Girl Without Nasab & Ningrat Son

The Seven Monthly Ceremony 1

The day also changed. Weeks are changing weeks too. It doesn't feel like a month has passed. The gestational age of India is now seven months. The pregnant woman is chubby. She's also gaining 20 pounds now. Even so, Indi can accept himself. Enjoy change for the changes that happen to him and also be more grateful.

This time because it has been seven months, the family agreed to hold a seven-month ceremony for Indi. If four months used to be done in Solo. Now, seven months are done at the residence of Dad Pandu and Mother Ervita. This was also at Satria's request so that Indi did not have to go back and forth on Jogja's trip to Solo. Fortunately, Rama Bima did not mind. So now it is the turn of the State and Eyang extended family from Bu Galuh who will later break into the Hadinata Family residence. Even so, Rama Bima asked for the ceremony to be done later with Javanese customs complete with watering and Pecok Will.

"So, we're going to Jayah's house now, Yang?" satria asked his wife. Now they are both still at home. Have not left for the residence of Jayah Pandu and Mother Ervita. Both are still at home.

"Yes, now only, Mas," Indi replied.

"Well, what are we going to do there?" ask Satria again.

"I don't know, either, Mas. Follow the instructions of parents. There will also be an MC directing. So, we better just follow," Indi replied.

"Whatever this is a first for me, Yang. So well I don't know what to do later" said Satria.

"You're funny, Mom. I was also the first. I was pregnant this time. You are ...."

The two then laughed together. What Indi just said is true that this is both a first experience for both of them. Therefore, Satria laughed to herself. Then, the two of them prepared and will soon head for the Hadinata residence. Join a big family who are already there.

Taking a trip of more than half an hour, they finally arrived at the residence of Dad Pandu and Mother Ervita. In front of the house has been fitted with a tent because there are several Batik Hadinata employees present and there are employees from the consultant office owned by Dad Pandu. In addition, employees from Oemah Jamu were also invited. There are still some colleagues and business partners invited as well. So, the Hadinata family is really prepared.

While the Pendopo section has been decorated with a rustic theme that combines flowers, leaves, and lights. Later for eye souvenirs will also be part of Hadinata batik cloth, and herbal medicine that has been prepared Rama Bima and Bu Galuh. Although only seven months and held a study, but the Hadinata family just like the middle of having a gawe or have a wish now.

Once he arrived home, Indi greeted the extended family first. Then Indi invited Mother Ervita into the room. Because, Indi again must be made up of Javanese style. Kebaya specifically for pregnant women has also Mother Ervita prepared.

"You're both healthy, right?" ask Rama Bima. "What do you want Rama to do again?"

Satria smiled and shook her head. "Health, Rama. Indi has nothing to crave, Rama. Just more spoiled and more tacky to Satria aja. Sweet in fact" replied Satria.

"Like your Mother used to be, Sat. Irene's pregnant time anyway, nempelan the same Yayah. Once Jayah was working out of town, your mother was crying," Dad told Pandu while reminiscing about the past.

"If your mother is any more different. Pregnant you like to cook in the kitchen. Make a variety of traditional market snacks that," the story of Rama Bima.

Every person's pregnancy always has a story, from Mother Ervita, Bu Galuh, even Indi now. Later this pregnancy will be funny to remember and retell. Satria nodded her head listening to the story of Rama Bima and Dad Pandu.

According to him, Satria finally changed clothes. However, before that he looked around and looked around for where his wife was. Until finally Satria chose to ask Mother Ervita.

"Where is Mother?" ask her by spreading her eyes.

"Mother hide first. Later sungkeman first, so spend it there is a ceremony flush. Rama's request to use Javanese customs is complete," said Mother Ervita.

"Sorry to trouble ya, Nda. Following the complete Javanese custom," Satria replied.

"Not bothered at all. If it is communicated together it does not bother."

Preparation for preparation is also undertaken. Now the Hadinata family and the State family are compactly wearing green sage. Two families are now like Ijo Royo-royo. Guyub together. Then Satria accompanied by Rama Bima and Dad Pandu received guests in front of the house. Say hello and thank you for all the welcome invitations. Then when the event was about to start, Mother Ervita and Bu Galuh brought out Indi who also wore a green Sage kebaya. Although from a distance of several meters, it looks how beautiful Indi berbaya. Although the stomach is getting bigger, but the aura of pregnant women looks so beautiful. Satria's gaze was full of his wife. In a glance, Satria smiled her smile. In his heart he really adored his beautiful wife.

Now Indi and Satria are sitting together. Satria spoke softly to his wife. "Goddessa, beauty. It was like I had just seen an angel" said Satria.

"Not Yellow Klenthing, but Green Klenthing huh Mas?" balas Indi's.

In Javanese folklore that has existed for centuries there is the story of Jaka Tarub, a young man who met and saw the angels who were bathing. Finally Jaka Tarub took one of the shawls belonging to the angels who were bathing, the shawl taken yellow, belonging to the angel named Yellow Krenthing. Finally Jaka Tarub married the angel, until the angel had a baby. However, eventually the Yellow Krenthing chose to return to kahyangan and left Jaka Tarub with his baby.

"Yes, Roro Ayu."

The show started with Sungkeman. Indi and Satria are together now in front of Rama Bima, Bu Galuh, Dad Pandu, and Mother Ervita. This time it was Indi who spoke.

"Rama, Mother, Jayah, and Mother .. Soon Indi will become a mother. For that, Indi apologized for every wrong, transgression, and sin that Indi committed both intentionally and unintentionally. In addition, please pray and blessing so that later Indi can also give birth healthy, safe, and not lacking anything."

Indi said all that with tears. Afterward Indi and Satria performed a bow, kowtowing to Rama, Mother, Mother, and Jayah alternately. The parents gave prayers and blessings to Indi and Satria as well. This moment of silence became full of haru.

After that, Indi was then bathed with water taken from seven springs and mixed with flowers. The water was sprinkled from head to toe. The parents also took turns flushing Indi who had changed into a typical wet clothes with many reroncean jasmine flowers on his arms, shoulders, to his chest. The meaning of this flush is self-purification. The mother purifies herself first before the time of childbirth arrives.

After the flush, Indi again cleaned, repaired his makeup, and again wearing Kebaya which is still green. After this there is still a ceremony that will be done by both of them in this seven-monthly event.