Girl Without Nasab & Ningrat Son

No Cawe-Cawe

The phrase cawe-cawe lately is often heard. This term in Javanese has the meaning of meddling. People who interfere in other people's business. While now Rama Bima said that he would not be cawe-cawe.

"New trend tuh Rama, the phrase cawe-cawe," said Satria.

Rama Bima then laughed. "really. Rama has been following the news lately. I think 2024 will be hot, Sat."

"Yes, Rama. The term cawe-cawe to trending also on Twitter," Satria replied.

"It's all changed, Sat. Parents used to feel that the child is always a child, so even though the children are married, parents still consider this child is a child. They know constantly, are asked to obey or obey constantly. But now it's different."

Apparently now Rama Bima realized that. There are times when parents do still consider their children to be small children, can not be independent, so whatever the child decides the parents always interfere or cawe-cawe.

"If the parents think the child is a small child, every decision is not appreciated, yes the children will depend forever on the parents. He is not confident in his decision. Though the head of the family must dare to make a decision," said Rama Satria again.

"Yes, Rama. One of them self-study for a young married couple is living together, Rama. Not with parents or in-laws. Of course with all the risks. However, according to Satria living independently after marriage is the first step to more mature," Satria replied.

"Then, Rama and Mother were so married also independently. Not following parents and in-laws. Eyang in Solo, well Rama was given a home in East Solo. Studying homeless. That household, Sat .. learned it throughout life, all the time. Sometimes the husband is wrong, the wife forgives. Sometimes the wrong wife, the forgiving husband. The lives of Rama and Mother are also far from perfect. However, that does not mean Rama and Mother stopped learning. Until now, Rama and Mother continue to learn," said Rama Bima again.

Indi smiled, he knew many imperfect marriages. Wrong, wrong, and so on. However, it does not mean giving up, but must continue to learn, improve what is not good for the better. Learn to understand your partner throughout life.

"Building bebrayan iku ora enough wektu sedino utawa a year, nanging sak lawase, Sat."

Now Rama Bima said the advice in Javanese which means building a household is the time it takes not just a day or a year, but so on, throughout the ages. That is truly a beautiful advice. When he listened to the advice, Satria glanced at his wife. Satria also wants to spend all his life with his wife. Pun Indi felt glimpsed by her husband also smiled thinly. That's right, starting a household is easy. Enough to meet and followed by the reception. But building it is not easy. It takes love, loyalty, commitment, and more.

"The nature of Nuwun Rama .. the advice is very beautiful," said Indi now.

"Sama-sama Ma'am Indi. Rama and Ibu continue to bless Mbak Indi and Satria to last," said Rama Bima.

"Mother also Kok Mbak Indi, always give blessing. Waiting well, next month to Solo when Sitha graduated. Nakula and Sadewa let's see the factory of his watch Eyang Rama well. Play in the rice fields. In the past, Papamu liked to kite in the rice field until the afternoon. Nakula and Sadewa tomorrow if big like Papa Satria also do not kite?"

Everyone there laughed at Galuh's words. Although the nobility, it turns out Satria also passed through childhood like other children can play kites in the rice field. Indi immediately imagined how her husband was as a child. Perhaps later, Nakula and Sadewa will also be like her Papa.

"Not bad, Yang," said Satria quickly.

Ma'am Galuh laughed. "The names of the children are bad. It is natural for Mrs Indi. Even so, in school Satria always champion one really."

"If you're naughty, don't. Yes, sometimes even, Indi. Sometimes disobedience, children understand. Rama thought all the children would be like that, too" replied Rama Bima.

Indi nodded his head, a natural thing indeed for children. There are times when a little naughty, a lot of crying or crybaby, or can also be disobedient. All the contents of the childhood story will not go far with it.

"Rama and Mom are happy, you're both grown up. Trying to build a house together. Maybe later you will pass through sharp pebbles, there are times when you feel heavy rain, cloud overcast, and so on. Trust Rama, on the sidelines of all the phenomena there is a rainbow that you can see together. The point is Rama and I don't want to be cawe-cawe, Rama and I are sure to both of you. If you tell stories and ask for advice is the place where parents give advice, not force the advice," said Rama Bima again.

"Sup, Rama. Mature new. Mother and Father are like that too. Whoa, Indi seneng. Not only Nakula and Sadewa who met Eyangnya, Indi also seneng get advice, good advice."

Indi said all of that honestly. He also enjoys listening to advice like this. Teachings and advice from parents are guidelines for children. Good teaching if done well, will reap good results as well.

"Where are you if you want to go out both can. Let Nakula and Sadewa be with Eyang Rama and Mother" said Bu Galuh.

Satria and Indi smiled. It's been a month and the two haven't been together. Especially Indi who choose to be at home. Even the need for Twins has been bought by her husband.

"Since giving birth, Indi rarely comes out, Mother. Most out of the morning vegetable shopping," he replied.

"Sometimes both roads are okay, Ma'am. If you come here, take a minute. Mama and Papa just need refreshing," replied Miss Galuh.

"It's still her pleasure to have children, Mom. Play and ngasuh Nakula and Sadewa there is no boss," Satria replied.

"Brand Ma'am, still a new parent. Not much different from the two of us before" said Rama Bima.

"Yes, Rama. Especially the handsome Twins well. His cheeks are getting bigger," replied Galuh.

The two middle-aged elders laughed together by looking at the faces of his two grandchildren who were now getting rounder and more handsome. Understand that the phase for new parents is still a pleasure to care for their own children, share laughter, and always be fascinated with the growth and development of the baby. Deep in the heart, Rama Bima and Bu Galuh always pray that Indi and Satria in building a dream is always strong and happy always.