
This morning and a half afternoon, I and mas baim chek out of papa's hotel.we join hands, occasionally look at each other and smile.The sky looks bright, as if2 also share happiness for us.
I am so happy, even though I have never felt like dating today as if I had a lover, this hand I have never felt from any man, this is the first time my hand has been held by a man2 who has been halal for me.
Me and I are like lovers when I just got married last night.I want to enjoy every second, minute with him.
" god, let me be with him, accompany him the joys and sorrows of "my heart.
Mas baim opened the car door for me, I went straight into his car and sat sweetly installing a seat belt.mas baim sitting behind his wheel.
" dear, we go to the house of mama and papa first yes pick up zaskia "mas baim start the car engine.
" yes, I miss him. Last night he didn't call me at all "
" zaskia is already big, maybe he no longer wants to bother us dear "
" yes, yes, "I laugh to justify the words of mas baim.
The journey to the parents' house takes approximately 1 and a half hours.I took a smartphone in my backpack, I utak atik several applications in it.
" dear, what's busy doing?? "
" this mas, again check some applications and update it. all reply to some chat friends, who congratulate us. Many of them are not present constrained by distance and time. a lot of college friends who know me, shocked about the news of our marriage "
" why surprise, dear ?? "
" fuck would never be close to anyone mas, maybe they are shocked in the news adek married without knowing who my future husband "
" when have you never been with any man?? do you have a past like my dear?? " mas baim stroked my head covered with this syar'i hijab. mas baim slightly shrunk the volume of mucis we listened to.
" not really mas, yes never deket same who2. at that time adek want to focus on college only, I do not want to break the focus because thinking of hal2 that will hinder my lecture. mas may not know, so the doctor was heavy mas.but adek really enjoyed every process, many stages that must be passed starting from the stated graduation, and became a student of the medical faculty, OSCE, and so, written exam, oral exam, and then scription after that passed S1 of medicine.even then I have not been a doctor mas "
" continasss ?? "
" after I graduated, I was only a medical graduate. Belom became a doctor. I could not work as a professional doctor. I still have to take the progam of doctors profession, say KOAS. there I became a young doctor, in this Doctor Profession program, I rotated from part to part in the hospital to study the cases of general practitioners listed in the Indonesian Doctors Competency Standard (SKDI). There are about 400 cases that I have to be able to handle without help, such as internal medicine, surgery, child disease, womb, etc. a coas will not be paid. In fact, I still have to pay tuition fees to the faculty in order to study at RS mas. Some koas are very happy when entering this rotation system because they can interact with patients directly and see cases in real life, not in an environment that has been set during college. On the other hand, some people do not enjoy this system (read: very tormented) because it has been confronted by the fact that a doctor must endure working 24 hours without sleep, eating, drinking, and so on, go to the toilet, breathe (okay this lebay), and others to forge knowledge in RS. And at the end of each rotation, there will be tests as well. The test method that I and my friend2 koas face is Mini Case Examination (Mini-C-Ex): where we will interview, examine, analyze, and prescribe drugs to a patient directly while being supervised by a lecturer/preceptor. In some rotations and parts, sometimes there are additional exams, such as oral exams, X-ray photo reading exams in the radiology section, etc. and my koas lasted about 1.5-2 years until I was declared to pass the doctor's profession program "I explained passionately to my handsome husband.
" justssss baby?? " mas baim is still focused on listening to my explanation behind his wheel.
" After I was declared to pass all rotations, I was required to take the Student Competency Exam of the Doctor's Professional Program (UKMPPD). Well, well, This UKMPPD will test my skills and knowledge to handle approximately 400 cases in SKDI mas, These 400 cases are what I should be able to handle either partially or fully when I become a general practitioner "
" it turns out to be long too, baby, what is it already a doctor ?? "
" yeah already a doctor, right after that I was graduated again and pledged the doctor's oath.but a doctor who can not practice?? "
" loh, how is it. right you already have a doctor's degree should have been able to practice dong dear?? "
" not yet, the ballom can !! because So. a doctor in Indonesia can only practice his own work if he has pocketed the following 3 things:
* Doctor of profession degree from university
* Registration Certificate (STR) issued by the Indonesian Medical Council
* Practice License (SIP) issued by the local branch of the Indonesian Doctors Association.
well this phase is what INTERNSHIP says, during the Internship period that lasts 1 year, I will practice work to get STR patent. I will practice work like a general practitioner, I will practice work like a general practitioner, but still under the responsibility and protection of other senior general practitioners.lah, this internship period is different from the time when school and koas. jasaku at this time more “ is considered” because at this time I get a salary or get living assistance from the government whose nominal current is more or less the same as the Regional Minimum Wage in Jakarta.. so mas "
" then how can you decide to take a specialist, is not becoming a general practitioner good baby ?? what is the reason you took a specialist?? " ask again.
