365 Days Towards Halal

166# Epilogue (end)

Having love is a gift created by the creator. Anyone could feel it and lose it all of a sudden.

But love, it can continue to grow and continue to bloom when taken care of properly. Like a tree, some die so quickly, some survive tens or even hundreds of years to survive firmly.

Love is one of the greatest mysteries that is so elusive. But not for people who have established themselves with one choice and one goal only. Namely, married, happy and continue together until death separates.

Maybe many feel that true love is just a fairy tale. When you feel true love is a fairy tale, try to reflect on people who are able to care for their love like a tree that lives hundreds of years.

Nothing is impossible in this world, what is the purpose of our life? and what do we want to create in our homes? Be happy? So try to be happy. A marriage that endures with love? Try to respect each other and be faithful. Nothing is impossible, just each of us or our partner, who is lazy to try to realize the dream.

That is why marriage requires one vision and the same mission, even though it is different in nature. Again, what is the purpose of our lives?

Love also makes immature people very selfish. For example, like Lala who should love makes herself happy, instead of burying herself in a nestapa hole. Loss of freedom and self-esteem. Involved in a criminal act to eliminate one's life, because of unwarranted blind jealousy.

Indeed, not all love can be welcomed well. That is the point of maturity, at least we can think, to move forward or stop loving. Because happiness is not only with him who ignores love from us. Open a new page, grow up and move on..! There are still a lot of empty hearts out there, which could possibly be our true love later on.

Maturity also plays an important role in the good or not of our lives in the future. We can see from the life of Tasya that is so bitter in his household. He gives love, but is ignored and gets a husband who has given himself a child, but still thinks of his ex-lover. Maturity allows her to choose to act, give her a chance, and leave at the right time, without creating new problems, such as grudges and misdirecting the Queen, who keeps her husband in mind.

Now, Tasya is living happily, he meets someone who makes himself needed like an angel and reciprocates his sincere love with an equally genuine love. As well, being able to accept himself as he is with one child from the results of his marriage with Antoni. Nothing is in vain from maturity and patience.

Discussing maturity and patience, mature age is not necessarily able to make us mature and patient. If we do not want to train maturity and patience itself. An example is Antoni's parents. Immature makes them become so selfish and impatient, making the child continue to be depressed until they lose their sanity in thinking.

Being in daily life with a toxic family, made Antoni become shaken and less accepting of God's plan. He also became an adult in addressing the path of life he chose himself. Before it's too late, try to be an example parent for children. Not only attitude, but also a mature way of thinking, and instill the importance of patience and trust God's plan.

Discussing the Toxic problem, being around Toxic people, only makes us depressed, heartbroken, disappointed and demoralized. That's what the Queen betrayed by Amira. Friends themselves who have been considered brothers, it turns out only use themselves. Even snatch the man Queen loves.

Sometimes one problem makes us avoid another problem that is more severe. How not? What happens when Queen marries Heaven? Will he be happy with a man who is unfaithful and has no standing? Sure didn't.

If a friend is able to stab us in the back, and a man who is able to betray us with those closest to us, it is certain that they are not the ones who deserve to coexist with us. Do not grieve when we are betrayed, thank God for opening their rottenness at the right time.

But what do we get from betrayal? Guilt, frustration and so on. In fact, we too will be destroyed by the same betrayal in the future.

Avoid toxic circles, and live with people who have a mature mindset, a good attitude, and people who lead us to a better life and perspective. If there is none in the circle of friends, be one of them, which brings good to the people around us. If not accepted, we can still choose other associations, which are as positive as we are, in order to create a peaceful life without problems that take up our own time and thoughts.

Being one of the good guys, nothing to lose. Maybe one day we will disappear from this world, but not with names and memories about us. Like Tika who always lives in the hearts of people who love her so much. In fact, her positivity about Tika, is also admired by Tasya who has not met Tika at all. Although he only heard stories from Queen, however, Tika like living in the heart of Tasya. Making him follow the example of Tika who is gone and is willing to replace Tika to be a positive friend for Queen.

Having an enemy may be very easy, but having a brother without blood ties, is very difficult, if there is nothing positive that can be seen from our own figure.

Life lessons can also be seen from the figure of Ricky. After her relationship ended with Queen, she kept thinking with everything Queen said to her the last time she met.

Marrying someone to cover up, only makes anyone tormented. Including himself. God created only men and women. Creating love between them, creating a better life in life in pairs. Returning to nature is the best option, surrendering and no longer greedy for the world and inner pleasures, being able to make Ricky change and learn to love someone.

Although the journey was very difficult, but he managed to get through. Slowly, that love comes and leads a happy life of being a husband and also a father of his son and daughter.

In essence, nothing is impossible.intend to live well, live positively and live with love and compassion.

It difficult? No. gabe...

The question is, do you try or not?

Wasn't happiness created?

May deign.

- With love, - De'rini