Girl Without Nasab & Ningrat Son

Ngunduh Mantu's

A few weeks later in Solo, the Hadinata family was welcomed by the State family at one of the star hotels in Solo. The event ngunduh mantu itself will indeed be held at the star hotel in the center of Solo. So, the day before the Hadinata family had arrived in Solo.

Now, Indi has been. Because the State family still has blue blood, so Ngunduh Mantu is carrying the concept of Javanese marriage is thick with various customs and traditions.

An MUA also decorate Indi in such a way, do not forget to make paes on the forehead of Indi which is then blackened using a black pidih. While the wedding dress held this afternoon is made of red velvet cloth. Indi was transformed into the bride of Princess Solo who was so beautiful.

Until finally, it was time for the two brides to be taken out. At the ceremony, the State family is ready and will receive both brides.

"Daughter of Soloku the ayu" whispered Satria.

"Make up is too bold huh Mas? Very red lipsticks," replied Indi.

"Customized to your red shirt, dear. Even though the makeup is calar, you still ayu kok," Satria replied.

Hearing her husband's words, Indi smiled. Shame whenever praised pretty by her own husband. Indi was now flanking her husband's arm, the two walked together to the pelaminan. Indi just found out her husband's family who is businessman and blue blooded has so many guests. Maybe it was a wedding party attended by many invited guests that Indi saw.

"The guests are so many, Mas ... I'm groggy," said Indi.

"Not to be groggy. You're beautiful like this" Satria replied.

Then before arriving at the wedding, both brides will be received with someone who will deliver a speech. For a long time the speech was spoken and received by representatives of the State family. After that, Ibu Galuh took a step forward and gave drinking water to Satria and Indi. It is a symbol that both are accepted as family. Also, with Indi who is not a foreigner, but well received in the family of the State.

After that, Rama Bima and Bu Galuh spread a red and white cloth where it was enough for Indi and Satria. Then Rama Bima guided the two brides to the pelaminan as a symbol of his duty as a father is to bring his son to the wedding. After that, the children will learn independently. While Bu Galuh walked behind holding Satria and Indi's shoulders. It is also a symbol that when a father leads, a mother will push from behind.

It is in harmony with Ki Hajar Dewantara's remark that the father became a role model in front of the leading children (Ing Ngarso Sung Tuladha), who led the children, while the mother figure will continue to provide support from behind (Tut Wuri Handayani). Both father and mother take part in educating and raising children. Their duties are considered to be completed when the children are already married.

Once the two brides are already in the pelaminan then proceed with various processions that condition the meaning and beautiful symbols. Starting from Penang or Bribe, where a man will give a living to his wife. Responsible for supporting the wife. Continued with Pangkon ceremony or held by Rama Bima. In this ceremony it means that both Satria and Indi when held in the weight or weight is the same. As proof that the State family will not distinguish between a child and a ghost. Both brother and daughter-in-law are accepted, loved, and treated fairly.

I don't know how many processes Indi and Satria have undergone. Now both are welcome to sit down and then the State family to pick up the Besan family who are none other than Dad Pandu and Mother Ervita.

When he was with Satria, Indi whispered softly. "Feel the newlyweds again well, Mas. Our marriage has been over a month" he said.

"Yes, Honey. Tired yet?" ask Satria.

"Not tired, Mom. May it be strong until the end" Indi replied.

"Rama and Mother, Satria asks for the blessing prayer to build a household together with the only chosen woman of Satria's heart. May Rama and Mother please give our blessing to both of us" he said.

"Yes, Satria, my son. Rama and Mother and pray, your wish is to build a household in the presence of Allah. You two can fill each other, immediately endowed God with offspring," said Rama Bima.

Galuh's mother shed tears, moved by the taste. However, Bu Galuh also felt very happy because her husband had now softened his heart, had given blessing to Indi and Satria.

"Begging Rama's prayer and blessing" said Indi.

"Yes, Mrs Indi. Sorry for the old one. Accompany Satria and feel happiness in the house," replied Rama Bima.

Indi shed tears as well, finally the blessing was obtained. Praying to feel happiness in the home. Really, Indi was moved by it. More moved when Rama Bima hugged him for a moment.

"You and Satria are the same. Yes, both his sons Rama," said Rama Bima.

Not only approved, but also accepted as a child in the family of the State. A full view. If Indi can look back, some of the invited guests also shed tears because they were moved.

After that, Indi and Satria asked for blessings to Dad Pandu and Mother Ervita. Indi is now the one who spoke first with his Father and Mother.

"Yayah and Nda, Indi thanked for the affection of Yayah and Nda all this time. Today is a happy day for India. Once again, Indi asked for prayers and blessings from Yamah and Nda, to build a household with Mas Satria. Nda, thank you for always being a great Mom for Indi. Yayah, thank you for everything" Indi said in tears.

Mother Ervita and Dad Pandu shed tears as well. Pandu's father hugged his daughter and kissed her cheek.

"Yayah always bless Ms. Didi and Satria. Always happy, son. You used to start a relationship with Satria full of tears. Now, be happy. Forever, Jayah always loves you" said Pandu's father.

"She, love you too. Forgive me, Mother Didi. However, 25 years ago if there was anything that Nda wanted to keep it was you" said Mother Ervita.

"Thank you for keeping Indi, Nda. Although all by mistake, Indi believes that after that we only live the destiny of God. Nda, more than Nda knows, Indi always loved Nda," he said.

Mother Ervita nodded her head and hugged her daughter."Happy always with Mas Satria. Nda always love you," replied Mother Ervita.

Without Indi and Satria down there there are also tears. There is a desire to be able to get a share in this ceremony, but he can only sit down to join the besan family.

"You are happy with your family, Indi. I wish you and Satria the best ...."