Part of me
Type For Ex
When I remember my ex wanting so much I wonder about him after parting with me...
You there how are you ?
Good luck there. Just remind you not to try to forget someone because the harder you try, the more you remember. Don't be sad I'm still alone after your departure my heart is still yours only I purposely gave a protective veil so as not to hurt as long as I used to.
I know you're showing him not for anything else but to see my response, right? I'm not like this because I'm overconfident but because I know your nature after a few times you tried to stick with my attitude. I'm getting used to you, but maybe we weren't meant for this moment until we split up and you accepted him and forgot me, I'm here to remember you but what right do I have? Who am I to you? I am no longer the person you loved as before. I know, I know, I'm not an approachable person but if you try harder I might collapse and I'll start believing in you but unfortunately you give up on my words. So I think you're not the one who was destined to be mine, you're not my soul mate maybe if we're partners we'll meet again at the right time but not for now. Nor do I impose on my creator to make us a mate. I will receive him who I will send for me. I don't want to vote wrongly or be too picky but honestly I am a voter, always voting because I'm reluctant to repeat the things that used to happen again. Maybe when we met I was still an innocent I who did not understand the word love but at this time I was forced by circumstances to understand how hard the world is, he said, how difficult life is and how much fun it is to play and be played with. Although played sick but I am still grateful for being played but that does not mean I want to always be played. I also thank those of you who have played me for telling me that it is very rare for anyone to be truly serious. Therefore I want a serious person, one who can guide me to be a useful person. I want someone who can take me to a place where I feel happy with him. I no longer care about the so-called friendship or friendship even I just want your attention that might make me able to continue to survive.
Oh, yeah I forgot you're no longer mine, so I didn't really expect for you to come back to me. It only occurs to pray that when we meet again we will not become enemies and we will remain friends or we will remain strangers. I'm not going to be a stranger to you because the reason you left is me even you're always happy. But I'm sorry that I haven't been able to be myself, I still expect even a fight for affection with my little nieces and nephews.
Again, again and again I remember the kindness you gave me even I missed you and wished you to come home into my arms. Selfish right? At first I said no but in time I wanted you. Yes right now I want your presence of advice and also your ridiculous manner of comforting me.
It is not wrong if there are people who mention I am materialistic because I also miss the snacks from you when we are together. I was the one who wanted something you gave without asking and saying much. You just give it and hope I take it. But I'm not the name that hides my desires. I lied to you if I spoke I didn't want it and I'm honest if I spoke I wanted it.
Many men say that women are hypocrites, but we are not hypocrites. I as a woman representing myself say that I am not a hypocrite, we just don't want to trouble you. Sorry, I don't want to represent all women yet we can have different opinions.
The realistic, spoiled, jealous, possessive and attitude that exists in women is absolutely of her and that is actually part of the male excess. If we are not realistic then what do men work for? If we are not spoiled, not jealous and possessive then are you ready to accept us an independent woman, a workaholic, and indifferent to you.
O line of men please appreciate the struggle of women. Please do not be selfish and do not be too hard on women because women's hearts are like glass cups. Fragile. But do not you also ignore that thick glass glass because it is forged will give birth to glasses of both quality and quantity.
About Women and Their Emotions
excerpted from the Incandescence of Psychologists
“Such crybaby, scolded by aja already cry.”
“Don't just say he brought baper dong!”
Women are identified as beings who put forward emotions in the face of problems. In addition, usually women will be easier to express the emotions they are feeling. Not infrequently, as women, we are considered as individuals who baper-an (carry feelings). However, there are actually other things that we can understand from the emotions experienced by women.
Uniqueness Builds Relationships Through Emotions
Women have the uniqueness to build relationships with people around them through emotions. Not all women easily express their feelings verbally. There are some women who are better able to express what is being felt through direct action. For example, when a woman is happy to meet someone, it is easier to express her happiness with a big smile, with a hug or a radiant face. Likewise, when women are feeling sad, crying can be one way to express their sadness.
Involving Emotions in the Face of Problems
Men can also be more emotional than women. However, it is possible that men have different ways of expressing emotions. The difference between men and women is in the expression of negative emotions. Studies in women from different cultures and countries show that women tend to feel negative emotions more often, such as guilt, fear and shame. The results of this study were also found in girls.
Males tend to use the left brain more while females generally alternate in using both the right hemisphere and the left brain. This underlies men are stronger in logic and decision-making based on facts while women tend to see things in outline (big-picture), have stronger emotions and rely on their intuition when making decisions.
In addition, women have a tendency to cope with stress or problems with emotionally based coping strategies, such as cognitive rumination or seeking emotional support. On the one hand, women will feel more negative emotions when rejected or ignored by their partner. Meanwhile, men feel more negative emotions when their partners ask for excessive closeness or intimacy.
“Peeling” Doesn't Mean Always Weak
Sometimes, we become inferior because of the view that women are weaker creatures than men. Women do look easy to experience mood swing, easily feel sad, and easy to cry. This is due to the tendency to express feelings. However, that does not mean every woman is identical to the terms “rapuh”, “emotional”, or “paperan”. With that in mind, let us understand ourselves better. Make it as a uniqueness that we have and remain a valuable and happy person.
Let's understand ourselves. Make it the unique thing we have. Be a precious and happy person.
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