A Pile of Misses in Words.
Early introduction.
"Mother these two days I always dreamed of chasing snakes.
And the snake that was chasing me seemed to want to peck at me.
Does that mean a bad sign mom?, "ask my mom who is cooking.
My mother smiled at me while putting catfish in the pot, to cook my favorite vegetables.
"That means your soul mate is getting closer, son, "my mother said.
"Is it true ma'am?" I doubt.
My mother nodded her head slowly. "It usually means it's naughty. "
I thought about what my mother said.
Then my mother looked at me, while stirring the vegetables pindang patin fish using a vegetable centong slowly.
"Why are you silent, son?, "he asked.
I smiled a little while saying to her. "I'm not ready to get married young ma'am, if that's the meaning of my dream. Because there are still many ideals that I have not achieved, "clear me to mother.
"We can plan and have desires, but all that happens is by the will of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.
And no one can escape His destiny, " answered the mother explaining to me.
I was silent looking at my mother.
Moments later my mother finished cooking and invited me to sit down at the dinner table.
"Quickly or not the soul mate comes.
Most importantly, you pray a lot to Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.
May you be given a good and dear soul mate also responsible for yourself. There is nothing happier in this world.
In addition to getting a life partner who loves us sincerely and sincerely, son, "my mother said as she rubbed my head affectionately.
I nodded and smiled at him.
Then we both had lunch together with the vegetable pindang catfish that my mother had cooked with love.
The twilight arrived.
And indicates that there has been a transition of light into darkness.
Where the sun has returned to rest.
And replaced the moon to reflect its light in the darkness of the night.
I also watched my favorite show on television.
While working on a math problem in a notebook.
Not long after.
My cell phone is ringing.
There is an SMS message coming in.
I still don't care about it.
Where I still focus on solving math problems that so seized my brain to think hard.
Until after her fingers I also grabbed my mobile phone.
Out of curiosity I saw the incoming message.
Then see who sent me the SMS.
I also looked at the screen of my phone.
It says Mas Bimo's name whose number I've saved.
"Oh apparently Mas Bimo who sent a message, "I said slowly while holding my mobile phone.
After two days Mas Bimo just replied to a message from me.
Maybe he was busy with his job, I thought.
I opened the message from my cousin.
who are you sorry with?.
The message from him.
I was shocked to read a message from Mas Bimo with such a sentence on me.
Why did Mas Bimo send me such a message.
Does he not recognize me?.
I thought as I raised my two eyebrows.
Impossible?.
I thought if Mas Bimo didn't recognize me.
"There's no way Mas Bimo doesn't recognize his own sister, "my inner being in the heart.
"Or not-don't Mas Bimo did deliberately want to prank me, " said I slowly.
Immediately, I replied to a message from him.
- This Wulan mas.
And my message was immediately replied.
kowe to ngik.
Iki your number is new to.
I'm Yoki.
When reading again the incoming message from Mas Bimo. I became even more confused and surprised by his words.
who is that, Mas?.
Who is yoki?.
I was even more astonished to read the SMS message from Mas Bimo.
Immediately, I replied to a message from him.
and since when did the name Mas Bimo change to Yoki.
An SMS from me was quickly answered.
Piye.
Kowe senile po loro to ngik.
Piye Solo kabare.
I thought for a moment.
Why did Mas Bimo send a message to me like this.
"Did Mas Bimo really want to prank me, "I said slowly while thinking.
With a little hard thought I replied again to the message from Mas Bimo.
-sorry.
Is this really Mas Bimo.
I am Wulan's cousin Mas Bimo who lives in Palembang.
Then with a very curious.
I tried calling him too.
Then again I was surprised and very surprised.
Because the sound is very similar to the voice of my cousin Mas Bimo.
His voice is so thick with a typical Javanese accent plus his heavy voice is a bit ragged wet.
Where we talk to each other.
There is a thought in my heart.
If I'm being bullied by my cousin.
And he also felt that he was being worked by his friend who was also named Wulan.
Because the sound is very similar to the voice of my cousin.
For a while, the two of us were adamant on our respective standings.
So that created a little tension of supposition between myself and himself.
Until after speaking and looking further.
We were finally surprised by each other.
