Girl Without Nasab & Ningrat Son

There's God's Meaning

When looking into the past, many events occur and often make humans feel disappointed. Just like what Indi experienced as a child. Born without a nasab, even he only knew the truth when he was about to get married, ever made him disappointed. There was also envy of his own brother. All of these are very human things.

But now everything becomes clearer. In the bitterness of the past or the way of human life there is the extraordinary purpose of God. Behind the disaster, there is the greatness of God. That's what Indi believes now.

"So mellow right," Satria said to his wife.

Instantly Dad Pandu and Mother Ervita smiled looking at Indi. Indi is still in tears. When discussing the bond with Dad Pandu, it can always knock Indi's heart until the tears just fade.

"Oh, don't cry. Nih, Nang-Nang see Mama loh," Pandu's father told Indi.

"It's just okay, Dad. On this earth there are still people as good as Jayah" Indi replied.

"There are still many good people on this earth, Indi said. What Yayah did was nothing. Already, like this Superhero who saved the world," replied Dad Pandu with a smile.

Indi then spoke again to his father. "For Mommy and for Indi, Yamah is our superhero. Thank you, Yah ... from Indi Little made Indi feel the affection of father, to be the best example for Indi."

Satria nodded, she knew very well that the figure of Dad Pandu had a very big role for Indi. Satria actually tucked hope in his heart, that later if Nakula and Sadewa had grown up his two sons could consider himself as an important figure. Presumably Satria must be smart to look at Dad Pandu. All fathers will be very happy when their children will consider him a Superhero.

"Actually since your Mother was pregnant at that time, Jayah wanted to marry Mother, Mother. However, it still does not make you have a nasab in the name of Jayah. The nasab is a bloodline. If your Father wants responsibility, you will still be considered outside of his authority. The child who is present outside of marriage, before Akad, will basically be called without nasab. Even so, when caught pregnant and then the new man is responsible, it is still true in our faith that this child does not follow the advice of his father," explained Pandu Father.

"So, who followed that nasab while pregnant in marriage, after the contract well, Dad?" ask Satria.

"Yes, Mas Satria. In Islamic jurisprudence, a child born out of wedlock does not have a nasab with his biological father, even though the father acknowledges it or is responsible later in life" explained Pandu's father.

Hearing what Dad Pandu said, Satria nodded her head again. Many laws also apply, including regarding pregnancy outside marriage and of course a child without nasab like his wife. Although the father admits and wants to be responsible though, the child does not have a relationship with his biological father.

"If you marry your Mother when you are still pregnant with Indi, it should not be. It's illegal to marry a woman who's about another man's child. You have to wait for the woman after giving birth. Even if married, also men should not touch it until postpartum and after the puerperium. Everything is recorded in Islamic jurisprudence" Pandu's father said again.

"There are a lot of rules that we sometimes don't know, yeah, well," Satria said.

"True, Satria .. there is no harm in us learning. So this weird past becomes a learning in the future as well. Take good care of yourself when in contact, when dating is good. The relationship of husband and wife for the first time is a blessing in marriage. It is better to enjoy the blessing in conditions that are equally halal for each other," said Pandu's father.

Satria strongly agreed with what Dad Pandu said. Enjoying the main blessings in marriage as a couple who are halal for each other actually brings rewards. Children born in marriage are also recorded clearly. Until later in the day will also not cause new problems anymore.

"That's what makes you fall in love every day with your father, Madam Indi," said Mother Ervita bluntly.

"Finely men are those who value their partners. Ennobling her partner. In our 25 years of marriage, you have always glorified Mother. This problem is also only known to the internal family. Covering up Mother's ugly and sinful past. Even people also know him you are his daughter Yayah Pandu. Indira is Pak Pandu's son," said Mother Ervita.

"Yes, Nda. Indi himself also yuniya Indi is the daughter of Dad Pandu."

Indi also admitted honestly that in his life, at first the father figure he knew was Jayah Pandu. If, not knowing the truth is possible until at any time, Indi also only knows that his father is Jayah Pandu.

"All events have God's intent, dear. The twists and turns of Mother's past, bring you together with an excellent father figure. Grief of being a different child that God removed. God gave the figure and example of a father who is very extraordinary" said Satria.

"That's right, Mas Satria. Our PR, to be a figure and role model for Nakula, Sadewa, and his sisters later," said Indi.

"Amale ...."

Now Mother Ervita and Dad Pandu guarantee the words of her daughter. I also hope that my children will be good figures for their children and their descendants.

"His sister Nang-Nang when is this launching? Let's add a grandchild" Pandu's father said now with a laugh.

"Set the pregnancy distance first, Yah .. let Nakula and Sadewa finish exclusive ASI first," replied Indi.

"Don't be long, Ma'am ... Jayah and Nda may be young, still healthy, can help with parenting grandchildren," replied Dad Pandu.

"If Indi is blessed with twins again, his grandchildren Yamah and Nda directly four tablets," Indi said with a laugh.

"Pregnant three times, his granddaughter is already half a dozen well, dear," said Satria.

Pandu's father, Mother Ervita, Indi, and Satria both laughed. True, if you continue to get twins, pregnant three times their offspring is already half a dozen. It really will be a big family.

"Remember, there is a meaning of God. That means you are trusted by God to take care of children" replied Dad Pandu.

"Amale ...."

By laughing and imagining if it was true Indi and Satria laughed. True in all things under heaven there must be God's purpose. In sorrow and distress, God wants his servant to believe and surrender. In happiness, God reminds us to be grateful. There is always God as the Creator for all of His creation.