Girl Without Nasab & Ningrat Son

Post Christmas Traumatic

A few days later, Satria felt much better. Can be at peace with himself. However, Satria also worried about Indi's condition. Because, in the mind of Satria, Indi who experienced everything. Pain that increases every time, feeling the opening before labor, to giving birth which of course all the pain was inflicted.

Therefore, now Satria is trying to question the condition of his wife. Do not let when there is a postpartum traumatic that faced Indi, and Satria as a husband just do not know at all. Therefore, Satria also wants to know how his wife's mental condition.

"Darling, it used to be painful, right?" ask Satria now.

"Yes, it hurts .. it hurts a lot even," Indi replied.

Satria nodded her head slowly. Actually without Indi answering, Satria also already knew that the pain was very intense. The cries, tears, and look on Indi's face could tell all that.

"Why Mas?" ask Indi now.

"Ehm, not really. I just want to ask, is that just me traumatized or can you? You see, I read about women after giving birth can also experience trauma," explained Satria.

"It was the beginning of childbirth and the pain is still there, you are afraid. However, almighty of Allah, when the babies were born, the pain was slowly reduced, becoming very happy. So the pain is felt again after the suture anyway," explained Indi.

Because, it is common for mothers who are in pain and feel traumatized. The long-term impact there are some women who only want to have a child. Not wanting to give birth again because the pain was so overwhelming. When examined and searched for the root of the problem apparently because of the impact of post-natal traumatic syndrome.

"So you're okay, right? Do not let you also feel that fear and not tell me at all" said Satria.

Indi quickly shook his head. "No, I always talk to you about anything. Open the same as well. We have promised to be friends sharing stories throughout the ages" said Indi.

Satria was relieved, until the man nodded his head slowly. Very grateful to be able to undergo various phases that greet in his household life. Make a partner as a friend to share stories.

"Mas itself is better yet?" ask Indi.

"Oh, you're so pinter. Applying support from the closest people. My closest person is you, dear," Satria replied.

What Satria said is very true because the support of the closest people, from loved ones will provide positive energy. These few days Satria had already sensed it. Ever since Indi touched her these few days, Satria felt better.

"I think I'm really getting better, baby," said Satria now.

"Thank God, I listened to it. Just once, Mas has improved," Indi replied.

Satria then nodded her head again. "Yes, because you give support. You are patient with me too. The result was already felt," Satria replied.

Indi was very happy to hear it. This is the home life that can and does fill each other. There are times when problems in the household are small, but even small problems must be solved. Look for a way out, so as not to cause new problems.

"Good dong. Cook ya Mas will be afraid until the kids kindergarten," Indi replied teasingly.

"Yes not too. Which can hold up for years. You are also-there is a deh," Satria replied.

New Satria stroked slowly the side of his wife's face and wanted to land a kiss on his wife's lips, Sadewa woke up and cried. The young papa laughed.

"Duh, God cried at the wrong time anyway," muttered Satria.

"Patience, Papa .. I help Sadewa first," said Indi.

"You just sit down, honey. Let me carry Sadewa," Satria replied.

Finally, Satria who stood up, she immediately headed to the baby box and immediately carried Sadewa. On his butt was given a slow swab to calm the baby.

"It's late, Nang .. Come on, bobok. Papa just wanted to kiss widodari (in Indonesian is Bidadari) loh. Failed it" said Satria.

While Sadewa, who is now being led by her father, actually speaks her typical baby language. His lips went forward a few centimeters as if inviting his Papa to speak.

"That Sadewa wants to talk to Papa tuh," said Indi.

"Yes, have a good night to talk to Papa. Tomorrow if Papa's big friends watch football well," said Satria.

More than half an hour later Sadewa was awake. Until finally Indi asked his son, and gave ASI to Sadewa first. Not long after, Sadewa fell asleep again.

"Bobok already?" ask Satria lirih.

"Yes, it's Papa. Sadewa wants to play it with Papa," Indi replied.

"Yes, tomorrow play with Papa. Papa controls Nakula, Sadewa, and Mama."

Indi chuckled at her husband's answer. Finally, Satria returned to the bed beside his wife. "Again, Yang?"

"Mas Satria would like to?" ask Indi.

"It's not me, we. The other day I already. We also need some time to relax together" Satria replied.

Indi then analog clock on his phone for a bit. The clock was quite night. Then Indi gave an answer.

"Mas, it's not that I refuse, but it's been too late. Just bobok yuk. Tomorrow night Nakula and Sadewa are booby. How's it?" ask Indi.

Satria is smiling now. "Well, your words are very shady. I don't feel rejected. Thanks, Honey. You are actually a very grown up. Yes, tomorrow yeah."

Satria immediately opened her hands, hinting Indi to enter into her arms. Honestly, Indi's words and also the way the woman said it was very shady. Makes Satria smile instead. While for Indi himself he knew when rejecting the husband was a sin, but when well conveyed, expressed the reason the husband and wife relationship was also negotiated together.

"Makasih Mas Satria .. has always been a very understanding figure" said Indi.

"Thank you, you've always been a kindly wife. Love u, dear."

She smiled, hugging her husband. At the same time learn that there are indeed many things in married life that must be communicated together. Seeking a middle ground, not getting angry when you hear something. Instead of being angry, it is better to try to apply art in communicating. Just like Indi and Satria, the wife tried to speak softly, while the husband tried to understand and understand. That way, household life is also far from the quarrels and also fights that often occur between couples.