It's up to God

Role of Husband in Household

Nadira arrives at the house of papa and her mother with mixed feelings. His body felt tired and was swayed by the waves of nausea that hit him. Every step he took felt heavy as if he was crashing into a strong wind. A headache makes his vision blurred and concentration impaired.

When entering the house, Nadira's stomach seemed to rebel with a bad taste that filled it. He felt a spinning sensation that radiated from his stomach to his entire body, making him want to rest immediately. His usually glowing face, this time looking pale and exhausted.

Nadira tries to overcome the symptoms that hit with all his might. He tried to keep smiling and mingling with his family members, though inwardly, he felt an overwhelming discomfort. Every family talk or joke sounded distant and vague to him, as if hindered by the unpleasant sensations that constantly filled his mind.

In this difficult situation, Nadira hopes to find a bit of fun and comfort in the middle of her family. He strives to hold back and focus on precious moments of togetherness. Although his body is weak and his symptoms interfere with daily activities, Nadira still try hard and be patient.

Through his patience and the support of his family, Nadira made it through the difficult period. Although her condition was not perfect at the time, she remained an irreplaceable part of a loving and caring family.

Eventually, Nadira fainted. Papa Nadira called the doctor to get Nadira medical treatment. While Mama Nadira, calling Ammar, told Nadira's condition.

After being examined, Nadira was pregnant with her third child.

Nadira's feelings were mixed, between joy and anxiety after learning that she was pregnant with her third child. For Nadira, this pregnancy is a long-awaited moment after several years of trying to have another child.

However, this pregnancy also brings new challenges for Nadira. From the beginning of her pregnancy, she often experienced severe nausea and vomiting. Every time Nadira visits his parents' house, his nausea is getting worse. He often felt pain in his head and stomach. All these symptoms made Nadira feel uncomfortable and weak.

Nadira and her husband, Ammar, immediately contacted the obstetrician to obtain appropriate advice and treatment. Doctors confirmed that Nadira's nausea and vomiting were common symptoms in pregnancy, known as pregnancy nausea and vomiting or "morning sickness". However, doctors monitored Nadira's health condition periodically to ensure that there were no serious complications.

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Over the next few months, Nadira struggled through the period of nausea and vomiting. He tried various ways to relieve the symptoms, such as eating small but frequent meals, avoiding foods that trigger nausea, and regulating a healthy diet and sleep. Ammar also provides full support and helps Nadira in carrying out the pregnancy comfortably.

Despite having to face the challenge, but Nadira feels lucky because her family is always beside her. Papa and Mama Nadira provide moral support and help with various household tasks that may be difficult to do by Nadira in unfit conditions. Their family became a source of strength and passion for Nadira.

Nadira is grateful, his parents can now take a little time for him. Unlike when he was single, always busy and no time for Nadira. So, only her brother, Haikal, who presents the shoulder for Nadira to lean on.

Nadira felt happy and excited because her pregnancy this time felt stronger. Although in the previous pregnancy, the doctor asked Nadira to rest more, this time the situation was different. The doctor gave his approval to keep Nadira active and go about her daily activities as usual.

Nadira still maintain his health and fitness by following a mild exercise program recommended by doctors. She also notices a healthy and regular diet for her baby to get enough nutrition. With the support of her husband and family, Nadira feels confident that she can manage this pregnancy well.

During her pregnancy, Nadira kept up her responsibilities as a housewife. She takes care of her daily homework and helps her husband in taking care of the cottage because of her elderly in-laws. Nadira also continued his writings, as well as meeting the invitation of authorship and motivation seminars as a resource person. She felt that pregnancy was not an obstacle to developing her interest and talent in writing.

Nadira feels happy to be able to share his experiences and insights through his writings. He hopes to inspire many people with his life story. These activities not only give her personal satisfaction, but also provide positive energy that supports her emotional well-being during pregnancy.

During her pregnancy, Nadira also maintained good communication with her husband and family. They give each other support and help each other. Nadira feels happy and grateful for this strong pregnancy, so that she can live her days with passion and enthusiasm.

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Ammar approached Nadira. "Darling, what's going on? You look pale. Are you all right?"

Nadira touched his temple. "I feel dizzy and a little nauseous. But, I'm not sure what caused it."

"Maybe you're too tired, baby. You've done so much activity all day. Is it possible that your stomach pain is crumpled?"

Nadira nodded. "That's possible. I also felt that my stomach was a bit bad a moment ago, but I felt that I should still carry out all my duties and responsibilities."

"You're a tough woman, but you also have to pay attention to your health, baby. This is a different pregnancy and your body needs enough rest. Come on, sit down for a while and rest. Let me help you finish this homework."

Nadira sighed. "Thank you, my dear husband. I know you care about me and our baby. Maybe I should be more careful and not push myself too much."

Ammar helps Nadira sit on the sofa and finish the remaining homework. The two of them sat next to each other, talking about pregnancy and how to better take care of Nadira's health.

Ammar stroked Nadira, saying, "We should pay more attention to the signs of your body, dear. If you feel tired or unwell, then don't hesitate to tell me. We can work together to manage all this."

Nadira smiles. "You're right, Ammar. I can't forget that this is a different pregnancy and I need to listen more to my body. I am grateful to have you always by my side."

"You know that I will always support you, baby. Your health and the health of our baby is of the utmost importance. We're gonna get through this together."

Nadira and Ammar sat together, holding hands and looking at each other affectionately. They know that facing this pregnancy requires good cooperation and communication between the two of them. Ammar attentively listened to Nadira's complaints about the symptoms of nausea and discomfort he was experiencing.

They talked about plans to reduce Nadira's burden during pregnancy. Ammar promised to provide full support and help with heavy household tasks. They agreed to design a more flexible schedule so that Nadira can rest and adjust his sleep patterns well.

In addition, they also discussed the importance of maintaining health and balance. Nadira plans to undergo a healthy diet and find ways to relieve the symptoms of nausea that often interfere. Ammar promised to help prepare healthy meals and reminded Nadira to eat nutritious foods regularly.

They also discussed the importance of physical activity in accordance with the conditions of Nadira's pregnancy. They agreed to take small steps such as taking light walks or doing prenatal exercises recommended by a doctor. This will help maintain the health and balance of Nadira physically and mentally.

During their conversation, Nadira felt increasingly excited and confident that they could face this challenge together. Ammar provided strong emotional support and assured Nadira that they would go through this pregnancy successfully.

In the course of this powerful pregnancy, Nadira and Ammar promise to remain open to each other, listen to each other, and respect each other's feelings. They realize that good communication is the key to keeping their relationship strong and harmonious in the midst of a pregnancy journey that may be difficult.

With the plans they have made, Nadira and Ammar feel more confident in facing the future. They believe that by maintaining health, balance, and supporting each other, they will be able to achieve happiness and success in facing the challenges that exist.

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