A Pile of Misses in Words.

Marriage concept.

Palembang, 8 January 2011.

At 05:24:24 Mas Yoki sent me another SMS message.

But I did not reply to the message from him, because my mobile phone had been turned off.

- Sorry Deck Wulan.

Last night the battery was lowbat.

Is Dek Wulan awake?.

Mas Yoki's message came in again at 18:30:10.

the Wulan Deck Night.

What is Wulan Deck doing?.

- Grandpa.

Wulan Deck.

- Night also Mas Yoki.

Sorry Wulan just replied to a message from Mas Yoki. Have a shower or not.

- Mas just finished his deck bath.

Deck Wulan is what he's doing now.

- Brother was thinking about Mas Yoki.

Hehe.

- Ahhem.

Don't be so thought out.

I was afraid that I would interfere with the activities of Dek Wulan.

By the way, what time does Dek Wulan come home?.

- Yes Mas Yoki.

My sister was just joking.

My brother used to go home before Maghrib mas.

Oh yeah, Mas Yoki ate the same thing.

Has Mas Yoki eaten yet?.

alhamdulillah Dek Wulan mas already ate.

Coincidentally, I cooked my own rice.

And the side dish is a fried quail.

Oh yes Wulan Deck.

Mom cooked what deck.

- Oh, mother cooks the broiled fish in lombok ijo mas. Gosh, Mas Yoki's tumben cook it himself.

What is this.

- Delicious mother's cooking is not Dek Wulan.

Just cook rice, Dek Wulan.

And that's the side dish to buy at the front shop, because the cook went home .

The Wulan Deck is not.

- Mother's cuisine is thankfully always delicious and delicious Mas Yoki.

My sister hasn't studied Mas Yoki.

Right now sister is resting and relaxing Mas Yoki.

My sister is tired.

How is Mas Yoki doing now?.

Is Mas Yoki healthy?.

And how is Mas Yoki feeling right now?.

- Yes Deck Wulan.

Thank God the condition is fine and healthy.

Dek Wulan don't have to worry.

I love you Dek Wulan.

The feeling of today is happy and happy.

Even though we are far apart now.

If Dek Wulan himself, what is good to feel now.

- Mixed feelings sister.

Mas.

Mas.

Mas.

- Jelasin dong Dek Wulan.

Why his feelings can be mixed.

Yes, why Wulan Deck.

- Brother explained it mas.

Mas Yoki's dear sister.

May Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala keep our feelings together.

Until it is in the bond that Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala ridhoi.

If I may know.

Why would Mas Yoki love Wulan.

- Mas is also a pity with Dek Wulan.

Please Dek Wulan give me a reason. Why is Dek Wulan so dear to his mas?.

Aamiin yes rabbal'alamiin.

Yesterday I confirmed to Dek Wulan.

If a figure like Dek Wulan is a figure that has been a dream for you. It turns out that all was answered already would mean the presence of sister.

I love you Dek Wulan.

love you too Mas Yoki.

What are your hopes for your sister?.

- Honestly falling or waking up, laughing or crying related to someone ever felt Dek Wulan.

For now I want and hope big.

May Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala meridhoi Dek Wulan as the last woman for the mas. And vice versa.

May Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala meridhoi mas as the last man for Dek Wulan.

If Dek Wulan wants how and what.

- If my sister wants our relationship to flow, Mas Yoki.

Of course, according to the will of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.

-Mas wants to know the concept of a sister in undergoing a relationship to be durable and happy ending.

by building trust, loyalty and openness.

And the relationship based on the hope of blessing from Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala, of course

For man can only plan, but it is God who makes the bond.

-yups right.

Dek Wulan is ready for a serious relationship.

if it is the destiny of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.

God willing, sister will be ready Mas Yoki.

- With reference to the process we get acquainted which is still premature.

- Brief or long introduction, can not be a benchmark.

To determine the relationship to a further level.

The point should be there is intention and hope guidance from Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala for everything.

God willing, everything will be easy.

almighty God, honestly I was impressed by Dek Wulan's attitude.

Where my hunch didn't miss.

If Dek Wulan is a young figure of age, mature faith and have a noble purpose in life.

How sure Dek Wulan believes.

If it's the best for Dek Wulan.

Seriously or not with my sister.

that means seriously it's not dating Mas Yoki.

