The Married With Sugar Daddy

Mother's Opinion

I'm stuck between two emotions right now, one side David loves me and the other side I love him but I haven't expressed it yet. Then what's the problem? She had two children that I didn't even know about when we were together for almost six months. The fact that he was a father, of course I was surprised by all of this and I was young, I was really not ready to be a stepmother, but I love David so I have to accept all this.

What bothers me right now is that his oldest son Aleah hates me. Alisa's youngest child is very kind, she's sweet and friendly to me, while her sister Aleah, is not.

It's been more than a week since David introduced us and I just spent my holidays with them and I've been able to accept all that. After I decided to give David one more chance, he suggested that we all go to breakfast. The four of us went to a nice restaurant, not far from David's house, while David tried to take his kids' hearts out so I could get to know each other better. It only took about five minutes Alisa could adapt to me, she was so friendly and interested in me, so cute and adorable. He is very active and chatty, he shows the tablet and the game he has in it. I have no doubt that he likes me. At breakfast she wanted to sit next to me and continue talking to me, she seemed very excited and happy to meet me. However, Aleah was not friendly. David told me that he was fourteen and already sitting in the eighth grade, but I believe David lied the boy was actually seventeen. Not because of his physical appearance I said that, but more because of his attitude. Aleah has an attitude that doesn't suit his age, he's too mature and I know he has a problem with me. He kept sending sharp glances towards me whenever David did not look, he had a rather arrogant attitude and even when I tried to talk to him, starting a conversation I received a lot of his cold attitude. Any attempt he made to be polite to me was a result of David reprimanding him for him every time trying to be rude. My feeling is he's going to cause a lot of trouble between me and his father.

"Darling, are you sure you're ready for this step? I mean being a mother is a big responsibility, you know," she said to me as we had lunch together and I told her all about the drama.

"Mom, I know. I really didn't become a mother, I just dated their father."

"Naomi, it's not just about dating David anymore. She has a family, so right now you're dating all of them" Mom told me, "I'm sure David dated you in the hope that you would accept his children and become a mother figure to them. It's a big responsibility you have to prepare for, isn't it? You can't be with a man if you're not with his kids either."

"I never said I didn't want to be with her kids. Alisa is very sweet and friendly but Aleah is very rude and disrespectful" I told her.

"How old is she saying again?" Mother asked.

"That's it, Alisa is much younger, little kids like her tend to be friendly and easier to get close to people whereas Aleah, she's a little girl, he's a teenager and he thinks your presence between them might be a threat to his father and mother's relationship" she told me.

"Mom, why does that sound like you're justifying his actions?"

"I do not justify his actions, only the facts of personal experience. I've hated your grandfather ever since your grandmother introduced us and especially when they got married. I want my mom and dad together, I don't want a stepdad," she told me, "Mom hates it when my dad goes and has an affair with another woman, too, I felt as if my relationship with her was going to end and my mother was officially replaced by that woman."

"But Ma'am, this situation is different. Their mother is dead and therefore I feel that I am not replacing her, nor am I planning to replace her. I'm not a threat to him. So I don't understand what the problem is with me."

"I think she already thinks of you as an evil stepmother, who will torture her and make her do all the housework like a maid, '" she laughed.

"Stop Mom, it's not funny," I whined. "I don't know if I can calm down if he's really like that."

"Naomi, you've only met her once, she's probably just surprised to see the fact that her father is dating again. Give him another chance, okay? Maybe in the end you'll be able to adapt to them" my mother told me, "You'll have to be patient with such children if you're serious about your relationship with David.