The Beautiful Doctor is My Mother
Papa Best
A family that feels more complete if there is a father and mother and children of–ak who accompany him. Real life is harder than just a fantasy. Life takes a great struggle but for a father life it feels easier to live because he has happiness in a family in the form of “love”.
Papa was the idol of my life, who was so patient in educating and caring for me. papa was also encouraging in my life and could always be my motivator when I fell deep into the darkness and so cleverly he positioned himself as a parent and also a friend to his children.
To me Papa is a firm, wise man and someone who has power in his family. But sometimes we are afraid of him when he is assertive, even though papa does all that because papa is very dear to his family, especially I am his daughter.
Papa is a best friend to me, because papa is most sad to see me daughter in trouble even if I am pinned down by a man of his choice, this man who was going to be my husband was my own choice.it became increasingly clear that I also felt what my father and mother felt even though they were good at covering it up.
Actually papa is the person who is most attentive to us his son2, when papa is firm to us does not mean he does not love us, that is one of the attitudes of attention. When our children are sad, we will always complain to the mother, even though I know you also want to listen to our story, how the activity, busyness, and,our close friends and what problems are happening to our children .
That's one of the reasons why I've decided to focus on college and my job, because I want to meet a prospective husband who is like papa. without dating and other2 like young people in general, because I want to meet a husband who is like a father, until finally I met mas baim and he convinced me through his eyes that he was the man2 I had been looking for all this time. the affection shown to his daughter made me sure that she was a different man2 than most men2 I had ever met. let alone that she was a widower, raising her own daughter. it's gonna be hard, isn't it?? it became my own value in my eyes.
Having a prospective husband virgin or widower is actually just a matter of status. The matter of widower getting divorced or not, it doesn't make me fear the unreasonable.
Although in our society, a girl getting married to a widower is still considered negative, but actually there is no harm either. After all, the status he has also returned single.which is important not to seize the property of others. Although we can not get rid of the stigma, but remember that the people who live this relationship are us, not them.
For me to be married to a widower or not, most importantly he is responsible, loving, and a good role model for me and his children later.
This can happen, especially because the man tends to already have more experience and may have been much more "ripe" in fostering relationships.
According to child and family psychologist Roslina Verauli, M.Psi., Psychologist, there are many factors that encourage us to like widows or older couples.
Not only that, men who are more mature have a way of view and mindset that is much better than their teenage years. How to love a partner, manage emotions, solve problems, to his ability to negotiate will be better at the age of 20 years and above.
According to psychologist Fanny Sumajouw, S.Psi. Psi., there is nothing wrong with the status of the widower. But what needs to be understood is that someone is better off marrying a partner of the opposite sex, and not the same kind.
“So, marrying a widower (or widow) is not a problem, and there is nothing wrong when viewed from the psychological side. There is no guarantee whether the status of the widower is worse than that of a single or a virgin,”.
Regarding marriage with a widower who has had children or does not have children, it is not a guarantee whether the marriage is good or not.
As I said earlier, this has become my own value in my eyes.I have judged a lot, and considered everything before saying yes.
