The Beautiful Doctor is My Mother
Official Application II
Alhamdulilah, 1 hour of our journey to his house was given smoothness.The morning road by noon was not too crowded and jammed.
Finally we arrived in front of the house looks simple luxury this. me and my extended family got down from the car. cousin2ku busy carrying the delivery that has been prepared.we entered the gate of his house, walking in tandem to the inside. seen from a distance my future in-laws and my future wife welcome our arrival.
" assalamualaikum "my family is compact to celebrate my special event.
" waalaikumsalam, mari2 please "me and my extended family group greet one by one the prospective in-laws and the future wife.
After we all shook hands, we entered the house and we sat on a red carpet look luxurious and expensive that spread throughout the living room.
My future wife is sitting right next to her parents, she looks very beautiful and graceful wearing peach color kebaya in line with her hijab. Her makeup polish is very natural, the visible streak of happiness in each smile adds to its beauty.
" please, in the first incipi cake, sorry sober yes jeng "to my mother-in-law who still do not know her name suave.
" could be this, this alhamdulilah is very enough for all of us. sorry yes jeng so troublesome "look bu dhe serly, welcome the suave suave candidate in-laws.
We all tasted some cakes and drank the drinks that my future wife's family had prepared.
" what if this silahturahmi event starts immediately "the family on my side, pak de subki husband of bu de serly offers.
" please, monggo2" said one of the families of my future wife.
" here, sir, the candidate besan just directly at the core of the event. our intention and purpose here is for Ibrahim and his extended family to ask for a daughter named nak Anggieta to be a wife for my nephew baim and mother for his son zaskia " mr. de started this silahturahmi event with full khusyu'.
" but before our answer and the big family get.let us the big family recognize themselves.especially candidates besan njenengan. if you already know it means you can love each other2an. isn't that so?? haha "pak dhe laughed at everyone present.
" please deck samsul, deck ratna first ! " sir dhe pointed at both my parents and I was beside him
" first2, Assalamualaikum wr wb. I as a parent of ibrahim, my name is samsul prasetyo, and this is my wife ratna purnama sari. we only have baim as our only son, we have, baim has no siblings. Therefore we brought a big family to support our son, considering this is a new thing although not the first for our son's life, candidates besan. previously I want to be frank on the njengan about my son, and I am sure njenengan more or less already know it. Our son is currently in the status of a widower.why widower? because our son and my wife had seen the betrayal of his ex-wife and another man in a hotel, and a while after that our son filed a divorce lawsuit. at that time our granddaughter Zaskia was approximately 11 years old. After the incident of betrayal and divorce was our son, Abraham became very quiet and cold.to anyone he only spoke when he wanted to talk, he said, and did when he wanted to do but he loved his daughter very much. Our son suffered the trauma of his disease name Hyperarousal "papa explained.
Hyperarousal is a disease condition caused by complications of Post traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). The panic caused by the bitter and painful trauma can cause severe disease effects. Mostly someone affected by hyperarousal has a long trauma.
In PTSD, the symptoms are sleep disturbances and nightmares all the time, while in this hyperarousal coupled with other things such as feeling empty and feeling very scared of the danger that happens to him and his heart pounding.
" until the end, our son was in an accident and was helped by his daughter.His great hope is that we are as parents so that my son Ibrahim can recover from all his trauma. finally unexpected2 my wife wanted a daughter njengan to be a friend to my son to exchange stories and information, joint advice so that the trauma experienced baim little by little fade. said mental health specialists who deal with baim trauma can only lose one of them when baim wants to socialize with women again, example friends.tih2 as friends, as friends, my son even fell in love with a njenengan princess that we have not known for a long time.for that, mr. bu prospective besan, sir, I am here asking the njenengan to be able to make nak anggie as the wife of my son and mother for my granddaughter.great hope I, njengan received my son's proposal and gave blessing to both of them in order to get married !! " father added, I am very grateful to have loving parents and always support me in both success and failure.
My future-in-law, listening intently to what my parents said.It is now my turn to fight for it.
" good afternoon everyone, Assalamu’alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakaatuh "I greet and then look at my future in-laws.