Because it turns out I sent a message to the wrong person.
After realizing that.
I apologized immediately too.
And try to end the conversation with him.
Because of the shame I've had with him.
Then hurry up to check the number, on my phone book. I also adjusted my cousin's mas number, with the number I'm calling right now.
Yup.
It's true that I was wrong.
Where I hit the wrong number on the last number.
My cousin has a phone number
+6285712345678.
The number I sent was+6285712345679.
Only different numbers on the end.
"Ouch. Why can I get on the wrong side with someone, "I said slowly.
I immediately sent him an apology message.
-Sorry Mas.
Right I was wrong.
Then he also replied to a message
my.
oh yeah, it's okay.
If you know who you really want to SMS?.
I want to SMS my cousin who lives in Solo.
- That's so.
Which Wulan is the real one.
I'm a Solo native.
if you can know where the Solo is.
Now Wulan is working or still in school.
I was silent at the content of his message that increasingly wanted to kidnap myself further.
At first I felt dislike and uneasy about the message from him.
But my heart unknowingly wants to continue to respond and answer the questions of every message, which he sends me. Our conversation continued with this short message.
I then returned a message from him.
why do you ask like that.
it's okay to just ask.
All get acquainted but if Wulan objected, I'm sorry.
Yes it's like that.
Sorry I interrupted your time. Thank ye.
I don't know why I keep responding to her messages.
I'm a person who doesn't like to interact.
Especially with the opposite sex I don't know.
Because I have a very closed attitude.
That night I suddenly felt comfortable replying to her message.
Something that I don't understand at all.
And that feeling seemed to sedate me to always respond to his message.
- I've been working.
And currently teaching in tutoring near home.
I currently live in Palembang.
By joining my older sister who married a native of Palembang and Bangka.
Although a native Solo person but I rarely go home to Solo.
By myself, it has worked.
- If I work at the Solo Marble Company.
But I'm currently stationed in Jogja. Why do you rarely go back to Solo.
my mother is happy and happy to live in Palembang.
If you can tell how old you are.
- Oh so yes.
I'm 25 years old.
Why are you asking my age.
If Wulan herself how old.
- It's okay.
I just asked.
I am 20 years old.
Oh yes sorry if you disturb us just end the SMS.
still young yes.
Wulan doesn't bother me.
I was watching television anyway.
Wulan is doing what.
wulan is working on math problems at home.
- Wah.
It just so happens that Wulan is not out with her boyfriend.
Hehehehe.
- I don't have a girlfriend and don't want to date.
God willing if suitable and have met someone who just wants to get married.
And mas himself why not walk with his girlfriend.
- If I was still alone waiting for instructions from Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.
Oh so yeah.
If I'm here a nomad and I'm a native of East Java.
If you can know.
What kind of man is Wulan looking for.
- Who is clearly in my faith, responsible, good in his religion and has a virtuous and commendable behavior in all things.
The rest is relative and not absolute.
Where he will love me.
Like someone closing both eyes.
However, it does not make his love blind in loving myself.
And the way he loves me.
Like someone who shuts down both of his hearing senses.
But do not make it selfish and ignore the norms and suggestions that exist.
I agree with Wulan.
Wulan is ready to marry young.
Hehe.
why do you say it like that.
Oh yes, do you live in Jogja with the Mas family.
-sorry.
They're just kidding.
Sorry if I spoke wrongly.
Yeah, I'm here living alone looking for a mouthful of rice.
My whole family is in East Java.
-oh so.
If you can tell how many brothers.
I'm three brothers.
And I'm the first kid.
If Wulan himself how many brothers.
I'm just two brothers and I'm the youngest.
But my sister is married and lives in Bandar Lampung.
oh.oh.
Means at home Wulan only stay with father and mother only dong.
Oh yea.
Wulan has a resolution in 2011.
I just live with my mom.
My father has been dead since I was born into this world.
I never even saw him once in my life.
we are the same dong.
But if my father died a year ago.
- I also defend my condolences for the death of Mr. Mas.
May you be given the best place by Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala .
And mas always given patience as well as sincerity.
Upon the departure of the late father.
-Yup.
Thank you, Wulan.
It is only sincere and steadfast that became the foundation of my life.
While struggling to get on with life.
