A Pile of Misses in Words.
In the maternity home.
Palembang, 4 January 2011.
Mas Yoki sent me another message. After last night our conversation via SMS was interrupted by hanging. Time shows at 17:01:31.
Where I haven't been home from work.
-Sore adek's.
Is she home from work now?.
After going home to teach and shower and eat. I also picked up my phone that I never brought with me at work.
Then I immediately checked the incoming message from him.
alhamdulillah sister just came home from work and sister has finished bathing also eat mas.
And Mas Yoki himself has come home from work.
- This is the new mas coming home with the boss.
I just want to shower and pray deck.
What time is the course?.
- Adik departed from home at 18:10 mas.
Has Mas Yoki eaten yet?.
Don't forget to take care of your health, Mas Yoki.
-okay.
If you ate it just now. Because the meeting is at the restaurant so all eat there deck.
Thank you very much for your attention with me.
After returning from the course at 21:32:12.
I checked my cell phone again .
And I saw no message from Mas Yoki. So I also ventured to send him an SMS first.
good night Mas Yoki.
Have you eaten again and prayed?.
I then put down my mobile phone and hurried to change clothes and perform Isha prayers.
Thirty minutes later.
Mas Yoki replied to a message from me. Where I am finished with my activities.
Then I lay my body on the bed.
But suddenly the neighbor next to my house asked my mother for help to accompany his wife who was in the midwife's place because she was about to give birth.
I accompanied my mother and waited for my neighbor.
I did this because my neighbor had a good relationship with my mother.
Which is like a child of its own.
- Wow, good night too.
Mas is still Kenyan so eat it later
Alhamdulillah mas has also performed prayers.
Did you come home from the course?.
I hurried to get my sweater and bring my cell phone.
Because the message from Mas Yoki had not been able to reply so I also brought my mobile phone.
After arriving at the maternity home.
My mother and myself went straight to my neighbor who was whimpering in pain and crying out wonderfully.
Perhaps it was due to feeling a very intense and painful contraction approaching her labor.
I was shocked and shook with a goosebumping body as I watched my neighbor struggle to give birth to her second child.
With compassion and patience.
My mother gently rubbed my neighbor's head while giving him a few drinks out of a straw. At the same time remind him to be calm so that his energy is not drained when the baby is ready to be born.
My mother saw my fear in me. Immediately asked me to get out of the delivery room so I wouldn't feel scared.
I immediately came out of the delivery room and waited outside with some of my other neighbors
Where they also accompany my neighbors who want to give birth.
I've been pensive enough.
After witnessing my neighbor who was holding back the pain ahead of her labor process. A thing that makes me unable to speak and realize how extraordinary a woman's struggle to become a mother.
And a few moments later.
I also remembered the message from Mas Yoki that I had not yet replied to. So I immediately grabbed the phone from my little sling bag and started typing a reply message for him.
- Adik has returned Mas Yoki.
Sorry messages from Mas Yoki had just returned because now the sister is waiting for Wulan's neighbor who is sick.
who is sick with Dek Wulan?.
- Sorry not sick. But to give birth.
- Oh baby is not born yet deck?.
The process of delivery is normal or by caesarean section.
- The baby is not out yet.
The delivery process is normal Mas Yoki.
- Wow.
I was very brave to see the process.
To the same hospital mom or alone deck.
- Wulan with his mother and some neighbors around the house.
Seeing Wulan's neighbor who was so much pain.It really made Wulan so afraid to give birth to a baby.
It felt when he saw it was scary and pain all over Wulan's body.
why does my sister say that.
That's the nature of the deck woman.
So there is an expression if heaven is under the soles of Mother's feet.
Where this is also proof if Adek is really going to be a whole woman.
Right or not right?.
- Yes, yes, too.
But seeing the cries of neighbor Wulan. Wulan's feelings became weak and scared.
- Because of the pain and the heavy struggle like that deck - until the Prophet Muhammad Shallallahu Alaihi Wasallam mentioned up to three times the name of the mother.
When asked who is the person to be respected in this world.
- Wow, it seems like Mas Yoki if later had a wife looks like it would be a pity with his wife.
Because Mas Yoki shows affection and care for the mother and understands the service to the struggle of a mother.
god is not just me loving. As much as possible I will try to keep him happy and never turn to others
Hehe.
Has my sister eaten?.
- After returning home course Wulan has not eaten a mas.
But after work Wulan had eaten.
What are you doing now?.
why not eat again deck?.
Later get stomach ulcers.
I am currently watching television with my friends at work.
Indeed tonight the sister accompanied the neighbor sister in the hospital or returned home.
oh.oh.
God willing, my sister went home.
Sorry if Wulan interfered with his time.
wulan's sister doesn't bother you with time.
And here I am relaxed anyway. Is she home or still in the hospital?.
I have not yet returned to my house.
