now Elisha wants to move all the hard, Elisha still eager to wait for the arrival of his children.he always routine nutritious food even drink potions from his parents.

The potion would be delicious or not that important Elisha obeyed the words of his parents, let me be born safely. And Elisha did not want to be dizzy with the behavior of his husband.I do not want to think about my husband , ' I do not want to think about my husband ,pokonya now I focus on the birth of the child first . do not want to think about anything else, just focus on my womb only.