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First meet. part 3.

So curious was I what the answer bang izal,"What answer did my uncle.?".?"," Brother said that you want to be serious as adek, and not to mess around", replied bang izal with confidence. I feel happy to hear it. Bang izal then said," how does it feel to be with you, brother,?","I also want to be serious with you, not to play, even if we just met, just met, I believe and comfortable with, I believe,before we met, I had fallen in love with my brother, out of kindness, gentleness, and friendliness Brother," I answered with confidence. " Well, what if you want to marry your brother, then?", he asked, as soon as I fell silent and thought, and said," give me three days to think bang, because I don't want to rush,anyway we just know, Abang not yet know who I am, and how my parents,?","I already know all the things about adek, family, and parents adek, paman adek has told Abang, I have been told,precisely because all the things about adek you already know, Abang more steady to apply adek.!", he answered with confidence. "I'll think about it first bang", I said steadily." Yes deck, Abang wait for a reply adek, Abang want to tell adek, if Abang only have an old father, and a younger sister, and my mother has long died, if Abang only has an old father, and a younger sister, and my mother has long since died,may adek want to accept Brother as he is, because Abang also want to accept adek as it is'". We ended our conversation.

On this silent night, when everyone sleeps well, I perform tahajjud and istikharah prayers, to ask for guidance from Allah SWT, I offer a prayer so that Allah may keep bang izal away,if indeed he is not the best match for me, and bring closer bang izal, if he is the best match for me. During these three nights, I prayed tahajud and istikharah, and Setipa at night I dreamed of bang izal, maybe this is a hint from God for me, so that I can make the right decision in my life. During these three days, izal's bang has also been paying more attention to me, so hopefully his feelings are sincere to me. When morning came, where today bang izal would come to ask my answer about his marriage proposal with me, when my uncle sat on the porch, took a cup of coffee, I approached him, and expressed my heart to my uncle,because anyway I have to ask her opinion regarding the marriage proposal submitted by bang Izal to me. My uncle would have no objections, if indeed I loved him and trusted him, my uncle gave his idzin and blessing to me and the izal bang, if it was about telling my grandmother and the other family, he said,let uncle tell them, that's what my uncle thinks is best, and I just follow.

At exactly 11 pm, izal's gate arrived in front of my uncle's house, he knocked on the door, I opened the door immediately, because he had informed me before he arrived at my uncle's house." Assalaamu alaikum..!", he said, I replied, "Wa aleaikum salam bang izal, please come in, my uncle has also been waiting for Abang,!", Izal went inside and greeted my uncle and aunt, as well,and my uncle allowed him to sit on my uncle's right. Coincidentally today is Sunday, my uncle is not working today, and is not going anywhere, to wait for the arrival of the Izal bang, my aunt is also not selling today, because my uncle forbids him to sell,because there's something important we need to talk about. I went to the kitchen to make drinks for us, and brought snacks that we had prepared, such as fried bakwan greens, shrimp farmers, know the contents of vegetables, seasoning tempeh, sweet potatoes, and others. After putting drinks and snacks on the table, I sat down next to my aunt.

Bang Izal also began to talk about the reason for his arrival here," om I came to this om house to propose to the daughter of om named Ani to be my wife, my life companion, my life companion,and I told Ani's deck earlier, and she asked for 3 days to think, and today is the day that Ani's deck will give her answer to this marriage proposal,may Ani's deck accept my proposal, and accept me for who I am", he said with confidence. My uncle answered wisely, "the marriage problem is important, if indeed Ani wants to accept Izal's son, I don't mind, maybe you are already predestined by Allah SWT to mate, if indeed Ani wants to accept Izal's son, I don't mind,and all that God has destined is the best". Bang Izal also saw me sitting next to my aunt with my head bowed, and he immediately asked me what my decision was", I replied with certainty, "I accepted the marriage proposal submitted by my brother to me,but I asked for one thing, that is, that Brother would allow me to finish my studies, that's all" , 'Bang Izal accepted my request and will always support me until my studies are over. I was very happy to hear the words bang izal, I did not think that bang Izal was my soul mate, the guardian angel that Allah SWT gave me.

While drinking the drink that I made earlier, and eating a snack, we also agreed that our wedding will be held simply, within a week. Bang Izal will pass on this good news to his father and his other family, because my uncle also suggested that good things should be done quickly, should not be slowed down. After agreeing, Izal was immediately ready to go home, to immediately talk about it with his father and family, even though we had not had lunch, he said he was full because he had been drinking and eating snacks,I'll have lunch on the old mountain, he said. We just say yes, because it is not good to force people who do not want to.

After the departure of the Izal bang, we also prayed Dzuhur in their respective rooms, because the adzan has been completed.

when I was fully conscious, I remembered my uncle's words, that my grandmother would arrive this afternoon at my uncle's house. I hugged him and kissed him on the cheek, I missed my grandmother so much, when we were separated for a week. Grandma told me to hurry the bath and perform the ashar prayer, and I followed my grandmother's orders happily. Grandma just smiled at my behavior like a child, so happy to see and hug him directly.

After the shower and the prayer, I walked up to my grandmother in the tv room, and sat down beside her, hugging her waist from behind, and my grandmother just smiled at my funny behavior, and said to me, "if you're married, then,you must remain affectionate and diligent to visit grandma yes dear","iya dong nek, please be sure I will still love grandma all my life, because grandmother who loves and raised me and my sister,"I say with complete confidence.

After dinner, we chatted in the tv room, and talked about my wedding plans, the show was simple, just inviting relatives, and my uncle's neighbors, and the show was done at my uncle's house, since my grandmother's house is so small, it probably won't be able to accommodate that many people. Everything was instantaneous, because I didn't want to trouble my grandmother and my uncle, so I just agreed with what they said, the important thing is that I didn't trouble them. My preoccupied uncle and my sister will also come the day before my wedding which is held on Sunday as well, since my sister is still in school, my uncle doesn't want her to take too many school days off,and my sister who will be my guardian later, because my sister is already Aqil puberty, physical and spiritual health. My sister is quite naughty people are cute, likes to fight with their peers, while the person is quiet and likes to be alone, because too much I think, when I am young, but my way of thinking is like an old man. My grandmother strongly agreed that I married quickly, because we do not know when death will come, and I do not want you to suffer for lack of protection, I will face God sincerely,if you have a protector other than Allah and Grandmother, he said. Always pray to Allah SWT to always give mercy and guidance to us, to remain guided by Islam, because in the future our lives will be more difficult, if we do not cling to the teachings of Islam,the religion of Allah, may Allah strengthen our Faith and our Aqidah, so the advice of my dear grandmother, my role model, and I will always remember her advice...

All prayers are best for all of us..

Aamiin ..