The Beautiful Doctor is My Mother
Obligations After Marriage
Marriage is a part of worship for every Muslim. By marriage, a person is considered to have completed half of his religion.
There are many things that can be avoided by marriage, such as behaviors that contain vices and illegal acts, adultery. Marriage is considered full of blessings if it is addressed to God and preached for worship.
In order for a marriage relationship to run smoothly and full of blessings, each individual must understand his obligations in the family. Including for married Muslim women, there are several obligations that must be done.
According to the Qur'an and the hadith, a righteous wife is one who follows the words of her husband. The husband is the priest and leader of married women.
In An-Nisaa verse 34, God says, "The man is the leader of the women. For Allah has overstated some of them (men) for others (women) and because they (men) have given up their possessions. So the righteous woman is one who obeys Allah and keeps herself when her husband does not follow what Allah wills."
Of course, what must be followed is the rules or advice related and not deviated from what has been taught and commanded by Allah SWT. Following what the husband says is not just because of the husband, but because it is also mentioned by God.
The second obligation is that the wife must be obedient to the husband. Just like the previous obligation, this obedience is present on the basis of Allah SWT.
The obedience of a wife to her husband is equal to the jihad of men. This is said when a woman came before the Prophet and said, "O Prophet, I represent the women to face the master (to inquire about something). War is obligated by God only for men, if they are wounded, they are rewarded and if killed, they are alive with God. again his provision (with the fruits of Heaven). And we women are always obligated to them (to serve them and to help them), and can we have the reward of war?"
Hearing this, the Apostle said, "Tell the women whom you meet that obediently obey the husband and his reward is balanced with the war reward for defending the religion of Allah. But very few of you run it."
After marriage, Muslim women must also keep their aurat. She must not show the aurat even have the intention to invite or fish to a man who is not her husband. To keep the aurat is to respect himself.
In the letter of An-Nuur verse 31, Allah says, "Tell the believing woman: “Must they withhold her views, and ************, and let them not reveal her adornment, he said, except the (ordinary) one from him. And let them cover the veil before it, and show not its adornment except unto their husbands, or their fathers, or the fathers of their husbands, or their sons, or the sons of their husbands, or their brothers, or the sons of their brothers, or the sons of their sisters, or the Muslim women, or the slaves they had, or the slaves they had, or men who have no desire (to women) or children who do not yet understand women's law."
In a hadith, it is explained that a woman should not mistreat her husband with a job that satisfies him and makes him hurt.The duty of a husband is to provide for the family, and, nemun as a wife must be able to understand her husband's ability to smooth over his family.
Prophet Muhammad SAW in Al-Hadts called once said, "Whosoever (wife) persecuted her husband and gave the burden of work that is not worth the burden (i.e., husband) and hurt him, he said, the angels of mercy (Angels of Mercy) and the Angel of Punishment (angels of punishment) do it (i.e., wife). Whosoever (wife) is patient with the painful deeds of her husband, Allah will give her like the reward that Allah has given to Asiyah and Maryam Bint Imran."
