365 Days Towards Halal

91# 300H

You can be disappointed with what does not meet your expectations. However, you should not think negatively with that incompatibility. What is delayed, what is failed and what is not in accordance with your wishes, does not mean you have failed 100!

Failure is when we think negatively. Which makes us slump, blame, hate and so on. In fact, failure, disappointment and delayed, could be the best way chosen by God for you, to avoid you from all kinds of new problems.

Not giving up, that's Raka's decision, when her good intentions are ignored. To him, it doesn't mean the girl he likes doesn't like him. If Queen does not like him, there is no way Queen would be approached by Raka.

Only, Raka knows Queen who is the one who was once injured. Not the big new child we usually refer to as ABG, who originally received love from someone, because it was in bloom. Then, there was a slight ordeal, wavering his faith and choosing to disperse just like that.

Queen of mature women who are looking for a life companion! That would accompany him for the rest of the age he had. What the Queen needs is to build a family and have offspring that she will educate later. What Queen did was not expensive, because Queen was not selling anything, which was on her. What Queen does is as an adult woman who has a mature purpose in life. A detailed future and the concept of happiness in his version.

Look for a companion, not buy an item that looks good, which makes you love it so much that it flowers. You buy and wear it when you need it. Wasn't it!

Looking for a companion, you need to convince yourself. Think about whether you can live with it. Think about whether you can accept its shortcomings and advantages. Thinking about whether in the future his nature and attitude you are able to overcome, able to accept, able to make you understand him, able to make you grateful and able to keep you on his path. Because once you decide to get married, it's your life path that you're at stake.

Indeed, there is no guarantee to take that path we will be happy. But at least, you do not suffer in the future with what is your own decision.

Learning from the experience of Mother Farah who decided to marry Father Dawn, the biological father of Athar, Queen's half-sister. A person who looks good, straight and seems worthy is called a family man. It turned out not to be in accordance with Mother Farah's expectations. It is precisely the person who makes Mother doubt, namely Father Andra who is able to prove that he is a man who deserves to share life and love hopefully until the end of their age.

Struggle is very much needed in a relationship. To make each understand. Love needs sacrifice, love needs proof not just words and romantic treatment. Without love you can say and do something romantic, right?

There are a lot of guys out there who are passionate about love and sweet words. His romantic treatment is able to make the women beguiled, then die in the feelings of love. The Queen had no time to feel that pain. He's been 30 years! All he needs is a man who struggles, to be able to appreciate their relationship and be tested when they are facing problems in the future.

Queen was standing at the dock, while her suitcase was being dropped from the top of the buggy car. He looked towards the cottage Raka. He saw from a distance the man was waiting for the buggy car's turn to pick him up.

The buggy car that Queen just boarded was moved to pick up Raka. Today, only the two of them will be chek-out of that resort.

About ten minutes later, Raka arrived. Raka got off the buggy car and walked over to Queen who was staring at him.

Raka gives Queen her best smile and touches Queen's cheeks gently.

"Ready to India?" As if last night, nothing disappointing happened.

The Queen smiled and nodded slowly. Queen felt how mature the man standing in front of her. How persistent the man struggled to get his heart. A man who struggles, there is no time to be angry with the woman he likes. That's why, Queen feels, today, to the point of maturity, Raka has passed the test. The man was very mature and really struggling.

Is Queen going to melt? Sure hasn't. There's still another test from Queen. Their days in India.

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"Hello and Farah, I'm kangen. When do we meet up ?" Ask Madam Amara through her phone call with Mother.

"Hi...! Jeung Amara, how are you? I also miss you." Sahut Mommy, just a stale. Actually there is something strange according to Mother, so she has not been able to be sincere with Madam Amara.

Madam Amara who had never known Mother before, suddenly seemed to know all about her. Of course, it all invites suspicion for Mother Farah.

"Let's meet" said Ms. Amara.

"Come, this weekend... I have a group event with my friends in a normal place,"

"At the cafe?"

"Yes" said Mother Farah.

"See you's.. "

"Assalamualaikum Jeung's..."

"Goddessalam.." Sahut Bunda while terminating the telephone connection.

"Who's Bun?" Ask Dad who is driving to his office with Mother.

"That's Dad, the woman I told you about last week. Amara. There seems to be something strange about her."

"Weird why?" Ask Dad curious.

"Snack a Loh Yah. He knows me very well. Keep getting so familiar. Hmmmm, can you help me find information about him?" Ask Mommy.

"Hmmm, information?"

"Yes well, her personal information and also who she really is. Mother Rada was horrified there was also a stranger who was familiar, continued to act as if he had known for a long time. Whether he has bad intentions or how we don't know. Thankful if he really intends to be an acquaintance and berkilaturahmi." Bright Mother.

"If it's a matter of information, isn't his master dad? You have an IT guy, right?" Mommy said as she blinked her eyes and put on a face that begged spoiled.

Dad smiled and pinched Mother's cheek.

"My wife is yes... If there's a wish, it must have put on a cute face like this."

"Ih, I'm like ABG.."

"It wasn't Dad who was like ABG, it was Dad's wife who was like ABG. I still feel like I have a young wife" said Dad, smiling flirtatiously.

"Ih.. most can deh he make his wife's heart wrong behavior not karu-kuliran!" Mommy said while pinching Dad's left thigh.

"Ooh.. sick tofu darling... A bit like dong... But don't pinch, just love." Said Dad while smiling ignorantly.

"It's old too! Still a flirty!"

"We are young forever. There is no old word for us" said Father as he kissed Mother's cheek.

Mother smiled shyly, her cheeks reddened and glanced at Dad with a glint of his pot.

"I love you my life companion" Whispered Mother as she lay her head on Dad's shoulder.

"I love you too my dear," said Father as he gently stroked Mother's hair.

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“The perfect marriage is when two inperfect couple fuse to give up to one another”

(The perfect marriage is when two imperfect people refuse to give up on their partner)