Girl Without Nasab & Ningrat Son

Ijab Qobul

A happy day has arrived. Yes, today will be held Ijab Qobul Satria and Indi in the Hadinata family residence. The event was closed and only attended by families.

Since last night, Pandu's father has been mellow because his daughter is getting married. He couldn't sleep well last night. In addition, there is sadness in the heart of Dad Pandu because he cannot be a marriage guardian for Indi. Because, Indi has no pith. Practically, the judge will be the guardian when the agreement is held.

Now, in the Hadinata residence, especially in the pendopo, yellow janur has been installed. Janur itself is a coconut leaf. For the Javanese themselves janur has the meaning "Sejatining Nur" (true light, divine light, true light, illuminated light). Its yellowish-white color symbolizes the bright light and hope that has the wish that his intentions are desired by God, given a bright light in his future life, given ease in the future.

Meanwhile, Indi was already decorated in the room. The ayu girl wore a white kebaya and also wore a typical Solo paes on her forehead. Paes are decorations on the forehead of the bride made using a black pidih. For make up, Indi chose natural not too bold. Because, he thought it would only hold ijab qobul only.

"Beautiful, Ms Didi ...."

Mother Ervita and Eyang Tari Hadinata looked at Indi who was preparing in the room. Both agree that Indi is indeed so beautiful. Manglingi, very pretty. Although the makeup is natural and only wearing paes only.

"Nda ..., Eyang," replied Indi.

"Are you ready, Mommy?" ask Eyang Tari.

"Goddessa, Eyang. Give your blessing to Indi well, Eyang. Sorry, Indi preceded his grandchildren by marrying first" said Indi.

Eyang Tari nodded his head. "It's okay, Madam Indi. Means from his four grandchildren Eyang, you are indeed close to his soul mate. Pray that Eyang, you and Mas Satria are happy always well," replied Eyang Tari.

While in pendopo, Satria's side has come. The young man was wearing a white armour with a curl of a barricade around his waist to his feet. In addition, there is also a blangkon perched on his head. So dashing Satria arrived accompanied by Eyang Dirja and Galuh Mother. In addition, Satria's younger brother Sitha also came.

The groom comes with a gift or paningset for Indi. All offerings have been arranged on the tables that have been prepared. The Hadinata family also received the arrival of the Satria family, minus Rama Bima who was not present.

In addition to the Hadinata family, also came the parents of Mother Ervita from Solo, with her sister's family. Then there are special guests who are invited specifically, namely the family of Mr. Firhan or Indi's biological father. Even to invite him, Dad Pandu and Mother Ervita who came alone to Solo.

Mr. Firhan shed his tears. The child from the womb he had rejected, when he grew up and knew everything to forgive him, apparently now he would be mengedunting a man. Pandu's father went to see Mr. Firhan and chatted for a moment.

"Current nuwun already want to come to Jogja," said Pandu's father.

"For Indi. I feel happy, your family and Indi want to ask me to come" replied Mr. Firhan.

"Definitely invited, however Indi your daughter too," replied Pandu's father.

"Thank you yeah ...."

Mr. Firhan was delighted to be invited. To attend Indi's wedding, he and his wife willingly came from Solo kw Jogjakarta. This is also the first time Mr. Firhan knows the residence of a Hadinata Pandu.

After the penghulu attended, Mother Ervita and Eyang Tari, as well as Eyang Sri who picked up Indi. The ayu girl will be sat down with Satria in front of the ruler. While Satria has tried to calm down, because since then he was very groggy actually.

"We just sit behind the judge," asked Dad Pandu to Mr. Firhan.

"Come, alike. I am the Father, but you are also the Father" replied Pandu.

Mr. Firhan was really moved. Even the Hadinata family treated him so well. Now the two chose to sit behind the judge. The biological father does not have the right and authority to marry Indi because it does not provide accountability.while Dad continued and indeed not his muezzin certainly can not marry Indi. Both men sat behind the judge.

Now, Indi has walked to the front of the pendopo. The groom set his sights on Indi alone. Really, the bride is very pretty. With white kebaya and Solo bridal makeup, making Indi very ayu. Like the royal princess. Satria alone until not blinking to pay attention to Indi. Until finally, Indi was already sitting next to him.

Then, Eyang Hadinata put on a white veil to cover Indi and Satria. The meaning in marriage of two equally hard heads will be put together. Uniting two heads, of course there will be a clash. However, it depends on how far the two are to collaborate together when building and living a household.

"Can we start the deal now?" ask penghulu.

"Yes" replied Satria and her family.

Bismilbornrahmanirrahim ....

Then the judge began to shake Satria's hand. Ready to marry Satria to Indira.

"Bima Negara Satria Brother bin Bima Negara, "Satria Brother, I marry you and I control you with Indira Hayuningtyas bint Ervita Amalia whose guardian has submitted to me to marry you to a dowry and a set of prayer instruments paid for in cash."

Satria took a deep breath, she then answered the qobul wholeheartedly.

"I accept the marriage and marriage of Indira Hayuningtyas with the dowry in cash."

The foreman and the witness nodded their heads. "Well!"

"Goddessa ...."

Satria said Alhamdulillah with her lips alone moving, but no sound at all. While Mother Ervita, Dad Pandu, and Pak Firhan both shed tears. Bu Galuh and Eyang Dirja's daughter also cried. The State family should be present. However, from the state line no one was present.

Then proceed with the recitation of the holy verse of the Quran. Satria and Indi cupped their hands together. Satria and Indi were crying too. Although this day is beautiful, it means the unification of the two of them, but there is sadness because of the absence of the State family.

In addition, it is only holding a contract only on the part of the family because it is the family and close relatives who know that Indi is a girl without nasab. The family has the authority in such cases to hold the agreement closed or open. While the Hadinata and Satria families have agreed that this marriage is just an Akad only with the closest family and relatives attended.

"It is legal, Mas Satria and Mbak Indira," said the official from the Office of Religious Affairs.

"Thank you, Mr. .. thank you," Satria and Indira replied with a smile.

This was the beginning of their journey. It was just a standing bush waiting for them. However, in this bond of love Satria and Indi will get stronger and not be afraid to face whatever happens in front later.

Last night again well Bestie .... 😋