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Garden Party Reception

Today is the day that Neng is waiting for, the day of the wedding reception that used to be almost in his grave with his depression after never being able to muve on from the past. After the incident met with Reza while in college, Neng was determined to no longer want to realize his dream of doing a garden party wedding reception with the concept of his mother's dreams. The dream of a mother who wants her daughter to marry the Sundanese custom of the manten meeting and when the party wears Indian bridal attire.

This time Neng only prepares two typical Sundanese wedding clothes and modern dresses only. Neng did not prepare the reception as his mother dreamed. For him to be able to experience or feel the name of the reception just feels like a dream. MUA has come starting to pickle five in the morning to decorate the bride at this time.

While makeup by MUA Neng is still daydreaming and pensive, Neng is now more open but not all revealed there is still something in her mind in her heart. He smiled when he remembered three weeks ago Lilis came and invited him to reminisce when he was still on the bench of SMK, often dancing Indian songs when he was missing his mother. Often singing in the celebration of old Indian songs favorite mother, although Neng now rarely do that but still memorize the song and movement.

That afternoon Neng and Lilis really returned to the SMK period, with Indian songs that jolted them both dancing exactly like Khan's shahru and Kajol dancing on "LADKI BADI ANJANI HAI" even Neng got on the makeup chair because he was enthusiastic about dancing to follow the beat of music and cheerful songs. At that time Neng really enjoyed himself being a cheerful person at SMK, but the memories were only kept in his heart.

Actually yesterday wanted to express her ideals to her husband about wanting to create a joint concept reception Sunda and India. Umi Anna was the one who prepared the wedding reception. She simply did not want to see her mother-in-law disappointed that Neng had to interfere.

Many times Neng took a deep breath, convincing his heart to be sincere and not demanding much. Muttering in this heart is more than enough to have ever done a wedding reception once in a lifetime. The real one was once in his grave deep, because remembering first that can never move on with others.

Neng gasped in shock after one of the MUA patted her on the shoulder, "It's over Brother, please stand up and change bridal clothes!"

"Thank you."

Neng wears his own dress sunda custom dress with bone white color, in line with the groom's shirt. Patiently assisted by MUA representatives until finished wearing it perfectly. The event will be held at ten in the morning, traveling from home for about an hour. Neng deliberately dressed up at home, even though he had prepared a hotel room for him on the grounds of not wanting to leave the family who came from the village.

"It's time to go, is it over?" ask Umi Anna who came with Ani's mother who was neatly wearing kebaya clothes.

'"Umi's done, it's just to wear shoes." replied Neng with a smile.

"Waaaah my mother's daughter is beautiful." Ani's mother was amazed to see Neng wrapped in Sundanese wedding clothes.

"Thank you, Mom."

The wedding party is held in a five-star hotel, the event is held in two versions, namely out door and in door, ball room is located next to the hotel in conjunction with a spacious hotel park. The hotel garden in magic became a very luxurious and magnificent garden party. Neng's dreams all materialized in the garden party concept even though Neng never asked this to her husband or mother-in-law.

The first event was held in the out door room after Neng had arrived at the park. The event at the beginning of the bride's party picked up the prospective groom called Ngabageakeun.The prospective groom was greeted with the mother of the prospective bride by draping jasmine flowers. Then, the bride-to-be walked to the pelaminan flanked by Mother Ani and Doctor Harry as a replacement for Asep's father.

After this should be a marriage contract, but because it was done two months ago, direct in doing Sungkeman to parents both parents of the bride and the groom to apologize for the mistakes. On this occasion Neng did not stop crying remembering his mother and father. The mother who had left him for a long time and the father who now did not know where he lived, the father who most did not want to meet him at this time.

In continue with Saweran that is with a position of sitting on a chair while waded, the ceremony of presenting was done on the bride. Parents give advice accompanied by a canticle. Giving advice is accompanied by the throwing of coins, rice, thinly sliced turmeric, and candy. Coins and rice symbolize prosperity, turmeric as a symbol of glory, while candy symbolizes the sweetness of married life. 

Sundanese traditional wedding procession followed by Meuleum Harupat ceremony. The bride burns the harupat rod the groom holds with a candle until it is lit, the harupat rod is put in a jug filled with water the bride holds, the harupat stem is lifted back and broken and then discarded. This procession means that the two brides are expected to always solve household problems together. The wife who holds a pitcher filled with water describes the role of the wife who plays a role to cool down every problem that burdens the heart and mind of the husband.

With the end of the ceremony Meuleum Harupat rangakain Sundanese traditional wedding ceremony is completed. The two brides are seated in the flops by both the parents of the bride and the groom on the right and left. Alfian sat in the middle among the bridegroom

Guests began to arrive one by one either from friends, friends, employees of business partners or colleagues. Everyone is welcomed with a friendly and happy. Allegedly from the beginning it turned out to be true, Doni came in his shabby clothes standing at the door of the hotel from the initial procession of the bride and groom arriving until the guests began to arrive one by one. He was almost two hours standing at the door of the hotel without even moving.

Because of their pity, one of the security hotels approached him and asked the needs of Doni. After Doni frankly to security, directly forwarded by the private security of the bride led by Junaidi, "Report Pak, sir, this man wants to meet both brides or the bride's parents."

"Report received, thank you for our follow-up," Junaidi replied while replying to the security that gave respect.

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