Girl Without Nasab & Ningrat Son

Traumatic Stories

Although Satria dodged and said it was okay, Indi actually thought to herself with her husband. Yang Indi knew that the trauma was related to a mental problem and had to be resolved immediately. In addition, Indi certainly did not hesitate to be the best support system for her husband.

A day later, when Nakula and Sadewa had fallen asleep, Indi asked her husband again.

"Mas, can I ask you a question?"

Feeling that Indi was being serious right now, Satria then nodded her head. He was waiting for the question of what his wife was going to ask. Even so, Satria was convinced that it was a serious question.

"Can Mama Indira ask what the hell? Seriously," Satria replied.

"Hm, Mas Satria yesterday said trauma right? What trauma is that? You can tell me. We can find solutions together. Solve the problem together," Indi said now.

"You still thinking, honey? I told you, don't think about it" Satria replied.

"Yes definitely dong's mind. I'm going to wonder what traumatized my husband" Indi replied.

Listening to Indi's question, Satria actually smiled. Satria was even happy that meant his wife was attentive to him. His wife wanted to be the one to listen to his story.

"Nothing, at most it will also heal itself anyway," Satria replied.

"Mas Satria doesn't want to tell me the same story? I'm always there for you. Just like Mas Satria was always there for me" Indi replied.

Satria was silent for a moment. However, he felt a little scared and might have been traumatized. After a moment of silence, Satria finally nodded slowly.

"Trauma saw you giving birth directly. I just found out that maternity is as dramatic and traumatic as that. That memory was recorded and stored in my brain. There are times, I grimace myself when imagined the time you were giving birth," this Satria story.

"really? Doesn't mean Mas Satria doesn't want me anymore, does it?" ask Indi.

Now, Indi said that with tears in his eyes. There was a fear of her husband suddenly not wanting her anymore. All postpartum women are in a state of emotional instability, especially with the condition of the body that is not perfect as Indi. Hamil experienced a weight jump of up to 20 kilograms, but now it is down by half yet.

Satria was confused to see his wife crying. Now, it was Satria who was trying to calm his wife.

"Who doesn't want you? I've always wanted you. .. more than you know, honey. Really," Satria replied.

"Then, why was yesterday dizzy and kept diverting the conversation? I know, now I'm not interesting anymore. Even his body has not dropped significantly," Indi replied.

Satria shook her head slowly, she slowly rolled tears on his wife's face. Now, Satria will be completely honest with his wife. Because, Satria also does not want his wife to be misunderstood.

Now Satria has spoken honestly with his wife. Seeing one after another the birthing process was very traumatic for Satria. True, welcoming a baby is very happy, but seeing moment by moment it takes determination and great guts.

"I told my friend in the office who had studied psychology first. He said I had Post-natal Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), the trauma of witnessing the labor process firsthand," Satria said.

Indi stopped crying. She now does not expect that her husband could be exposed to trauma after seeing labor directly. Is it that terrible maternity?

"My friend said I lacked mental preparation. Yes, lack of mental preparation to deal with unexpected and unexpected events. Indeed your opening process is fairly fast, but still I watched all. Sometimes the sound of the scissors still ringing in my ears, the image of our baby who is the only pure white among the blood, all still clearly imagined. Men can experience that too."

Hearing her husband wholeheartedly, now Indi even feel sorry for her husband. Just imagine Nakula and Sadewa have been almost two months, but Satria can only speak honestly now. For two months, and Satria kept all her own.

"Then, how did you get out of that trauma?" ask Indi.

"I'll get better" Satria replied.

The condition that Satria told me was not making it up, but Post-Christmas Post Traumatic Stress Disorder was really there. This condition can be felt and experienced by both men and women, only with different symptoms. For women, the source of the trauma is more because of the pain, pain, and all the pain that is inflicted during childbirth. There are also post-delivery injuries. As for men, tend to be remembered with all the atmosphere, moment by moment recorded with his brain. It is the husband who sees everything in person, so the live picture of labor is recorded by the male brain.

Traumatic conditions, cervical bleeding, to the condition of an unstable wife trigger the emergence of trauma for a husband. Apparently Satria also experienced that. Post-natal PTSD can lead to behavioral changes. Some men become super sensitive and worried about the condition of their wives and children.

The response is well received because the husband turns into a sensitive figure and is more attentive with his wife and children. Or negatively, precisely men can turn into an indifferent and unattentive figure with his wife and child. As for Satria himself, apart from his good character, Satria is also very caring and considerate with Indi, Nakula, and Sadewa.

"Finally .. I'm afraid to touch you. All made worse by the sound of scissors coming back to my ears, also the doctor said yours was in the race at that time. Serem, honey," said Satria again.

"If Mas Satria wants to recover or to a psychologist, let me go," Indi replied.

"No, I'll get well later too. I'm getting better now. Don't think weird. I'm just afraid, if it makes the pain worse, it becomes so" said Satria now. Now, Satria not only wiped Indi's tears, but the man also pinched his wife's nose.

"sickness ...."

"So, you're thinking strangely. Even though I was so longing, I better hold back first. Until you fully recover and improve" Satria said.

"I'm healed. Fully," Indi replied.

Satria nodded her head slowly, she now hugged Indi. Bringing his wife into his arms. "Cheal first, don't rush. My love can wait for you, my love can control the desires that sometimes arise by itself. The point is don't think weird, I've always loved you."

In the arms of her husband, Indi returned teary-eyed. He really felt a lot of love. A love that waits, a love that sets aside its desires. What a great love Satria showed Indi now.