Among Thousand Journeys

Sakinah Family

In the morning at 8, actually I also just got a little sleep, but there are guests, then I still have to meet, be a servant of God, then anyone who comes, and whenever the time we have to be ready, then I still have to meet, when I asked me to train myself to be five, I was still timid, and I wasn't brave, but when my body and soul were tired, it felt like science made myself into five was necessary, too, so I could one be dhikr, one was serving guests, one was looking for maisyah, one was spying on the other, and one was helping the other, it often came to pass, but the fear of being five further dominates my mind and my heart.

I met a young woman with

her mother's.

“What's bu...?” I ask still with my eyes

it is a very sleepy.

“Anu this is my son..” said his mother, jawil mother.

to his daughter.

“What's up to.?” my many. The girl's eyes looked bright,

“I asked do’anya guru, so that I can calmly undergo a complicated marriage.”

“Complicated how?” my many.

“Please kyai this water blown first, let me drink let me calm down.” said the girl while

take out the aqua bottle.

“Wah I have not yet brushed my teeth. hehehe, new.

wake up, my breath will smell.” I said

joking.

“Tak nothing kyai, let me can bless it...”

“Wah is not a blessing later obtained, even

disease.” I said.

“No kyai..., inflatable kyai monggo, let me

drink.” said the girl again, while bringing mineral water closer to my front.

“Monggo to kyai, let my son get barokah

from kyai.” said his mother.

“This is really me inflatable?” my many.

“Yes yes, I've been waiting for.” says

the girl in front of me.

“Alright.” I said cringe.

Actually, my breath really stinks, even though it's like a remembrance until morning, and morning after dawn dzikir for a while, and just want to sleep there are already guests.

The water I finished blowing and I handed it over, then drank by a girl named Laila Lataifa, and the water was placed nearby, ee her mother immediately took the water in the mineral bottle and drank the water.

“Mother…! Don't spend.”

The world was getting weird, and I saw Laila Lataifa calm down.

“Thank you mas kyai, my heart so calm.” said Laila Lataifa.

“This is the real problem what?” I said.

“Yes I want to marry someone outside Java, and my future husband wants me to come with him, while my father wants me here

and my husband is here, dad if I'm not here, he wants my marriage to be annulled

Laila's.

“Only about like that?”

“Iya kyai.” I said.

“I already love him very much, and I do not know if I should not marry him, our relationship has also been running six years, we both studied in the same department, namely medicine.”

“So until this doctor to?”

“Iya kyai.”

“Any..”.

“What's weird kyai?”

“La doctor really ask for water to be blown

weird?” I said.

“But in fact I immediately feel calm.”

obviously Laila.

“Usually doctors don't believe that

like this.”

“Ah not also kok kyai, we also trust.”

obviously that woman.

“Marriage is not just love, try to lean love on the husband, because it loves God, because love is leaned on the Eternal Soul, then love will be eternal, far from the interests of lust ego, because love is, Allaah commands a wife to submit to the husband, so submit and serve the husband because Allah rules, not because of who the husband is, who serves the husband, with sincerity and love because of Allah then when invited to sleep, if invited to sleep, his reward will be like the reward of the hajj and umrah, which is received, the woman.

So the wife makes the husband as a field of reward, where the wife seeks the pleasure of Allah. If marriage is based not on love but on lust, a handsome face, then that love will be impermanent, the wife will try as hard as possible to make her husband happy with his maximum service, because of the hope to get ridho Alloh.

If the wife is afraid that she cannot make the husband happy, and in her heart is afraid of the wrath of God, because she cannot keep the integrity of the household ark, the wife whose husband is always happy and happy, then such a wife will be ordered to choose from which door she wants to enter heaven.” I explained.

“So does a husband, who loves his wife because of God, not because of beauty, who always protects and gives guidance. Remember to give guidance not to defeat or master, but to set an example with a noble character.

Reign with a dialogue of love and compassion. Not to impose the will of all wills and orders must be followed, because a person who sincerely governs does not want his orders to be followed. If he wants his command to be followed, obeyed, he has failed to become a husband, and his efforts to become God over his wife will not be carried out, because since long ago man who tried to become God was never successful unless certainly opposed, because the nature of man as a servant, not as God.”

Enter two more middle-aged women,

“Mari please sit.” I said please sit on the carpet. Laila Latoifa and her mother fell silent.

“The obedience of a wife to her husband, and the obedience of a son to his mother, why is it like that? In order for the attachment of a person to connect like a chain of complementarity, iniquity other than Allah there are three, the immortality of a son to his mother, the durability of a warrior runs away from his war line, and, and the iniquity of the wife to her husband,

When Siti Fatimah daughter of the Prophet, crying because of the distress of her life, then the Prophet came, and saw the state of Fatimah, and then advised, said the Prophet SAW,

'‘if I command the grain mill to turn, it will surely the wheat mill will spin continuously to lighten your load grinding the wheat, but I do not do for you, that you grind the wheat with your hands and cook it for your husband, but I do not do for you, because in fatigue there is the value of devotion, in the value of devotion shows the value of obedience’atan there is the reward of patience, and the promotion of the rank on the side of Alloh, '”

“Foods made by a mother, with the sincerity of love, and there are do’a angels in it, will affect the soul, and personality of a child, if food is bought with so, snack here and there, and so on, it is certain to have educated children to be materialists, judge anything by the value of money, and appreciate anything with money, if there is no element of money then it is not considered valuable or worth judging.

So that kid how the parents write, that's a small example that might escape our attention.” I said.

“What's the mother of the two?” I asked two people who had just come, one was young and the other was half old.

“What problems?” my many.

“Family problems kyai.” says young woman

the one who introduced himself was named Maslihah.

“Tell me, maybe I can help.” I said.

“That's kyai, my husband interrupted.” replied

Musliha.

“Typically the man was screwed because

lack of mutual understanding and no communication at home, often between wife and husband is not open to each other, and the wife has no desire to make her husband happy, the wife does not keep the appearance for the husband, and the wife does not keep the appearance of the husband, but most even preen when out of the house,,

Seriate....