SHACKLED IN LOVE IN A NEIGHBORING COUNTRY

Marriage Qutbah 2 and SAH

"Until marriage the husband must precede the mother rather than the wife, marry only the mother. Understand gentlemen! Mothers! If not sincerely his son married in full responsibility with his wife do not need to allow his son to marry single for life."

The Prophet told his married people to be more alive to separate from the oarangtua and in-laws even though his house was as big as a palace. For in the household there can be only one king one queen. You have only one king, two queens, these two queens will fight over one king."

"Fifth, the rights of the husband and the responsibilities of the son."

The boy must take responsibility on his new mother his wife is wrong."

If the living of a boy must be passed on to his new mother his wife because her mother who has given birth to him into the world until such success as this until adulthood comes the woman to accept the solution only. That's right, but...

"The words above I have found the most rift in the household. Back again to the first point not only the boy who was born and raised by his mother to success but the daughter as well. Do you think girls are born out of banana hearts, or out of crocodile holes?"

Haha

"Until marriage the husband must precede the mother rather than the wife, marry only the mother. Understand gentlemen! Mothers! If not sincerely his son married in full responsibility with his wife do not need to allow his son to marry single for life."

Hahah

Back laughter breaks into silence.

The guest's laughter shrieked his ears, as Khaizan and I tried to hold back the laughter of fear of embarrassment at the sight of people. Funny about this ustadz talk.

"Boy boys are responsible to their parents. But, the truth is that it was enough that the needs of other small new families including birth mothers.

"The seven responsibilities of girls after marriage, remain devoted to parents provide affection, understanding, providing clothing, food and boards for parents if their parents are less able. No, girls live in luxurious houses parents live in huts of pain between life and death no child to visit especially those who do not have a boy it should not be yes!"

Visiting and caring for him when sick and dead or hiring a nurse may be allowed. Husband should not forbid if not his son who takes care of his parents who else? Others are impossible.

Girls if you have a personal income must provide parental needs as a thank you to the parents who raised you earlier. That is their duty. But, as a good child would want to repay the services both for the world and the hereafter for them."

And once again for husbands there is no right to forbid his wife to be devoted to a parent like a wife does not have the right to forbid a husband to be devoted to her parents."

"Eighth, the problems in the household must be there. There is no household as straight as a highway. There is marriage tested by the economy, tested by the child, tested by the husband, and tested by the husband, tested by the wife in the test by merua and brother-in-law and tested by outsiders who enter as snakes into your household. The devil will continue to tempt Adam's children into hell. Both demons are human and real demons."

Hha

Your household belongs to both of you, not to anyone else. This is aja wife who is demanded to cover your husband's disgrace but the husband is little bit not to mention his mother deserves a child Elementary husband like anything that makes the wife in the same enemy of your family. Don't be like that, husbands."

Allah is so good about my marriage. His Ustadz describes in detail the law of marriage tampa biased. The impression of family relationships of the indigenous Malay people in this city is very strong, it turns out this key that makes them very high on the string of brotherhood.

I'm sure 100% sure a lot of people are overheated hearing this talk. Perhaps different schools of worship also believe that it is also what makes someone selfish and harms one party.

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LEGITIMATE

Unaware the word SAH sounds out loud in the ear. Today, this moment I have legitimately become a wife of a Khaizan man whom I have known for 10 years.1000 stories we have gone through still can not believe he is my soul mate.

"Congratulations, yes. May you be a sakinah, mawadah and warahmah amiin family."

"Amiin, thanks. Hope you catch up soon, yeah!" I said to Silvia one of my former schoolmates. This kid bullies me a lot because my face doesn't match the standards of his gang.

"Mother."

"Beautiful to your husband, Fa. Ask for the recipe to approach men like you dong." Said one of my schoolmates again the feeling of never hearing this guy.

"Ikhtiar can do it."

"Don't focus on finding a free handsome, most willing to cheat anyway."

I don't know who said that. If that's all I give up the same almighty.

"Diaha! May your marriage last all the way to the jannati temple. The bounty of righteous and righteous descendants. And also may the children of his descendants become useful children for the religion of the nation and the state, amiin."

"Amiinu. Thank you, rosa."

That's a line of words I received today. Although not all the friends in the shrimp come, some are not invited also come. Khaizan knows I don't have many friends. May this marriage last and in the gift of children who are kind and amiin.

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