SHACKLED IN LOVE IN A NEIGHBORING COUNTRY

Black over white 2 and wedding Qutbah

Shackled in Love in Negeri 81

"Is your word to be believed? At first the talk of the man wuih like the presidential candidate pidatao only ends up hoax," said my father.

"Dad," said the mother.

"God, this is the letter. If I don't keep my word, Shifa can take me to court."

"What's the point of marrying the end of the marriage to the court?"

"Dad. Do not be ashamed of the same problem as our future daughter-in-law. Look at the guy outside peeking at us."

"It's okay, aunt."

"If we can talk I believe, I ask for a dowry of 800 million dollars."

"Astagfirullahalazim, father. It's not good to ask for dowry for that many girls. It's the same as throwing out. Let the prospective daughter-in-law give the dowry as much as possible than the shifa in the cap women who are not good make it difficult for her prospective partner to propose it. Thankful that someone wants it if not later? People want to worship in the difficult. I haven't had a shifa in all this time either."

"Sorry om! sorry aunt! I'm ready to give you as much dowry as you say."

"Zan...! My words are not good as the nature of the father who from the past until now has always been troublesome.

"That's dong." said Semringah's father. I don't know how many sins father from childhood never worship married nor responsible to us.

"No need, Zan.

"I understand aunt. A good woman will not trouble her future priest. Best of all, the cheapest woman dows. But, the Prophet used to propose Sayidina Khadijah with a very expensive dowry, even though he ended up giving all his wealth to people who needed it was a treasure also when he had not embraced Islam. After Sayidina Khadijah died he proposed to sayidina Aisyah with a much larger dowry because growing up a girl was also the same as raising a boy in need of struggle and blood sacrifices."

Girls in the birth, born, in care, in school right up to a high education until marriage. After marriage many daughters are disappointed in their husbands and families."

Therefore, as a good man, I am willing to pay the dowry as requested. As an expression of my gratitude to om and aunt who have raised Shifa to become educated and independent women."

"If you're serious about going with my son, are you willing to go home at least once a year? don't be such a big-minded person out there. Now the modern era is not in the days of jahiliyah anymore whose thinking is still narrow because of the lack of knowledge of the afterlife."

If you don't want to go home, don't want to be with my son. If one day you just want to be the same shifa but not the same family means you're the biggest liar in my family's history.."

"Alright tant, I'm following aunt's advice."

"Take your parents here too so we can talk about this well" said the mother.

"When auntie?"

"When did? Let's set the date. No need to be afraid for a long time there will be temptations outside that make you not get married."

"All right." My mother's feelings have changed much more than they used to. Ah, my mother is my paradise that will not be replaced.

***

"How are you feeling, Zan?" finished talking to our father and mother around this place. Many bird nest PTs are standing around this but it is difficult to recruit indigenous people.

"Gerah, Fa." The weather is hotter than the weather in Jakarta, batam or in Malaysia. But that's not the answer I want.

"I've been dealing with people like them a lot. So, I just casually consider it entertainment."

"Did your heart say nothing else?"

"God does not."

***

Wedding qutbah

Wedding qutbah

In the mosque near the residential residents here we held a sacred wedding vow. Not many people came because we didn't spread the invitation.

I refused my father to be my guardian and did not want Khaizan to shake hands with him. Forgive your future wife Khaizan who has not forgiven my father's treatment. I want to find a guardian for my marriage. But, the mother forbids fear of neighbors thinking of all kinds when the nasab is good.

Dad was very disappointed, khaizan just kept quiet to see us before SAH, khaizan did not want to interfere in family affairs. Be my guardian fortunately he came home.

Before Ijab kabul, ustadz gave a lot of marriage qutbah. I think as in the soap opera that live live SAH immediately has become husband and wife. There are so many talks we hear.

"First, a woman from childhood is born, cared for, raised and, in school until she is educated by her parents. A woman before marriage is the responsibility of her father until marriage. After marriage her responsibilities from the sandang, food and board were transferred to her husband."

What I was told by ustadz my heart screamed my father never supported me let alone take full responsibility for my rights as a child until the age of 27.

"The second, when the daughter is married obedient and his service to the husband is more important than his parents. Wherever she goes, including visiting a parent who is sick or dies, must be permission from her husband. Then, does the husband not allow his wife then does the wife have to die? God, give us reason and thought to think which good is right."

It often happens like this in the world of marriage most husbands and selfish only know one postulate cut off anyway then as good as he treats his wife. In modern times I consider such a man to be mentally ill. Walking in front of the camera may be a time of filial piety to parents only in prohibited.

"A good husband he does not forbid his wife to be devoted to his parents. Marriage is actually uniting two strangers in a sacred promise into one pair and uniting both families is also not separating the wife and her family. So, getting married includes adding a family huh!"

Consecration to the in-laws for the son-in-law is also mandatory. Some say no, there's something wrong with him. Because his parents, his wife is. Many 27 years old daughter now if not working means her parents have given her a decent life until the age of 27 years. By the age of 18, boys and girls should be able to be independent."

As a husband do not be selfish just because one of your arguments so treat his wife and parents as good as your heart that includes harassment of Islam.

The third Right of the wife:

"The husband is obliged to give the wife rights such as providing ...!

Sandang, it's in the form of his wife's education, his wife's personal spending money and other needs,"

Food, it's the kitchen and nutrition needs of the wife and children."

Board, it's trying a decent place to live like a house. This is one of the most common problems in households. The husband does not provide a proper place to live for his wife. Already married hitchhiking at home in-laws, in the same enemy as in-laws and in-laws. Husband does not care about his wife, at the same instigation of his mother and brother, husband trust aja, wife restrains, hungry, upset stomach and eat heart up to the stomach."

Can not be fully responsible to the wife according to the ability to let the wife lament the colonized life in the house of her in-laws is a husband like that rancid."

Haha