Girl Without Nasab & Ningrat Son

Fatherless

After returning from Tea House which is at the foot of Mount Lawu, Dad Pandu, Mother Ervita, and Irene said goodbye to go home first to Jogjakarta. Meanwhile, Indi and Satria are still in Solo. The two will stay overnight at the State family home.

That afternoon, when Rama Bima and Bu Galuh took care of Nakula and Sadewa in the courtyard of the house, Satria took Indi to the edge of the rice field. Enjoy the afternoon together by staring at the expanse of green rice fields. All the green color of the rice is really cool in the eyes, especially when the wind blows is a beautiful dance.

"She's getting here again" Indi told her husband.

"Say you like rice fields. Yes, I'm here. Nakula and Sadewa are also to be taken care of. Sometimes the Eyang are also happy if it is believed to take care of their grandchildren, dear," said Satria.

"Just Nang-Nang is very active, fearing that Rama and Mother will be exhausted later" Indi replied.

"Relax there is a sore linu jamu for people who are tired really, darling. You can drink Rama and Mama later. It's Sitha too. Let alone, from here also we can observe Nang-Nang," said Satria.

Indi then nodded his head. After that, Satria invited Indi to sit on a wooden chair on the edge of the rice field. With one hand Satria held his wife's hand.

"You know what, Yang ..., that was a couple of times Viona and Anthony were watching the two of us" Satria said.

"Either yes? Lah, observed why?" ask Indi.

Satria shook her head. "Yes, I don't know, honey. Your friend was referring to Anthony?" ask Satria.

"Not referred yet, Mas. There's still a wound in Viona's heart. How infidelity leaves wounds, Mas. How deep we don't know either, but indeed Viona was talking that Anthony several times expressed his intention to refer" Indi's story.

"What's your response, Yang?" ask Satria again.

"Well, this is a tough problem, Mom. For myself when a household issue involves a third person, or one of the cheating spouses it is already a big problem. Receiving back the person who scratched the wound is not easy either, Mas. Scratches of bloody wounds due to a sword could be easily treated. However, scratches on the inside of the heart that incisions may often not bleed, it is difficult to treat" said Indi.

Satria listened to his wife. Satria also knew that wounds in the heart were difficult to heal. It takes longer.

"At least find a middle ground with her son, honey. Poor thing, so that Fatherless does not happen," said Satria.

Fatherless is a state in which there is no real father figure. When a father exists only biologically, but is not psychologically present in the child's psyche. Moreover, Indonesia occupies the third highest position as Fatherless country. Where the role of the father in the family is so minimal. The father figure only functions as a person who works everyday and is not involved in childcare. Like the view in the past that parenting is the duty of the wife. My husband is tired of working from morning to evening or night. The role of father and mother, husband and wife in the household.

"It doesn't mean the son who lost his father because his father died, dear. His father is still there, still alive. However, never involved to nurture it, never bonding with children, do not share its growth and development. For a long time this child only had a physical father, not close to the heart" Satria said again.

"The child loses the father figure itself, feels less able to accept himself, sees the father as a figure of work only, not a figure who loves his children," Satria said again.

Indi is silent now. Maybe it's like him and Mr. Firhan. The point is to appreciate his existence in his life as a biological father only. However, it cannot replace the closeness of heart with Dad Pandu.

Because, it is undeniable that the figure of the father who nurtures him, bestows affection, and supports his growth and development is precisely Dad Pandu. The position of the two in Indi's heart is also different of course. Indi also does not want to be hypocritical, because that is the way it is.

"I am very grateful because Mas not only want to get tired of working and making a living for our family, but always have time to babysit children. Nakula and Sadewa grew up well and had a father figure" Indi said.

Listening to what his wife said, Satria then smiled."Yes, even though I'm not perfect. I still need to learn this and that. Well, Nakula and Sadewa did not lose their papa figures" Satria said.

"In my opinion, Viona and Anthony can share the role well. Even if you can't see Anthony every day, Arbe will know someday. Having a divorced parent does not always make a child feel different. Depends on how to apply Co-Parenting together. Although it is not easy," said Indi.

"True, if in my position when Anthony showed his sincerity to change, improve his commitment, and promised not to play again, Viona could give him a second chance. Being a whole parent to Arbella" Satria said.

"Yes, we wish them both the best, Mas. Do not force our thoughts and suggestions. I see."

"Really, Honey. I want to continue building our home. Filling our love water tank to the brim and overflow, so we can fill the glasses of love belonging to Nakula, Sadewa, and maybe even adeknya later," said Satria.

Indi smile. She rested her head on her husband's shoulder. Indi strongly agreed with what her husband had just said. Both must continue to fill their love water tank to be able to meet the glasses of love owned by their children later.

"So, when do you add momongan?" ask Satria slowly.

"Dedication of Allah" replied Indi.

Satria then nodded her head. "Truly enough, God alone. We both never refused. A boy or a girl from God must have been received with open arms" said Satria.

"Yes, Mas. Hope so. It's important you don't change, Mom. Always the best husband and Papa for the three of us. Do not be fascinated by the various forms of beauty out there," said Indi.

"Goddessa. I have received the most beautiful jewelry from God. God willing, I will always take care of him. Take care of you who are the match and best of God" said Satria.

The two smiled together. Many topics in the family, in childcare. A lot of hope is also expressed. For that, the two will find a way to always be together and collaborate to realize their dream home life.