Oh yeah, Wulan had a resolution in 2011.
- If you own what the resolution is this year.
- asked Wulan.
If I had evaluated the mistakes of the past year.
To make it better in the future.
I also want to have a serious relationship.
Hopefully, God willing I can build a household this year.
If Wulan himself how the resolution in this year.
if I wanted to make my mother happy.
And live this life sincerely, patiently without ever complaining.
The point is more to be a man who is grounded and more and more istiqomah in the way of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.
- Wow.
Very good resolution.
You can ask for Wulan's Facebook address.
I don't have Facebook.
why does Wulan not have Facebook?.
Oh yea.
Tomorrow Wulan goes to work is still a holiday.
I don't like it and I never had Facebook.
I don't even want to have Facebook.
For me it's not important and a waste of time.
Because friends can be with anyone without going through social networks.
After all, I also don't really like it if my life is too known by others. My life is mine.
And there is no chance for anyone else to find out .
Including my close friends who are friends with me.
Without permission from myself.
They cannot know my personal things.
- Wah.
Even though I have known you for a moment. There are so many life lessons I can take.
You teach in what tutoring.
- Guidance for pre-Tk children to SMP mas.
- In addition to learning what your activities are Dek Wulan.
- After teaching at my ba'da maghrib tutoring course English.
Added while filling the time and collecting extra money.
By teaching private lessons.
I hope to continue my education again at university.
- May all your planning be carried out Deck Wulan.
Aamiin yes rabbal'alamiin.
If I work while studying.
Like learning about the ways of entrepreneurship from people around.
Means Wulan ideals are very high dong.
Wulan wants to be what he is.
- It used to be my dream to be a doctor but it came here more and more.
I want to be able to build a free school for children who can't afford it.
So that they can continue their education.
Because it's so painful.
When we have the ability to learn but are hindered by cost.
And I feel that.
what a glory of your ideals.
This means that Wulan must be more focused and serious about learning.
Oh yes, tomorrow Wulan comes to work at what time.
Why is Wulan not asleep.
I went to work at seven o'clock.
I'm learning to talk about this first. Before tomorrow I teach the children in tutoring.
- Oh so yes.
Kirain Wulan has the habit of sleeping late in the afternoon, so sleep late at night.
If I'm in the habit of going to bed at twelve and above.
If after work any Wulan activity.
- English courses and teaching private lessons.
And now while doing the.
lumayan is also busy with Wulan activities. Means right now I'm interrupting Wulan learning huh.
Oh yes, if I get bored SMSan same me. You can just delete the SMSan.
Wulan is okay.
Who knows, you might want to rest.
I think I'm interrupting Dek Wulan.
I'm not tired of SMSan with Wulan.
I'm even very happy.
Because I have a new friend who has an obsession with purposeful life.
oh.oh.
May I ask you something.
-mmmm.
Okay.
Wulan asked what. The question is about what.
What if I can't answer.
- On interpretation or life choices.
-okay.
But on one condition.
The answer to that interpretation or life choice from my own glasses huh.
If deal.
Just give the question to me.
-good.
Choose a lotus flower or diamond.
choose a lotus flower.
Because flowers are a symbol of our love for someone we love.
If the stuff is just material.
Yes, even though I know the material matters.
But matter is not the foundation of everything, to live an essential relationship.
why you should choose a lotus flower.
sorry about Dek Wulan.
I don't know any other reason for my choice, which may be less pleasing in your thinking.
But my answer remains the lotus flower .
Although different from other flowers, but he is still a flower that must be considered.
We also need special care from us.
next question according to Mas Yoki.
How do we judge someone to care or not to us.
we judge a person's care for us from the form of attention or support in each of our activities.
This leads to mutual trust in our partner.
Because I always try to hold, all the words he says.
- Oh yes, continue if you may know what is the resolution of Mas Yoki this year?.
- First, I ask always to be asked to be asked a sense of faith and piety.
Second, want to be a household leader who can lead family members.
Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.
Then the third one, I ask for the rest of my life. So that I can be useful to our family and those around us.
- Then, if there is a request that Mas Yoki wants to ask Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala and has never been done.
About what Mas Yoki wanted to ask.
- I want to make my late father happy before he is called by Him.
