SADNESS OF MY LIFE

26.Stepmother died

To his esokanya, someone told him that his wife sobari was taken to the hospital. because he was very severe condition.Sobari was very sad to see his wife fell ill.sobari came to the house Elisa would tell that her stepmother was in the hospital.

Even "his stepmother Elisha was already unconscious ,” stories from Elisha's father"For three days he lay in the hospital. His father Elisha was sad, seeing his wife like that. His father Elisha also spoke to the doctor: can he survive? The doctor cannot decide what because the condition is severe.

This morning, the Suningsih family looked at him, his wife Sobari was so thin that the bones of his face were visible. His eyes look big. He doesn't seem to be able to stand up anymore. Suningsih finally told him Sobari, be patient and pray for your wife to let him realize and recover again.

Shortly afterwards the doctor examined his wife Sobari again, the doctor if there was no development in the slightest. Sobari was sad and shed tears hearing the words of the doctor. Sobari could only pray and pray that a miracle would come to heal his wife.

suningsih's family did not long after coming home from the hospital.want to talk to Elisha that his stepmother was sick, now again in the hospital. it's just that at Elisha's house there is no not yet home from work.

pas night someone told Suningsih that his wife sobari died. Suningsih, her older sister, including her mother, went to sleep at her house sobari.

Suningsih had not told her son that her stepmother was sick even now her stepmother died.Suningsih finally looked to her theme, Elisha was not there. Finally Suningsih took her mother to the house of Sobari. although Suningsih had separated but still good relations with Sobari.

Suningsih saw Sobari and the children were very hit, his wife's color sobari died 2 children, Sobari was touched, he had to how to raise his child alone.

The body of his wife sobari was bathed, after bathing using cloth when and after it was solatkan.all neighbors took royong to help sobari, who was not the only one,

time has also shown at 9 am, Sobari's wife in prayer at the mosque first. after being prayed directly go to the cemetery to be buried immediately.

After his return from the tomb of Elisha was already there, he had just returned home from work.Mamah Suningsih also told her to Elisha, that her stepmother had died earlier. Elisha did not respond to his mother, for he remembered her former behavior toward Elisha. Elisha also recalled the incident stepmother and father like to be sad and hate them very much. Elisha did not want to see his father.

Sobari and her children also let her go. Maybe Allah loves her more so she is in the first post. Sobari said in her heart:

" goodbye mom, I've calmed down there, I'm not sick anymore, I'll always pray for you "

Even everyone on the way, except my son Elisha did not come to the funeral of his stepmother. "I realize, O Allah, I have sinned and abandoned Elisha ".

Soon after Sobari wanted to meet Elisha, just Elisha could not meet because he was busy working continuously.Elisa until now he has not been able to forgive his father.

Elisha still remembers how his father treated him at that time.I asked my father to pay attention to him, just he did not listen to Elisha in the slightest. instead of watching his son from his stepmother.

Not long after his mother spoke with Elisha: remember well Elisha, how your father treated you first unkindly, that we as children must forgive the mistakes of your old father. maybe your father forgot/busy with the children there so he forgot us.

Elisha also obeyed his mamah's speech, later Elisha as mamahnya went to his father's house, to apologize because Elisha treated father unfavorably.

finally Elisha met his father and sister, he apologized to them, ayh also apologized to Elisha because his father had treated him badly. afterwards, after that, Elisha went to the tomb of his stepmother to pray and apologize because only this time Elisha could go to her tomb.

Alhamdulillah Elisha had forgiven his father, although Elisha still knows how the father treated Elisha not well.

Not to forget also to hold tahlilan at her father's house Elisha, Elisha participated in the event tahlilan stepmother that.although Elisha had forgiven her father keep distance with her father.

After his wife died his father Elisha often met with Elisha, because Elisha's father did not want to go back 2 times. His father Elisha was little by little like to give money and gifts to Elisha. although his father did not give much to Elisha, he took the time to come to meet Elisha.

Elisha also had time to tell with his theme, even though my father has changed and is good with me, even though my father has changed, I still can't forgive events where I wasn't noticed the same way I treated someone else rich. even I remember how the child he was given clothes while I was not, even though my clothes were dull, most reminding his children of eating good I even ate the rest of yesterday. how hurt if my father treated me like that. Even I was 6 years old had to take care of his children, ngurus stepmother is sick, then wash clothes. I'm so hit with all this, what am I supposed to do? I have to forgive my father /no? I am too hard to forgive my father.

fortunately, I still have a mother who loves me very much. I breakthrough my pain with hugs, affection and attention that is very extraordinary from my mother.

His friend Elisha also understood how he was, just his theme Elisha told Elisha, if you can forgive your father EL as much as you are sick to treat your father, if you can forgive your father, you still have to forgive your father, because there is no word of the former Father/father.the theme hugged Elisha 🤗