Loving Or Loved?

Three Women Chat

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Sitting while chatting after the Ashar prayer is very fun especially accompanied by favorite snacks. And that's what the three beautiful women are doing with their negligee and instant veil, in front of the three are already presented a neat dish of cireng with its curd sambal, basreng plus sambal saos, and so on, and a plate of pumpkin pudding and drinking warm lemon water as a neutralizer of the fatty snacks they eat.

Little Dafa, he was running around alone with his plane-keeping toys. Every now and then he stopped and crouched down to observe the strawberry tree he planted this morning with his Onty, seeing if anything had changed color or not. A child and all his curiosity.

“Mbak know not anyway, I know if I met Bang Aziz already like a thief caught, really deg-degan. In the pursuit of people openly, life feels threatened. Especially pursued by the same people who are nature, attitude, and,

and his face sometimes looks a little like the briengsyeeek ex, then sometimes if it fits again with him menegombalin me, my body was nervous tau Mbak, why can ya kayak row?” ask the youngest of the three.

“Ah, that's because you're trying to dodge Dek. So without you realizing you are depressed or burdened when interacting with Bang Aziz, thus spurring worry or even fear in excess. So deg-degan Dek.” Qiana.

“That's also if you can't control your feelings and thoughts, it could be a psychological trauma. You must learn to be at peace with Fan's past, sincerely men who do not love you sincerely, let your life in the future more freely unencumbered mind. Maybe you exaggerate if you get traumatized because you see your fiance caught holding hands and walking in the mall, he said, but I understand what you saw back then and it's only natural that you have a trauma or something. First you see them in the guy's apartment and then a few weeks later you see them coming out of the house a few days after they've been raided by the abortion police. And the important point is that they acknowledge all that, under the pretext of blaming you who can't keep his own fiancee so turn like that.” Obviously Tiwi who actually knew a little about the science of human psychology. Yap Tiwi deepened psychological science as well while studying PGSD.

Qiana's hand gently touched the back of Fani's hand, despite looking firm for almost half a year. But Qiana also understands that her sister-in-law is often sad and looks still hesitant in establishing relationships with the opposite sex. Lucky Bagas who has the opposite nature and attitude to the former fiancee Fani, can enter and pull Fani back to his world although sometimes still looks a little doubt in the spotlight of his eyes. Na’as, all did not go smoothly, when Fani had slowly mengikhlaskan the figure of the man who can be said to be barbaric, as well, the almost identical new figure reappeared in a thousand ways trying to get into Fani's life.

“Each individual has a clear mind or memory of a past event that then affects the process of development of his life in the future. Coping of ineffective individuals after exposure to uncomfortable situations, then continue to imagine it also has an impact on the traumatic condition. Feelings of fear, discomfort appear accompanied by physiological signs such as heart pounding, cold heat, appearing cold sweat, trembling. So, before you go too far you have to create positive thoughts to close your mind about the dark-dark period Fan,” Tiwi said trying to draw conclusions and suggest what Fani should do.

“God willing, Fani will try to completely forget about it. Honestly, as long as I have known their rot, I still often think what is lacking, what is wrong with me, what is wrong with me, or did I ever have anything wrong until they could admit it was the same me. That's my only girl friend from High School. This Gini makes me afraid to interact with others intensely. But I am so grateful that Bang Bagas has been able to help me a little to forget the painful things.” Answer Fani.

“By the way about the fear of interacting with others, Mbak has also felt this and because this is also the major of Environmental Engineering hihi, Ma, rather ngaco actually because the ends are also working at the Hospital, which is certainly every second, minute, hour, and day filled by many people, many people,” said Qiana while looking at Dafa but her eyes hinted that the owner was looking far back, looking for fragments of memories.

“So why? Story dong Mbak.” Pinta Fani's

“You guys, you realize? When we do good or do good to humans we do not only get good feedback. Sometimes we who do not follow their affairs are also affected. Although nature? He always gives more than what we give, he will not hurt us or give feedback from what we give with something bad, he said, unless we give bad things to nature. While humans? We have given the best, which we have, sometimes still hurt us. The point is because nature always gives good things to me so I want to give good feedback also to him, even though I take this major. At least later I can plunge into the world of minimal work

meet people for example, more related to the environment than people who. yes you know the world of hard work to how, especially at that time I lived in Jakarta,” said Qiana, so on, his mind seemed to ponder far into the past.

“Don't everyone have a reason for their own choice?”qiana continued with a warm smile towards the two women on her right and left side.

“Betul, I also choose PGSD and deepen the science of psychology as well because there is a strong reason behind it.” Tiwi Timpal.

“If I mahhh, taking the current major is certain because later a little more I will join the plunge take care of Papa's business with Abang.” Lirih Fani's.

“Barakallah, may God bless us all for our own choices and the knowledge we have that may be beneficial to the environment around us.” Qiana.

“Aamiin..” Java Fani and Tiwi in unison.

“But Ma'am, do you not feel disappointed, sad or how rowdy? You have been in college 4 years, previous work also can be said to be good, uh know-know-knownya now become a Housewife aja.” Ask Fani.

“No one needs to be disappointed especially in tangisin hihi, realistically this way. Mbak has reached and felt the ideals of Mbak realized, becoming a technical scholar with a good GPA, before graduation has been working at RS even though not every day because there is still a lecture schedule, because there is still a lecture schedule, continue after graduation Mbak can work in a linear place with knowledge that Mbak timba, even his salary can already invest into small-business cake shop. Meeting the little Dafa, made Mbak realize that I had gone too far alone sometimes feel forgotten my nature as a woman. From there she began to learn again and understand more about the nature of women. Thank God again, Mbak's understanding husband, is well established, and can also guide Mbak well. Open to each other, understand each other's nature and try to carry out well our roles. The knowledge that Mbak obtained during this time can also be applied anywhere not only at work, but also at work, so Mbak decided to become an IRT only because of my nature as a woman is also the desire of Mas Akbar and I feel this is also the best decision, he said, because there will be many fields of reward that I will get in this house.” Answer Qiana.

“Ya right too, sometimes realized or not the people around us it has the same concept opposite what you think Qi. Many people think that higher education is identical to get an elite job, but higher education is one way to get knowledge to support big tasks in the future, not just for the sake of the profession but also to make an inspiring mother, a science that is brought not only to score achievements but to score great generations.” Connect Tiwi.

“Yap, that's right Mbak-Mbakcuuu.. because we women are the first madrassas for our children to understand and learn many things in this world.” Fani.

Um, try to hear the song Nadin Hamizah deh whose title is linked.

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NB: Individual coping is the way that individuals solve problems, adjust to changes, and respond to threatening situations (Keliat, 1999).

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For those who are still single, do not just fixate on who the heart will be anchored. Fix yourself first, so that later you can become a proud wife and mother by contributing to bring your husband and children to reach the gate of success in the world and the hereafter.

For Mothers, I say thank you for fighting until this moment for husband and children at home. May the routine be free all day, struggling in the kitchen, serving the husband, and teaching children to learn and process into a field of reward. For Mothers who choose to become career women, hopefully can divide their time well so that everything can run as it should, proud of you.

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