" aunty and big family, thank you for today welcoming and receiving this sirahturahmi rope. I want both parents of the future wife and my future wife to know my personal.introduce, I would like to, my name is MUHAMMAD NAUFAL IBRAHIM PRASETYO , thank God I currently work in one of the large companies that my father led, my father decided to give up the company to me and now I lead it. in other words I am the CEO of the company PRASETYO CORPORATION. om aunty and a big family, as my father explained about everything it is true. I am an only child, he said, I'm a 33-year-old widower having a daughter named zaskia "I embrace my beloved daughter and introduce her to my new world
" my intention and purpose here is to invite my extended family, to ask daughter om and aunt to be a wife and mother for my child.and this guide is to ensure what relationship I will get? o aunt let me be your daughter-in-law, let me make your only daughter happy. let me be your daughter's grief-loving friend.let me be her world "
" waalaikumsalam, mr. samsul, ratna nak baim ma'am and the extended family who were present at noon today. I as the parent of my daughter, my name hasi sasono, I am, and my wife and my wife Syahfitri. put all the decisions completely on my daughter.we as parents want to give the best for my daughter. we will give our blessing to who will be our daughter-in-law.we do not want a daughter-in-law like this and that, enough daughter-in-law that makes my daughter always happy "
" dear, my son. mama and papa leave all these decisions to you. Please every word that is spoken at this time you value and you consider. Marriage is not a play. please give your answer to the man2 who wants to make you as a wife and mother for his children later "
" well, introduce om aunty, and the extended family of mas baim. My name IS ANGGIETA DEWI SYAHFITRI. I am a pediatrician in one of the hospitals in Surabaya. before I consider and decide, I am a pediatrician in one of the hospitals in Surabaya, let me have the opportunity today to ask some questions to mas baim as my future husband. later I do not want after the wedding, there is a misunderstanding. is mas baim willing to answer when I ask questions?? sorry for some of these questions to convince me about the personal mas baim, and to give the right decision.are you willing ?? " he smiled at me.
" please deck, god willing if mas baim is able. mas will answer it. hopefully adek can accept it "my answer. I know he will start to ask me questions. he looked at me sharply as if he wanted the right answer from my heart and lips.
" Say people, love comes from the eyes to the heart. What are you about? What made you fall in love with me for the first time? "
" as I said the other day, I fell in love with you because of your attitude, and your nature.your gentle, insightful speech was able to fascinate me. All that you gave my son, the attention of understanding, all that you gave me, affection makes me fall in love with you "
" I'm far from perfect. Then what makes you sure that I am the future mother of your children later? "
" i saw a future when I was with you. I felt like I had recovered from my trauma since I knew you. Really, give me a chance to be your world, our child's world. we build our world together based on loyalty and love "
" Many couples change after marriage. They become not as warm as the courtship/introduction time first. How about your projection of our relationship after marriage ?? "
" mas will not disappoint you, mas will not make you change, because that's how you make me fall in love.Be yourself. even though we have been married there should be nothing closed2i we must be open to each other so that there is no disappointment, which will make us change.deck, many couples are changed because of a sense of urgency towards their partners. we will learn together so as not to disappoint each other . "my answer is full of confidence.
" Because marriage is made up of us. Not just me or you. So are you ready to go through everything from our point of view and no longer you or me after this?? "
" we will always be together, having conversations, exchanging ideas, exchanging information.sharing stories, sharing tasks when married later.we just need to explore each other in order to live together all together.. like I said !! ready to deck . "
" I know you'll be the ultimate breadwinner. But I don't want to be at home. Can I keep working without putting aside household matters?? "
" deck, mas know you're a doctor. You need a lot of people. You are very meaningful for the health of their child2. mas will try to understand you. mas will support you. but if you can be honest, you can be honest, mas want you to open your own practice, without having to work in the hospital. mas do not want you exhausted, both mind and energy. let mas who struggle to support our household "
" I know the child and the sustenance is the destiny of Allah. But please assure me, will tomorrow and beyond you remain by my side when those two things are still difficult for us to have? "
" believe me, soul mate of death sustenance and son of all gods who set. about the child, if later me or you are troubled.we will support each other instead of leaving each other.we still have zaskia, we still have zaskia, don't worry about things that aren't necessarily happening, like you said to me at that time. just go for it "
" one more question, are you still willing to answer?? she smiled so sweetly, I just put my head on.
" Are you ready to keep what you are willing to do? Because I know a real man like you will never break a promise,”
" mas will not deny anything that you have said, witness everything that is here.The man can only be trusted in his actions, not his words. mas won't promise what you can't give, but I'll do anything to keep you happy "
" thank you mas "his face illustrates the satisfaction that haqiqi.I hope there is nothing wrong with any of my answers.