Because I used to be a bit of a wayward kid.
-oh so.
And if according to Mas Yoki.
Does Mas Yoki believe in miracles?. Please also give me the reason.
I believe that miracles exist.
But we must also do something positive, in order to provoke the miracle to appear for us .
Not just sit still and wait for the miracle to appear.
oh yes, thank you, Mas Yoki.
Because he was willing to answer the question Wulan asked.
-sama-sama.
I don't know if all my answers are correct or not .
But I answered all of that honestly from my heart and mind.
Because I had intentions earlier this year.
I want to start with honesty.
mas Yoki is already sleepy yet.
- Not sleepy.
Why the Wulan Deck.
- It's okay.
Wulan just asked Mas Yoki.
Wulan do'a hope what Mas Yoki expects.
And that became Mas Yoki's resolution this year.
In order to be immediately hijacked by Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala .
And thank you for Yoki,
want to be my chatter friend.
amiin ya robbal 'alamin.
For me to know anyone okay - okay. As long as we build each other up, for the good, not the other way around.
The point of all these questions is what the hell Dek Wulan.
it's nothing Mas Yoki.
I just wanted to ask.
And wanted to know how to think Mas Yoki.
Also wanted to know Mas Yoki's life view.
- Oh so yes.
Only you can judge what I am.
Oh yea.
How about I call Wulan sister, Wulan just call me Mas.
Than we have to call names.
Hows it?.
Does Dek Wulan agree?.
iya Mas Yoki.
Without feeling me and himself continue to reply to SMS messages, until the time has shown at 00:00:37.
All flowing.
Without me alone can't stop, to chat with each other via a short message with him.
I was silent for quite a while.
thinking of myself becoming comfortable indirectly with her.
Whereas all this time, I was among the people who were difficult to be close to others, including men.
My phone is shaking again .
Where the message from him came back in.
I also grabbed my cell phone.
I quickly read her message.
- Is your sister sleepy?.
- My sister is not sleepy yet.
Why is it mas.
- It's okay.
Kok just texted from a simple mas once and for a long time.
Actually I'd like to ask Dek Wulan.
Please answer honestly.
Is it true your sister knows Mas's number from a wrong push or a wrong link .
You see, lately, many more jahilin and me.
- It's true.
I misspicked the number to the mas number.
I told you to mas .
Why did Mas Yoki not believe.
- No Deck Wulan.
Not that I don't believe.
I just want to make sure.
God now believes.
Yes, no more discussion.
Adek what is it now.
Must be sleeping.
- Yes.
How could you know.
If you are outside the house.
- Not it.
Yes Wulan would know.
Cook it up tonight and it's still out of the house.
Two days off, Dek Wulan play or go anywhere deck?.
- Wulan is not going anywhere just at home.
Good.
Oh yes, Mas Yoki does like to work on Monday-Thursday fasting.
- Mas is not used to working on the Monday-Thursday fast.
Adek would love to fast Monday-Thursday huh.
Wow, so envy me.
- Yes it is.
Come on, tomorrow we fast Monday-Thursday with mas.
It just so happens that tomorrow is Monday.
- Wah,adek did not say from earlier.
You can buy rice for sahur.
If now where there is a stall open Dek Wulan.
Maybe next week we can fast with Dek Wulan.
Sorry about Deck Wulan.
oh yes, it's okay Mas Yoki.
After all, why did Mas Yoki have to apologize.
Yoki is not wrong.
I never fasted sahur mas.
because it has become a habit.
- If mas can not fast if not sahur Dek Wulan.
How it has become a habit from home.
If you want to fast, you must first.
After all, sahur during fasting also sunah Rasulullah Shallallahu alaihi Wa sallam.
Insha Allah, next week we fast with Dek Wulan.
Oh yes, can I ask for a photo adek.
But I didn't force you.
-Bby Mas Yoki.
But there is a condition.
Hows it?.
Does Mas Yoki agree and want to?.
- What's the deck?.
Must now qualify.
- Would you like it or not.
Iya mas want Dek Wulan.
Please tell me what the conditions are.
-good.
If Mas Yoki wants to get a picture of Wulan.
The condition is that Mas Yoki must send me a letter.
Where is the letter about self-introduction.