" i want to be able to sharpen my knowledge to become a specialist who specializes in one area of disease and become a referral doctor from other fields, On average this specialization program lasts between 4-5 years. regarding the reasons why? um long story, but I promise next time I'll tell you "
" Oalah, don't think being a doctor is good, easy, it turns out that there are also long stages, but you promise me that you will tell me your reason?? mas want to know, what underlies my beautiful wife is taking a child specialist??there are many other specialist areas "
Finally, after traveling quite far from the hotel to the parents' house mas baim, we also arrived in front of the gate of the luxury house mama and my father-in-law.mas baim opened the window of the car, and, and clawed a few times, not intermittently the gate opened and appeared a security guard who was very young but his body was tall and large.
" sorry sir, I was again lifting the gallon. in the empty water post." explained the security guard.
" gapapa mas joko, relax aja. "mas baim back forward his car to the yard of the house.
tin tin..
The car is beautifully parked parallel to some of the cars in the yard of my in-laws.me and mas baim get off the car simultaneously, then hold hands towards the house.
" assalamualaikum, maama, papa, zaskia my daughter?? " i followed the steps of mas baim from behind and still clasped his hands.
" waaalaikumsalam son, oh my god, who has come home. mama kirain is still in the hotel, why not ngabarin mama?? how is it baby, tired?? home mama far yaa. "my mama-in-law hugged and kissed my forehead alternately with mas baim.
" yes ma, good enough, but alhamdulilah was on the road smoothly and we talked a lot so do not feel distant, arrived2 nyampek like that "
" thank God, have you eaten, son?? " ask my mother-in-law to my husband.
" already ma, it was breakfast half afternoon at the hotel.trus leave here! zaskia where's maa?? then papa, how come it doesn't look?? "
" zaskia may be in her room again, if papa just came out.he said for a while, maybe soon home.you guys stay right ?? "
" it seems like baim and adek do not stay overnight maa. insya god later tonight we go straight home to a house that has been prepared for adek maa, dowry house. we will not go home for long.. "
" Ooo like that, yasudaah gapaa. mama is up to you and your wife aja. about the old house how ?? "
" later baim will ask andhika to take care of the sale of the house, baim wants to start a new life as adek and zaskia maa, baim does not want to remember the slightest thing about the barrel, baim wants to start a new life as adek and zaskia maa, neither the shadow nor the memory of the house.baim wanted to throw it all away. "mas baim grasped my hand, and smiled at me. I know, why he is like this, why he is like this, maybe all this time the memories that made her traumatized.I rubbed the back of her hand to give confidence, though I myself did not know and did not expect to occupy the house given to me as our wedding dowry so soon.
" mama will support you fully dear, may you and your mother-in-law always be happy.. "
" baim and adek will go to zaskia's room first maa, we miss a day not met "
" yeah already then, my granddaughter must be very fond of. daddy and his mother came home today "me and mas baim nodded simultaneously, and pampered towards the top floor of the room where zaskia was located.
tok tok
" daddy, motheraaaa "zaskia opened the door, and hugged us. I kissed her forehead and cheeks. girl bought me, my son though not born from my womb let me always love you.
" dear, really from semalem to today is not a phone call mother. mother kangen at all you "mas baim just look at us like a statue, only her lips there is a smile exuding happiness.
" zaskia does not want to disturb mother and daddy "
" h my dear. "I hugged her again.
" don't you miss daddy son ?? "
" yaelahh dad, it's envy. kangen it's dad, but a little hahahaha "mas baim hugging and researching zaskia, I looked at him with a warm feeling that spread in the recesses of my heart. the girl laughed so cheerfully, I was happy for her happiness.
A father, will never be able to see his daughter hurt in any case.believe and disbelieve, the term seems to have been attached to the minds of everyone.
How not, a father is indeed described as the strongest and foremost guard for his children, especially his daughters.
Although he did not give birth and breastfeed his children, the father had a strong inner bond also to his children, especially his daughters.
No wonder if many terms, ‘Dad is my first and last love,’ from a daughter who loves her father, even more than she loves her partner or husband later.
" just stay happy like this, mom, kid..
I'll give you the best I can for you "unbeknownst to me I shed tears at the happiness that lies before me.