Love is Different

The Story of Adi After Not Being With Me

I want to tell you a little about Adi after we were not together and lost contact. January 2020, which I know news, Adi married a Minang woman as well. I was also happy at that time because I was grateful that Adi finally married a woman. I hope Adi can change and repent.I had time to congratulate him through his instagram and through his cousin and they also returned my words with thanks. At least I still appreciate him even if we're not together. It only took me 5 months to forget Adi. It was at first that I often cried and remembered, but in May I met someone who could make me forget Adi. 

Several times I saw his wife's post through fake account on instagram, because suddenly Adi's instagram disappeared at that time. It's like disabling his Instagram. His wife seemed happy with Adi, even though they were LDRs. And I did not expect that soon Adi was married to his wife at that time. In 2018 we just failed to get married, but in January 2020 she has already got married. Or maybe they were in a match? I didn't care at that time. 

Arrive in July 2021. I remember once. Someone sent me a short message on Whatsapp.

"Assynoltom... This is Riri, right?" 

I returned the message about an hour later, because I was just grieving. So it is rare to hold a HP. 

"Goddessalam.. Ja. Who yeah?" 

"Let's be better on the phone, Ri.. Can I call Ri tomorrow?"

I'll get back to him tomorrow morning. 

"But who's sorry?"

"I'm Adi Ri's ex-wife.."

I was surprised to read his chat. Didn't really expect his ex-wife to call me?

"Huh? Is Ka Adi divorced? What's wrong with me?" Quick reply.

"Let's tell Ri a story. Riri has a telkomsel number, right? Someone wants me to be obrolin."

"What time can Riri be on the phone?" Reply Adi's Ex-wife.

"I'm not sorry you're.." 

"I'm sorry Ri.. I just want to talk." 

"Awhile - a minute.. Is this Ka Love?" My reply still can't believe it. 

"Sorry that Riri is uncomfortable. Yes Ri... What time is Ri?" 

"Four 10 years ago Ka.." 

"Sister Wfh really can.. Okay Ri.. Thanks ya.."

I was finally on the phone with Ka Cinta the afternoon after I finished online college at that time. From the story of Ka Cinta I was really shocked and laughed. Yes sad, of course because Ka Cinta fellow woman with me, she was deceived by Adi and her family. Even from the beginning Ka Cinta was very innocent, did not know that Adi was gay. From the story of Ka Cinta, he only knew the middle of 2019. Only a few months later, the family agreed to get married. Finally they made a proposal show.. Ka Cinta also agreed because at that time she was no longer young, different from me who was still far away from Adi. At that time Ka Cinta had entered 3 heads as well. Until finally they married in January 2020, Ka Cinta initially did not suspect that Adi was gay. Because when with Ka Cinta he was ordinary like an ordinary man, just his tone was weak and soft. They were introduced from one of my own families - each as I remember. Then when Adi had to return to the capital Jakarta, they were LDR. Long distance relationship between husband and wife, because Ka Cinta whose work in Padang. So can not come to Jakarta with Ka Adi. Until the short story of a few months of marriage, Ka Cinta had a bad feeling about Adi. Even found unusual items in his room, it was while Ka Cinta to Jakarta. Before Adi and Ka Cinta got married, ka Cinta had stopped by his home Adi which was a complex with me at that time. Even Ka Cinta told me Adi forbade him to linger - long outside the house for fear that I or Mama through his house and search - find out about Adi. I didn't think Adi senarsis was.. Well I take it first. It turned out that her heart was so rotten it had such thoughts. 

Ka Cinta also told me when in the pelaminan Adi talked about me congratulating her and her wife. He felt that I could not forget him at that time. Hahaha I really laughed when I found out. Even considering the null and void incident I no longer want to. Very hurt Ka Cinta at that time, just got married but still talking about me. Even his family also had time to discuss me and mention my name until finally Ka Cinta had to find out I through fake Instagram account. He always heard from Adi's family that my family did not want to give money at all to his family. How could he twist such a fact? Cruel. Until finally Ka Cinta find out for herself and broken heart Ka Cinta has begun to know that her husband often snack outside with other men. Even when she was with me she had a boyfriend and a boy whom she had introduced me as her best friend. I was also very surprised because Ka Cinta told him. Until finally Ka Cinta was tired of her toxic family at that time, her brother who always felt the most right, her parents who like to dictate Ka Cinta, and her parents, even Adi often uttered harsh words to Ka Cinta while at the wedding a few months. Until his mentality starts to go down. She knew her husband was gay, and was treated harshly with him. Until finally from the story of Ka Cinta, he sued Adi divorce and kept all the evidence - proof that he was gay. At first Adi's family begged - please forgive her son at that time. Aunty Ratna and Om Budi felt his son only needed to go to the shaman, later they would teach Adi to be a better husband. I laughed listening to the story of Ka Cinta at that time. Really crazy and weird, I am very grateful not to be married to Adi first. Maybe if I were to marry her, I would feel the same suffering as Ka Cinta. 

They divorced in August 2021. And to this day I still communicate well with Ka Cinta. But not with Adi, I'm even sick of remembering that she likes to badmouth me into Ka Cinta. Even he told no facts to anyone else about my family. 

I want to thank Ka Cinta who was looking for me at that time, maybe if I was not in search with her I do not know how Adi news now. Maybe it was karma that she had to accept because it had hurt my heart and my parents so much. I wish he could change and repent to the right path.