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Boyongan to Husband's House

It did not feel like a week had passed, it means that this weekend the Hadinata family will take Indi to live with Satria in the house owned by her husband. Still in the area of Gudeg city, but Mother Ervita and Dad Pandu already feel sad because of it. Yes, when a child is going to get out of the house and unite with her husband, it will be an emotional moment for the parents.

The shadow how it used to raise a child, give birth to a child, raise him, until finally the child had to get out of the house of Father and Mother, and unite with her husband. Still remembered how the first little Indi, cherry Indi who filled the entire house. Until how the house became a place where Indi grew every day.

Now, Dad Pandu and Mother Ervita will deliver Indi to her husband's house. A couple wearing sarimbit batik with the same pattern. In Javanese boyongan tradition, parents and siblings who ushered did not come empty-handed. However, parents give raw food ingredients, kitchen utensils and cutlery that amount to each pair. As a symbol that parents agree to it and pray for the child to learn to be married together.

That afternoon, who delivered Indi and Satria not only Dad Pandu and Mother Ervita. However, there was Eyang Hadinata who participated. While in the Satria residence there are already Eyang Dirja and Bu Galuh who will receive.

"Monggo, please come in," said Galuh, warmly, Miss Galuh, let the bride and the Hadinata family into the house.

"Satur Nuwun, Miss Galuh," replied Mother Ervita.

"We came here to take Indi to her husband Bu Galuh's house. Furthermore, it is Satria who will guide and guide Indi. Please, our daughter is guided with gentleness. If there is a debate, finish with a cool head. There is no perfect home. There are couples who want to learn together."

Basically, when a girl is married, the responsibility of parents to children will end. Shifting responsibility to the husband. For this reason, Pandu's father gave Indi to Satria to be guided and guided.

"Together Mr. Pandu. We are happy to accept Indi. Just as you have received our son, so will our affection for Mbak Indi continue to flow," said Bu Galuh.

"Love each other my grandchildren. Do not be afraid when the waves come. His name is build bebrayan, build a household that many challenges. However, the two of you should be strong and also nurture each other's love" advised Eyang Dirja.

Satria and Indi who listened to every piece of advice both from the old man and his Eyeang both nodded their heads. Both are young, still in need of guidance. However, both of them felt very happy when there was a representative of the two families welcoming them.

After that, the event continued with a meal together. As well as a moment to get more familiar with the besan family. Although it is not perfect because there is no Rama Bima Negara.

"I'm sorry we are also Hadinata family, we can only welcome what is, and certainly there are less," said Bu Galuh.

"It's okay, Mother. Today is not perfect. Not that it will continue to be so. God willing, on a good day ... the two sides of the family can gather together," replied Dad Pandu.

Only one of their beliefs, that hopefully someday will come where the family of the State and the Hadinata family can gather together. Connecting the rope of love that so far has not been able to unite both parties. By being patient and waiting for the pleasure of Allah, may all be well.

"This is Satria's own house, the results of its work .. insyaallah can be a shelter with Mbak Indi," said Eyang Dirja.

"Yes, Eyang. Doesn't matter. Let the children learn to build a household, learn to know and understand each other, accept its shortcomings and advantages," Pandu's father said.

"Yes, agreed Mr. Pandu. Sometimes we who are old do not need to interfere. The important thing is to pray for children to be happy, that they want to be granted, and also that God will soon give a baby."

"Amand ...."

One thing that is expected by the extended family of both parties is that there will soon be a baby that will complement the happiness of both. Connecting family. Who knows, later the second baby can soften the heart of Rama Bima.

For almost two hours, the Hadinata family was in Satria's residence. Until finally the Hadinata family say goodbye to Bu Galuh, Eyang Dirja, Satria, and Indi.

After that, Indi did a hail of reverence by kissing the back of his father's hand. "Dad, thank you very much" said Indi tearfully.

"Yayah and Nda will go home, if you are free and on vacation, play at home. There, the house is always your home, the door there will always be wide open for you. Message of Jayah, submit and serve Satria as your husband," counsel from Dad Pandu.

"Yeah ...."

"Satria, Yayah Indi yah. Now his daughter Yamah is officially your responsibility, taught with gentleness. Always use the word each other in building a household," said Dad Pandu.

"Ready, Dad. Satria will always remember every message from Father and Mother" replied Satria.

Until finally, they deliver to the front of the house. Indi cried, however sad when separated from his Father, Mother, and Sister. Although still in Jogjakarta, and the distance of their house is not too far, but there is sadness that envelops his heart.

In the car Dad Pandu tried hard, while Mother Ervita was already crying. Her daughter is really an adult now, already and will learn to build a household with her husband.

"Don't cry, Yang," said Satria lirih beside Indi.

Bu Galuh was moved. It is imagined how his family also drove him to Solo to live with her husband. It was full of tears at that moment.

"Get into the yuk. Do not be sad, Mbak Indi .. later entertained Satria. If Satria makes you sad, just report to Mom," said Bu Galuh.

The crying Indi smiled faintly. Thankful that her mother-in-law is good. Eyang Dirja is also a good figure.

"Let's go home too, your mother too. Make this married life to learn together well," said Eyang Dirja.

"Excite, Eyang," Satria replied.

"If you have a holiday and leisure, play to his house Eyang yah, Cah Ayu," said Eyang Putri Dirja.

"Corn, Eyang. Later let Mas Satria take Indi sowan to the house of Eyang," replied Indi.

"Well, so. You keep praying, you two are happy in the afterlife. Eyang happy if his grandchildren are also happy," reply Eyang Dirja.

Indi and Satria smiled. Even without the presence of Rama Bima, they should still be grateful because they are still surrounded by a good family. Many people pray that they will both be happy. Even so, Satria will always try to make Indi happy, showering his wife with love.

I'll see you tonight. 😚

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