Wulan still wants to see her baby born.
it must be funny baby.
Oh yes, I wrote a letter to my sister.
Maybe tomorrow is over.
But I don't have a photo.
How about a picture through MMS?.
- The photos are sent all by mail only mas.
Because it is in accordance with the terms of our agreement.
- Yes, I will work on it later.
But don't get mad so deck.
- Wulan is not angry.
Did you really do it?.
alhamdulillah mas sincerely.
But the sister had to promise later quickly to reply to her letter huh.
-InsyaAllah.
Oh yes if you may know what date Mas Yoki was born?.
- January 26th.
If my sister was born on what date.
- December 6th.
- Means his birthday last month dong.
If you may know what request sister on her birthday yesterday.
- Ask for health, good fortune, good luck, good life destiny, and the goodness of the afterlife.
- Wow means encouraged all yes do'anya.
Mas do'ain may the ideals of adek be quickly granted Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.
Oh yeah, what time do you come home?.
- Don't know yet.
Thank you for your prayers.
Mas Yoki is a good man.
- Don't always praise like that deck.
Ordinary deck.
Oh yeah, what went up to the hospital.
- Motorcycle rides crowded in the same bonceng neighbors.
Oh yes Mas Yoki now what if Wulan can know?.
I was watching the movie Rambo.
If you can advice better sister now looking for food first.
At least to prop up the stomach of my brother Darivpada in the wind?.
it's okay to eat at home.
It is not good to eat here when neighbor Wulan is in a situation of struggling to accompany his wife who has not given birth.
It makes itself look very stressful.
It is not good if Wulan instead eats like inappropriate, and shows less empathy and sympathy.
- Glory once the heart of a sister.
But maintaining health is also important. At least sister looking for a warm drink deh.
Oh yes sister now wearing a jacket or not?.
-iya.
Thank you, Mas Yoki, for reminding Wulan.
Thank God Wulan is wearing a sweater.
Help my neighbor do'ain Mas Yoki. Hopefully, Wulan's neighbors will soon be able to carry out labor without obstacles.
Where the mother and baby survived and the delivery was given smoothness as well as ease.
-Dragon health yes deck.
I must have helped do'a.
May Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala love salvation to the mother and her baby.
It is indeed the condition there what the deck is like.
- Tense and panic Mas Yoki atmosphere. Because his mother had run out of energy because most of the crying and screams withstand the pain.
Sorry I keep SMS Mas Yoki.
I'm confused what to do here.
- It's okay deck.
Indeed now what the condition of the mother and baby deck.
alhamdulillah Mas Yoki the baby is born. But the baby must be taken to the hospital immediately because of his critical condition.
Because the baby is too long in the womb so that amniotic fluid is consumed said midwives who cope with the delivery process.
Now Wulan wants to go home.
- Ehem.
May the baby pass through critical times quickly. A little brother coming home with anyone?.
Be careful on the deck.
aamiin ya robbal.
My sister returned with her neighbor.
- means lots of decks.
Indeed is still a long way to the home of the sister.
Iya mas is still far away.
- Must be a tired sister huh.
Better to go to bed and rest.
- Yes mas.
Yes, yes, I will send the SMSan again. God willing, later if the sister has reached the house we continue to chat again.
- Yes deck carefully on the road yes deck.
Later when it has arrived at the SMS home yes.
Mas wait.
Not long after arriving home.
I sent an SMS to Mas Yoki.
mas Yoki alhamdulillah Wulan has arrived at home.
Are you sleepy at this time?.
- I'm not sleepy on deck.
Surely sister has not prayed Isya yes.
- Alhamdulillah sister has done mas prayers. After returning home the Wulan course directly salat Isya.
Because prayer is the main thing and is our need with Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.
So that it cannot be delayed. Because we will never know until where our age can continue to run.
And if suddenly Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala ends the age of a person.
When he missed the prayer.
It would be sinful and frightening for Wulan.
Salat is the first thing that will be Hisab by Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala after we are gone.
So keeping the prayer is very important for Wulan.
It feels that Wulan's feelings and thoughts are not calm if the obligation with Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala has not been fulfilled.
the words of my sister remind me of my grandmother in the village.
Where he always talks like that.
Did today's sister already write the story in her sister's book?.
-not yet mas.
Sister has not written the story in the diary book owned by sister.InsyaAllah later at dawn only brother wrote it.
Mas.
- There's a sister.
- If the sister can know the words of the sister which are the same as the words of Mas Yoki's grandmother.
- Yes as my sister said.
Later in the letter that I sent to my sister.
The story is all about Grandma. Why is my sister writing her diary waiting for dawn?.
Is the sis a sopping'an?.
- Yes mas.
Kecapek'an.
If Wulan can tell if Mas Yoki smokes.
- That's a bad habit because of the association first. Surely my sister does not like men who smoke.
- Yes mas.
