SHACKLED IN LOVE IN A NEIGHBORING COUNTRY

SHACKLED IN LOVE IN A NEIGHBORING COUNTRY
Career women and Ordinary Housewives are both good and accomplished



Shackled in Love in Negeri 70


"meaning?"


Khaizan says I'm not doing well? Maybe it's because I don't want to have a relationship that is not certain. I thought long if something happened to me again later, I was also the wrong one and the most lost. Let me be stamped out of the way I end up losing.


"Don't you have a girlfriend?"


"I'm not thinking about a boyfriend."


"So, is there still a chance dong?"


"What opportunity?"


"A chance to be first and last for you? I may not be your first love but it will be your last love." My last love? What does Khaizan mean? Isn't he married and has a wife?


"Are you not married?"


"Absolutely not yet. I've been looking for you for 5 years. According to the story of Daffa and Royan you are in Jakarta studying at Esa superior university. I'm stalking your social media with absolutely no news."


"Then why did you disappear and then the tip came looking for me?"


"I disappeared for a while. Return to Jakarta and Sumatra to take care of the business that I have pioneered from zero time in Bengkalai. After that I went back to Malaysia and got you guys no more."


"Have you lost us?"


"Initially yes but after that I tried to do business finally forgot and finally we met again."


"Who is the pregnant woman you were with at the airport?"


"Which pregnant woman?"


"Then, when I drove the indri to the airport got you with him crossing with a romantic together like a married couple."


"You see me first? Why not greet me? She's my friend's wife I'm taking to the airport to come back to Indonesia."


"I thought you were husband and wife. So, she's not your wife? Where is her husband?"


"His husband is overtime."


"Then what is your real relationship with Haura and who is your real boyfriend? Looks like you guys have a secret."


"Then, Haura and I were betrothed by our parents at that time Haura was still in 3rd grade High School. He refused to see my picture and he wanted to. We chatted and I felt like he wasn't like me. We lost contact for a few months it turns out she was depressed because I was missing no news."


Oh, that means the girl who marked Khaizan on her blue logo app is Haura. How, I don't ya?


"Oh, does that mean the girl who tagged you on your Facebook page was her? So, who's the other girl?"


"That's his friend who's obsessed with me."


"Didn't you like that girl? She's beautiful and young again."


"Beautiful or not doesn't mean I like it as a man. I feel like he's not like me and he's not in line with me. I just consider him an ordinary friend."


What is it that Khaizan can believe in what he did to me?


***


All day I've been struggling with computers writing stuff that comes in and out. Misdocument a little can be the length of the business.


Finished doing the task of continuing the fall. My mind drifted whether Khaizan had seen me in Jakarta? Did Haura tell you about me? Haura had no idea I had a relationship with Khaizan despite not being friends on any social media.


"Diaha! Take a look at my girlfriend's picture, how do you think she is?" Haura showed me a photo of Khaizan successfully making my chest tight even though she only saw the picture.


"This your boyfriend? Handsome, mature, it looks like he's hardworking and independent."


"the others? What does the character mean?"


"You're his girlfriend, don't know?"


"The name of the couple said my mother after marriage will look real nature."


"So you understand? Ok, if I think he's actually good, but his ambition is high, he should get what he wants. For example he wants to go to Korea he must try to get to Korea that."


"If it's the kind of girl he likes?"


"He seems to like a clean woman, good at self-care, connecting in speech and being independent. He doesn't seem to like housewives because he hopes that if he leaves you first, his wife can live quietly with her children."


"Woman career dong? I think the type you say is not in me. Doesn't that guy want to be the same housewife who's just an ordinary housewife?"


"depends. Not all men like home women, not all men like career women also all have their own reasons. But all of those reasons are good. A man who just wants his wife to be a housewife means he wants his wife to focus on taking care of her husband, home and children."


If a husband likes a career woman, it means that the man wants his wife to be too dependent on him. If you want to buy anything can use your own money at will, can give parents also let alone parents have difficulty giving birth, especially parents, raising and sending us to college we definitely want our parents to taste our labors."


Well, the last one if our husband dies first, we women do not hang later. Hope to brother? They only exist when they are wanted and rarely are guardians responsible for the shari'a.


Although Allah has guaranteed sustenance for his people. It all takes effort and a bloody struggle. Just praying without effort will be in vain. God also does not like his lazy people. Youth determines old age, what we do in youth we live to harvest it in old age."


"Khaizan often says he likes women who are highly educated, accomplished, from prestigious universities and also come from good families. High standard. It makes me feel inferior sometimes and what you say is true all of Khaizan also likes women who are career. I'm in the mood, Fa."


"The standard is not wrong. He hopes to get a wife, a mother and a good one for his family. Why should be less? Don't do what people want. Do something we can."


"My brother once said. If there is a husband, do not work. Work is the duty of the husband to make a living. The man who is looking for a wife who can work as well as become an IRT is a lazy and irresponsible man. We could be the cash cow he and his family later. Good man he'll try to make his wife and son happy."


"Do not work let him take full responsibility for his obligations. We women are wrong. Wrong work is not more wrong work. People just become unreasonable spectators and critics."


"One more, if we see any discrepancies if we do not sincerely communicate well. If he doesn't understand let go of someone like that. Ourselves are too precious to be dairy cows husband and in-laws."


"When wife works and then what child? What's in-laws or parents' care?"


"Often hang out with working women where they leave their children? Many widows turn on their own children without the help of a guardian and where do they leave their children? And look at people abroad husband and wife work where they leave their children?"


To be a smart mom, all moms want to be smart. But, the smart mothers out there have their own way of transferring knowledge to their children."


But, remember! Wife's money belongs to the wife, husband's money joint money. Separate the property of the wife as well as the property of the husband protect ours so as not to be controlled by irresponsible people."


"Ok, I'm beating now."


"Entertainment, fight for your love. Never give up."


I told him to get excited. The mouth says like that in the heart wanting to pray that they would not unite.


"I'll do it as I can."


Seriate...