Marriage Ends in Love.

CHAPTER 35 "WELL"

Is this how every bride who is still in the room waiting for the groom to say ijab qobul? A sense of urgency, curiosity of anyone present and whether many guests are present, and whether this is really reality or a dream.

I was still accompanied by Lilik and Mbak Imah in my room. Because I can only come out when I finish the process of ijab qobul which will be taking place on the stage of the pelaminan.

The smell of roses is so thick in my room accompanied by a green tosca decoration that I choose because of my favorite color.

"Well... it turns out that the name mas Tama is handsome Ran. lost much the same ex 5 years." Lilik who just entered my room took some snacks because this morning he had not had time to eat breakfast.

"Lik's... Couldn't it be in those gini cake moments the mouth is in the filter?" I said a little glaring.

'Ga looks serem Ran.. because you are manglingi today, right mbak Imah?" Lilik is still chattering according to his heart.

"Yes you are more beautiful with a hood so add manglingi." mbak Imah patted my shoulder slowly.

"tock.tok...."

Lilik opened the door.

"Are you ready for the bride?" ask someone from outside.

"You are already" replied Lilik.

"Well, get ready the ijab process is about to start, this Microphone later in case who knows it is needed".

Not long heard the voice of the MC began to be heard guiding the pickle ijab qobul. Stage by stage until the most awaited event of the invited guests is the marriage contract.

"The presence that We respect, the time came for us to go to the core event, the marriage contract between Bagus Pratama bin Narso and Kirana Wijayanti bin Joko Prayitno.

This marriage contract will be carried out by Mr. Mukhlas. To the Father Time and place We send". The MC voice handed over the next procession to the officers from KUA who served as the head of P3N.

It sounded so clear from inside my room the voice of pak pengulu presiding over an event sacred to me. Because soon I'll change status from single to wife. Yes the wife of Bagus Pratama or mas Tama.

Not long heard the voice of Mas Hardi who was reading the ijab as my guardian.

"I married and I married you Bagus Pratama bin Mr. Narso with my younger sister named Kirana Wijayanti bin Joko Prayitno father with mascawin in the form of Antam Gold 25 grams, paid Cash.

"I accept his marriage and the marriage of Kirana Wijayanti bin Joko Prayitno father with his mascarina, cash.”

"How's witness?"

"WELL....IT'S LEGITIMATE...."

"Thank you......."

Imah and Lilik embraced me simultaneously. I don't know what this feeling is, there's a warm feeling in my heart. And there were warm grains that wanted to get out of the corner of my eye. But as hard as I can hold it.

And the door to the room was knocked from the outside. I was asked to go on stage to meet someone who had legitimately been my husband. And signed some wedding documents from pak pengulu.

Somehow it feels far away from the stage position I think even though the stage is not far from the terrace of my house. It was in my yard. I was accompanied by Lilik and mbak Imah went up on stage and now have been sitting next to mas Tama.

"Well to mbak Kirana whether to ask the husband to read the sighat ta'lik or not?" mr. Penghulu asked me and thrust the Microphone at me.

"No need" I answered briefly and still bowed my head because I was still ashamed.

Yes I chose to mas Tama did not read sighat ta'lik according to the message from Mr. Le Yatno.

Last night mr. le and buk le Fatimah reminded me of sighat ta'lik not to ask to be read if the penghulu asked about this.

Mr. le Yatno explained to me. That Sighat ta'lik is the agreement that the bridegroom pronounces after the marriage certificate stated in the marriage certificate in the form of a talaq promise that is hung to a certain situation that may occur in the future. Talak's taklik agreement is actually not an agreement that must be held in every marriage, but once talak taklik has been promised it can not be revoked. So sighat taklik talak is not to be read in every marriage, but if the wife asks the husband to read the talak then the husband must read the talak taklik.

Based on the explanation of mr. le Yatno in the talak tactile sighat contains 2 conditions, namely alternative conditions and cumulative conditions. Alternative conditions must be violated by the husband while cumulative conditions must be carried out by the wife. The alternative requirement is numbers 1 to 4. If the husband has done one of the numbers 1 to 4 or all, then the husband has violated the alternative talak taklik. But that is not enough condition for the fall of the husband's talaq. For the fall of the husband's talaq then the wife must meet the cumulative conditions, namely 1. the wife is not ridho 2. filed a lawsuit on PA 3. the lawsuit was accepted and 4. the wife handed over the iwadh money Rp.10.000,-. These four cumulative conditions must be met. If these 4 cumulative conditions have been met all, then fell the talak of one husband.

"Well, there is no reading ta'lik sighat because the wife does not ask the husband to read it. we go directly to the process of signing the document and handing over the dowry to the bride"

After signing some documents including the marriage book, then Mas Tama gave me a glass box in which there is a piece of gold.

When mas Tama asked what was his wedding. I only ask about the appropriate and not burdensome mas Tama family and form I did not ask. It turns out that he chose Antam mas on the basis of its price that might be able to invest myself in the long term.

I received a gift from Tama and kissed her right hand long enough because of a request from the photographer to capture this moment. After finishing this event we continued the procession sungkeman and now I have stood up and walked towards the seat Mak e and mas Hardi. yes Mas Hardi sat with Mak e on stage in place of the father who had died.

