
After coming from Mangunan Pine Forest, now Dad Pandu and Mother Ervita invite his family to eat together at a restaurant not far from Bantul, Jogjakarta. Shady outdoor restaurant and full of breeze. In addition, the sound of gamelan is played. The Javanese say this place is so 'nglaras', suitable for relaxing.
"Ayo-ayo order. Eat first" said Pandu's father.
"Father and Mother first dong," replied Satria.
"The kids used to be okay, too, Sat. After having the child, Father and Mother always want to prioritize children first, then others," said Pandu's father.
That's how Dad Pandu is. Once you have children, the priority is the children first. Eat later, shower later, as long as the child is taken care of first. Especially when Indi and Irene were small first, Dad Pandu and Mother Ervita will work together to prioritize children first.
"Yes, Dad. Like the word a little late eating is okay as long as Nakula and Sadewa eat and are full first. Satria and Indi have now experienced it" Satria replied.
That is how it is when you become a parent. Like the old word when the stomach feels hungry, immediately eat to re-fill the stomach. However, once you have children who will be prioritized are the children first.
"Later Irene, if she gets married, she wants to have a husband like Jayah" Irene said.
Pandu's father smiled. While Mother Ervita and Indi both smiled. Indi remembered himself when he was not married. He wants a figure like his father. A man who is kind, big hearted, responsible, sincere, and all good character is owned by Dad Pandu. Thankfully, Indi also has a husband who has good manners. Satria is also a good man, a man who is willing to be involved in every nurture of the Twins and always helps her.
"These kids are fans of Yayah deh ... Mommy does not have a boy, if you have a boy she would want a wife who is like Mother," replied Mother Ervita with a laugh.
"Yes, because we don't have boys" Pandu's father said.
"In exchange, we have boy grandchildren, Dad," replied Mother Ervita.
Satria who saw the harmony of his wife's family was very happy. In the past, the State family itself was cold, very confined with a few pakems. But slowly changing. There is a looseness and also the relationship of Rama, Mother, Satria, and others becomes more familiar and warm. This change is certainly a good change.
"Later plus granddaughter, Mother," said Satria with a laugh.
"When, Mas?" Irene asked excitedly.
"not now. If Nakula and Sadewa are two years old, just think more," Indi replied.
Satria nodded her head. Satria himself also wants to give time to Indi. Not only immersing themselves to nurture and take care of the children. Because, in the household there are some things that are indeed joint decisions.
The Hadinata family laughed. Nakula and Sadewa were small. It takes the assistance of Mama and her Papa to reach every milestone of her growth. In addition, Indi does want to regulate the distance of pregnancy as well.
"You are married first, Dek .. introduce to Mbak well if there is something certain," replied Indi.
"Still a long time, Ma'am .. if there is someone like Jayah, then Irene will" Irene replied again.
Again Dad smiled. Not denying idolized by his own child makes Dad Pandu happy. Every father is a first love for his daughter. Similarly, presumably Pandu's father managed to become the first love for his daughter. Until his daughter also wants a companion to life like his father.
"If it really is like Jayah, Mother also agrees," replied Mother Ervita.
"It seems that something is close ... just not open yet," said Satria while laughing mocking his sister-in-law.
Irene then laughed and shook her head. "There is no Mas. There are close ones, but there are no serious ones. If you want to take it straight. Dating is afraid to sin. Scared," Irene replied.
"If the courtship is positive it's okay, Dek," Indi replied.
"Yes, you know first, understand the character first," added Satria.
"It's important not to fuck around, Rene. As girls we have only a crown. When the crown has been taken away, there is nothing more we have" said Mother Ervita.
Not immediately refusing to date. However, the style of dating children today must be supervised. Trustworthy, but also given special signs to obey. Mother Ervita simply did not want her children to fall into the same hole as her. Let Mother Ervita who has failed in the past, feel the ups and downs because dating can not take care of herself.
"Ready, Nda," Irene replied with a nod of her head.
"For example, the guy failed, how did Yayah and Nda?"
Now Irene asked with her face down. Just ask. Because, it is undeniable that a good man could have failed in the past. How did Dad Pandu and Mother Ervita respond to Irene's question.
"Does that mean a guy is close to you, only that guy has failed?" ask Mother Ervita.
Irene fell silent. Indi and Satria also did not dare to comment. This time, the conversation has become more serious. Giving an opportunity for Mother Ervita and Dad Pandu to provide answers first.