-siup.

Does Dek Wulan have a view about the household.

To remain in the framework of sakinah, mawadah and warohmah.

all must be sourced from the Qur'an and Sunah.

Where the main foundation of living a household with sincere intentions.

To worship and only expect ridho from Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.

God willing, everything we are based on because Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.

It will bring good and blessing to our lives.

- Mas wants to exchange ideas with Dek Wulan.

Deck Wulan knows no.

Of all the answers that Dek Wulan threw make mas more convinced.

And InshaAllah Dek Wulan is the answer of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.

For all the do'a-do'a mas.

-mas Yoki.

Continues.

- What Deck Wulan.

Yes, we live this relationship first while continuing to ask for a signal from Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.

So that we are given the best path to ease the path of our relationship in the future. What about Deck Wulan?.

it's okay Mas Yoki.

My sister just called me Yoki.

Sister is the same as Mas Yoki thought. Is Mas Yoki serious about adek?.

- I mean that mas is like this Wulan Deck.

If Deck Wulan has another argument. Please just say it.

Now the reason for our relationship is the meeting.

That's what we need to solve first.

I love you Dek Wulan.

Why Dek Wulan still asks.

If the mas is serious or not with Dek Wulan.

When can we both show this seriousness.

Including everything we are talking about at the moment.

Even though we are far apart at the moment and spread a long distance.

Mas sure Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala will give way for us to meet.

yes Mas Yoki.

Thank you, Mas Yoki.

Because Mas Yoki is already present in the life of the younger brother.

- Dek Wulan should not say thank you to mas.

But thank Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.

It is only because of his permission.

We can be close and committed to giving thanks to Ridhonya.

- Yes Mas Yoki.

- Oh yes, how big the role of the mother in restoring the relationship Dek Wulan.

Or maybe there are special conditions from the mother that must be fulfilled.

the role of mother in the life of Wulan.

Because Mom is a single parent sister. Where after father is not.

It was my mother who cared for and raised Wulan alone.

With his incredible struggle.

If the special conditions, it is better that Mas Yoki ask directly to his mother's sister.

God willing if later Mas Yoki met with mother sister.

Iya mas understand Dek Wulan.

But if Deck Wulan doesn't mind.

I want to know the short story of Dek Wulan.

Why in the relationship closeness Dek Wulan previously.

Mother did not give her blessing.

- It is likely that the mother saw someone who approached Wulan first, not exactly for Wulan perhaps.

Everyone knows that mas.

If a mother's instincts are usually more sensitive to something.

I'm sure you understand.

Mas Yoki had already talked about it.

Wulan was sleepy.

- God willing, I understand the deck.

Indeed, now the mother gives permission to Dek Wulan to start a relationship. More precisely not just know the same person.

But his family relationships too.

And I also like the answer to Dek Wulan yesterday.

Yes Dek Wulan.

-Semuanay hanging from to serial Mas Yoki.

There's nothing about Mas Yoki.

Let's end the conversation first.

it's okay Dek Wulan.

Yes, we slept yuk.

I'm sorry Mas Yoki.

Because Wulan was already this sleepy.

Iya Dek Wulan is okay.

There is nothing to apologize for.

After all, the question was also too deep into his chatter.

It is better now to rest our bodies and minds.

- Yes Mas Yoki.

Thank you for your time.

- Sip Deck Wulan.

- It's Okay .

Good night, dear Dek Wulan.

Wassalamualaikum Warohmatulohi.

- Yes Mas Yoki.

Wa'alaikumussalam warohmatulohi.

Our conversation ended at 03:20:38.

Today Mas Yoki so deeply brought the conversation of the two of us towards the view of marriage.

Something that has not been conceptualized in my mind.

But he slowly continued to accompany my thoughts.

To be a more serious relationship, and to be in the highest position of a love, that is, a sacred bond of marriage.

Without me knowing Mas Yoki slowly and slowly continue to guide my thoughts, will shadow the bond of marriage.

He kept diving into the thoughts of my very young self, and had not focused on thinking about all these things.

However, Mas Yoki did not give up and continued to make myself feel at ease with his chat.

Even though it is a relationship with making an extraordinary commitment, before the Creator.

I think too much and feel tired.

And it didn't take long, until I finally fell asleep.