All things about Mas Yoki as a whole, also about the Mas Yoki family. And the length of the letter is at least three thousand words. It should not be typed and should be handwritten. Hows it?.
Is Mas Yoki willing and willing?.
- Ok mas mau.
But from now on we build trust and open up to each other.
I ask for whatever happens.
I have to get a letter from you.
If deal.
Please tell me the address of your sister.
I want to qualify.
I don't want to get to know half a person.
We'd rather be open to each other than clandestine.
What according to adek.
- Good Mas Yoki.
Wulan also agreed.
- Kan Dek Wulan already told mas.
To write a letter with words about yourself.
Well, there you want your sister too so in return.
Dek Wulan understands by meaning mas.
I also returned my address to him.
- Name:Wulan
Address:Young Lotus Road block 12 no. 31 RT. 04 RW 04.
Subdistrict: 24 ilir.
subdistrict:Small Hill.
Palembang-South Sumatra.
Zip code:30435.
The period of writing his letter in three days was Mas Yoki.
- Full name of mana.
That means those three days.
When the letter reaches your sister's hand or sends her a letter.
written Wulan alone is enough.
Those three days span the time Mas Yoki wrote letters .
So, Mas Yoki try.
Before three days of his letter, it had already arrived at the residence of the sister's house.
why can't you know his full name?.
Okay.
If my sister wants that.
But later if the letter has arrived.
He also gave me a week to reply to his letter.
Hows it?.
Does adek agree?.
- God willing, brother agrees Mas Yoki.
- Yes, then give me three days.
From my sister sent me a letter.
How's deck?.
inshaAllah Mas Yoki.
Mas Yoki sincerely fulfilled the requirements that Wulan submitted.
Or Mas Yoki feels troubled.
- Mas sincerely did all that Deck Wulan. Provided that Adek also holds the deal, which we have made together.
I don't feel bothered.
Just relax, adek.
alhamdulillah, then Mas Yoki.
- If you can know if the daily adek hooded?.
- Adek has not hooded mas.
why not wear a veil.
Is not ready deck.
- Yes mas.
Wulan wasn't ready to wear Mas Yoki's veil
oh so yes.
What time do you usually go to teach?.
- Seven o'clock Mas.
Yes it's already night.
Wulan wants to sleep first because Wulan is already sleepy.
- Okay Deck Wulan.
Have a good night, Dek Wulan.
Don't forget to pray first.
it must be Mas Yoki.
Thank you Mas Yoki for replying to my message .
As well as being my new, fun friend.
- Okay.
The Wulan Deck.
I also want to thank you for your time Dek Wulan.
Because Dek Wulan wants to reply to a short message with mas.
My chat with her via SMS was over that night.
Then, I picked up my diary book and scratched my pen ink.
Palembang.
Sunday, 2 January 2011.
Someone was wrong.
Uh, I was the one who misaligned to her number.
It happened, because Wulan wrongly pushed to Mas Bimo number.
But instead, target someone else's number.
And don't know why.
My heart beats and beats like this guy.
Name: Yoki
he's 25 years old
She is originally from East Java and now lives in Jogjakarta and works in Marble Company.
The guy was engrossed and didn't know why he just hooked up, while chatting with me.
And he's like a frequency, with what Wulan thinks.
Until it did not feel me and him SMS-an, until half an hour and two nights.
Because so flowing comfort we both in chatting.
Could it be.
And I don't know.
Maybe it was because we were comfortable with each other.
I keep thinking about it.
Then he asked Wulan to call himself Mas, and he called Wulan with a sister's call.
The reason is for our convenience when chatting so as not to become awkward.
Then Mas Yoki wants to ask for a picture of Wulan.
Well, Wulan give me conditions.
If he wants to get a picture of Wulan.
He had to send a letter to Wulan.
And handwritten at least three thousand words. He finally qualified Wulan.
O Allah.
I hope this is a good relationship between me and him.
Always guide and protect myself, Lord. And lead the Wulan in Your truth and guidance.
May you always show me the good things, and the right path. And keep me away from the bad things, also the people who intend bad on me.
I closed my diary and put it on my bookshelf again.
Then, I headed to the bathroom to get some water.
Then pray and sleep.