I don't know why mas Tama grabbed my hand and led my hand to walk towards Mak e and I was a little amazed when I saw this man who had become my husband helping me stand up from position sit down to go to Mak e.

I don't know if every wedding event in this sungkeman procession is always made like this. Where there are words that are so fitting what I feel and as if the host was good at choosing words representing me and mas Tama.

And now I and Tama have sat down before Mak e. I kissed Mak e's hand and if after the process of Ijab I was able to stem my crying. Not at this sungkeman event. My cry broke in front of Mae. Mak e's hand was wet because of my tears. My body shook a little because of the crying. And the same thing I felt for Mak e.

"Mother.Now I and my husband rest on your lap as a sign of devotion to all your sacrifices. Thank you for taking care of me to this day. Please ma’af if I always trouble you. Now I have to live a new life with my husband. The noble Apostle. We have now become a couple. Do’akan us in order to sail the household ark. Do’akan us to be able to solve all the problems that exist later. Do’ us into a family sakinah mawaddah wa rahmah.Thank you, thank you Mother

Mothers.... Today I am not here to take your daughter as my whole. She's still your daughter. I will not forbid him to remain devoted to you, Mother. Thank you for educating her, taking care of her until now I can find her and make her my wife in an amazingly beautiful state, all because of your tender hands that have cared for her and educated her, O mother".

Then continued this sungkeman to mas Hardi

"My dear brother, thank you for helping my mother protect myself advising me and you should take up your duties in place of the late father. I am truly grateful that you have a son as tough as you and as patient as you in keeping me in his place. Thank you for being the best brother with responsibility and affection. Thank you for giving me the best education. Now we have to trouble you once more. Do’akan us into a family sakinah mawaddah wa rahmah. Do’akan we have sons who sholeh and sholeh later

Now I have become the husband of your sister, brother. I will try to make her happy. Remind and guide me. Because I have no experience in sailing the household ark. And accept that I be your sister, not your brother-in-law."

Mas Hardi who always looks like this time I feel the hand that holds my hand shaking and I heard clearly mas Hardi crying with sobbing.

"Now welcome to both bride and groom to move begging do’a blessing to both in-laws mbak Kirana" the voice of the host asked us to move to the place where the buk kades and pak kades sat. Somehow this time mas Tama embrace me and lead my hand when moving places.

Now we are in front of the kades and the kades.

"Mother.this is our first engagement on your lap. After we became your son and daughter. Don't distinguish us from your other sons and daughters. Remind us if we are wrong. Support us if we are right. Mom.. Tell me about the culture in your family. Teach me the customs of your family. Let me adapt to your family. Mother...take me your daughter is not your daughter-in-law so easily I learn how to make happy people we both love. Believe me, mother. I'm not gonna take him away from you. Let me be the second after you to be the woman he loves. Do’akan us into a family that sakinah mawaddah wa rahmah.

Mother thank you for the softness of your heart while educating me to be my provision tomorrow how I should camp softly to my wife. I won't just be busy with my wife's mother. Although now increasing someone I have to love, I noticed but believe me mother I will not reduce my love and devotion to you"

No different from Mak e buk kades involved with the atmosphere of the sungkeman. And I felt the same way when I was in front of Mak e. In my heart may you not change, Ma'am, unlike most of the stories I hear about in-laws.

then we moved in front of Mr. Kades.

"Dad, thank you for the blessing you gave us. Today I rest on your feet, pleading with your blessing that we be your daughter's son who keeps you, dutiful to you, loves you, gives back to you and shares happiness with you... 

Father, beginning today consider Me as your biological child. Rebuke me when I make a mistake, support us when doing good, guide us when we encounter problems, and strengthen us in maintaining the marriage pledge... Dad, we're so happy to be a part of your family. A family full of laughter and joy...

Father, teach us the meaning of life. About the rigors of life, the rigors of trials, and the strength of patience. Lead us to deepen mutual affection, trust, complement each other's shortcomings, and share happiness and always provide peace....

Father, do’ us in order to gain blessings in our marriage and become a happy family until death separates. Also do’ us in order to always give happiness to your life and provide good for the people around us"

Mr. Kades looks more rigid his eyes only look glazed and keep patting my shoulders and the shoulders of mas Tama. Perhaps because often dealing with the care of citizens with various kinds of problems makes him more rigid.

After the ijab qobul process is completed followed by the sungkeman process, now the wedding reception process is arrived. It is true what Tama said today that we became kings and queens a day. We sat together on the stage waiting for session after reception. And once in a while the photographer took a picture of us.

Mas Tama looks handsome, charisma and his authority is increasingly thick with the wedding dress he wears. Mas Tama uses batik blangkon on the head. Beskap blacknya based on red surjan and combined jasmine ronce. Only then there is a batik array and the bottom of the black sandals decorated with golden sequins.

When it was almost over the reception we were still sitting on our throne. Mas Tama whispered something in my ear.

"You're so pretty Ran....."

The whisper instantly made me blush somehow because I was embarrassed, my reflexes pinch her waist mas Tama. And mas Tama looked at me and grimaced a little. The first thing I did as his wife. After the incident saw several pairs of eyes below the stage staring at me with various expressions like they saw what I had just done to my husband.... My husband, who else if not my friends.