My sister does not like men who have a smoking habit.
I know what my sister thinks.
But it is not easy to get away from cigarettes.
I once tried to quit smoking.
But the habit relapsed again. My sister doesn't like it.
-iya.
Because the habit of smoking is a habit that is not good and redundant and useless.
That's in Wulan's opinion.
I'm sorry if Wulan talks like that.
It does not feel the time has shown at 00.01.57.
But Mas Yoki and I still enjoy our chat via SMS.
- Yes Sister Wulan just relax.
That is the kind of person who is open.
That's not just my sister.
Mas is actually also aware if the smoking habit can damage health.
But to break away from smoking dependence it takes a long time.
And the thing you can do now is to slightly reduce the smoking habit.
- Wulan do'ain hope Mas Yoki can be free from smoking opium soon.
And can lead a healthy and beneficial life pattern.
aamiin ya rabbal'alamiin.
What is my sister doing now?.
- Brother is lying on the bed.
Did Mas Yoki feel sleepy?.
- Mas hasn't sleepy sister.
Is your sister getting ready to go to sleep?.
not even the mas.
Is it true that Mas Yoki does not feel sleepy yet?.
If Mas Yoki isn't sleepy.
Is Wulan allowed to ask Mas Yoki something?.
- true mas still do not feel sleepy kok sister.
After all, this time while watching sports news on television.
My sister has a question what for me.
is that true what Mas Yoki said.
And did Mas Yoki not feel bossankah chatting with Wulan.
please ask sister.
Ask what your sister wants to ask.
God does not mind and feel bored.
Let's just say we're exchanging ideas right now.
Okay.
Please ask me!.
- Is it true that your sister is allowed to ask Mas Yoki.
- It could very well be a sister.
They allow and allow it.
thank you, Mas Yoki.
What does it mean to Mas Yoki?.
And whether it is important or how important the mother figure is for MasYoki's life.
- It's important sister.
Because mom always gives support when I'm down.
Especially now that only a mother has in this world.
Where I will try as much as possible not to make him disappointed and sad.
- The next question was how many brothers did Mas Yoki have?.
If you may know your brother or sister.
- Coincidentally three of them are all men.
both of his younger brothers Mas Yoki are either working or still in school.
- Number two just graduated High School last year and now working in Surabaya. Then the number three is still second grade SMP.
why Mas Yoki does not work in Surabaya.
It's closer than you live in Jogja.
After all, you can be close to your mother and sister.
- The desire is so but because the UMR in Surabaya is low.
So I decided to stay at work now.
I've been in this job for almost five years.
At the Mas residence in Jember.
His mother lives with his grandmother and younger siblings of the late father.
-oh so.
If you may know since when Mas Yoki has been working in marble.
- From 2006 mas already working in marble.
God willing, the explanation will be clearer on the letter that you wrote to your sister. Hehe.
- Fine mas.
How tall is Mas Yoki?.
- About 168 centimeters. How tall is your sister?.
- Try Mas Yoki guess.
- It is likely high sister about 165 centimeters yes.
- Throw it wrong.
Hihahi.
Whether I am tall or not.
not so, according to Mas.
I don't know brother yet.
Let's tell you and all tell you how heavy she is.
- The height of the sister is 170 centimeters mas and the weight of the sister is about 48 kilograms.
Oh yes if you may know long or short hair Mas Yoki.
- High as well.
Lost two centimeters.
But why the weight of a mas is superior to five kilograms than a sister huh.
Hehe.
If your hair is short.
- We have finished the SMSan . Wulan was sleepy.
- Okay.
She was also sleepy.
Good night, sister.
May you dream well.
Good sleep have nice dreams.
- Yes, both mas.
And thank you for your time today.
- Sorry sister like her there is forgetfulness tuh.
Mattress, pillow and bolster.
Please take care of my sister.
- uhahaha.
It could be Mas Yoki.
Thank you for your time, Mas Yoki.
- Thank God you are both sisters.
Oh yes if you don't mind sister can do dream mas.
Hehe.
It looks like I was hoping for ya.
Haha.
if you can, then.
Yes, I'm good night MasYoki.
May Mas Yoki always be in the care of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.
thank you little sister.
Yes, sister let's sleep now and text her tomorrow again.
Our conversation ended on this day, and both my body and she fell asleep in the night blanket.
In a new hope that slowly records the history of the story of the journey of both of us.
Without my knowledge and his.
The night wind continued to blow slowly and caressed the night sky so calm tonight.
Where I used to be is a quiet and closed woman. But slowly becoming brave opened my heart to someone and shared it with him.
As friends chatting and telling stories in the electronic world dimension.
Where is the comfort and mindset that he gives.
A little bit has a resonant frequency with me.
So indirectly without me knowing.
Our closeness makes me closer to him, as well as his being closer to me.
I also buried myself in a long, warm and peaceful night.
