Marriage Ends in Love.
CHAPTER 32 APPLICATION PROCESS
Seen in front of my house there are several tent units wrapped in white and Green tosca decoration fabric my favorite color deliberately mas Hardi message to welcome the arrival of Tama and family for the process application today.
There were many people in front of the terrace who were sitting and enjoying the treats of drinking and food served to welcome the big family mas Tama and in the guest room had been crowded with some of my extended family and mas Tama.
I also sat next to Mak e, and Mak Imah and Lilik in the living room. After the event the application process was started by the host, namely the head of our village hamlet Pak Agus and a series of welcome words both from the local government and from the Tama mas family and also from my family.
So come to the core process of meeting the two big families at noon today. It seems that the representative of our family represented by Mr. Le Yatno who represented Mak e spoke.
"How about Ran, this is Mr. Narso and his family far from the village wukirsari here with the intention of proposing to you as has been conveyed by Mr. Joko as the deputy host of Mr. Narso. Did you accept this proposal?"
Pak le's voice sounded clear and firm through speakers that were prepared for this event.
Still with the position of bowing my head I answered the question le sir.
"God willing I received a proposal mas Tama pak le" I answered a little quietly with the netra still staring at the fingers of my hands that I clenched on my lap which of course had been flooded with cold sweat.
"alhamdulilah." Almost simultaneously the voice was spoken by those in this room and in the tent and from the direction of the kitchen.
"Alright Mr. Joko has heard my nephew received a proposal from his nephew" Mr. Le reiterated my answer just now
"Yes, Mr. Yatno, as a sign of the seriousness of our relationship towards our marriage we will give a sign to Nak Kirana at least coming home from here my nephew's heart will be calm because there is a sign that there is a sign that nak Rana was proposed so that no other young men dared to approach Rana.... hahahaha" Pak lek Joko's voice was so clear and his laugh was off, he was Cahya's husband and staff at TU Junior High when I taught KKN.
Laughter from all who were present also agreed what Mr. le Joko said.
Buk kades, ah. It seems that the heart and lips are too comfortable to call him buk kades.
He walked with his knees close to me he pulled out a gold necklace that I did not know how many grams of weight but there was a pendant shaped love and paired my neck by him to me. after that he hugged me and it was clear that tears had hatched from the corner of his eyes after he broke his embrace from me.
"Thank you, Ran. and promise me that your mother will share your mother's heart." she said, gently stroking the back of my hand.
I don't know why my heart suddenly felt so warm and my eyes also felt sore when the clear circles fell gently on my cheeks after I nodded my head in front of him.
"Well then for this wedding event when Mr. Yatno because we were earlier I was able to whisper from mas Narso if my copanakan is already Ndak can be far from our hope nak Rana family if marriage can be carried out one month in the future what according to Mr. Yatno family?"
It's time to go to a more sacred event. I was a little surprised to hear the request of the Tama mas family because I think it was too soon a month.
"How are you and Hardi?" mr. Le asked Mak e and mas Hardi regarding the request of the Tama mas family.
"What's the speed, sir?"
"If according to sir le not Har. After all, good intentions should not be delayed" Pak le's answer is like agreeing to a request from the Tama mas family.
"em.... I'm up to mas Hardi same Mak e. For work problems happen to be on leave for this year has not taken Rana, so Rana can take leave if the marriage process will be carried out" I replied by staring at mas Hardi.
"Does that mean you don't mind Hardi if it's one month away from her wedding?" mr. Le asked for more certainty from Mas Hardi
"No sir le. God willing I am ready" a quick and steady answer sounded from mas Hardi.
" Alright means the marriage process will be carried out one month in front of the issue of the date later we will re-announce you want to negotiate first with a large family. Given this Rana from next to his father and mother quite have a big family. So anyway we have to ask for advice and the best day of the elders in our family mas Joko"
"Alright then thank God, we are waiting for good news from the family here. And for the dowry later let Tama and Nak Rana speak for themselves. We think maybe enough of our show today to host Monggo we please".
The return event continued with prayers and a lunch together that had been provided at the table in the tent. When the big families enjoy the dish Cahya buk choose to eat next to me participate buk kades.
"Alhamdulilah Ran is very happy mother you can mate with Tama. Worried that you can get a mate just because you see his career or his parents' property" bu Cahya enjoying a meal while chatting with me.
"Alhamdulilah pray hopefully smoothly until the process of his ijab buk" pinta ku on buk Cahya.
The warmth of the two big families after the meal was still chatting and it was clear from the way Mak e and buk kades chatted it was seen that the two mothers were happy. I can only hope not to disappoint the two parents who currently might put their hopes on me and mas Tama to become a family that mawadah warahmah.
After the closing process of the event from Mr. Agus as the host. The group of Tama mas families also one by one left my residence and boarded a car parked in front of my house. Like my family. It turns out that mas Tama also consists of a large family. Pak kades family, buk kades not to mention his mother Alm family mas Tama who also attended.
After the death of the Tama mas entourage there were some brothers who participated in Lilik and mbak Imah entered the fruit of the hand that was brought by the Tama mas family there were approximately a dozen trays of fruit hands consisting of fruits and cakes, balls, brownies, lempers, Mendut and a small town containing red boxes and it turns out there is a letter from a necklace that is currently attached to my neckline. Some brothers from the father and Mak e are still chatting in the living room I also went into the room to change clothes because it feels hot wearing kebaya clothes in the daytime weather. There was a chatter from the direction of the living room that was captured by my ears.
"Wah Kirana is very lucky, this is just a proposal Bawak anya already kayak gini let alone the process of handing over and marriage not to mention the sign of her necklace bond looks more than 15 grams"
"Not to mention it seems like her parents really like Rana was her mother Tama until crying after Rana love my necklace Yo Melu moved" The older sister of my father with her slightly large voice responded.
"Yes in this village like a new Kirana deh whose application aja pengombyongnya can be almost 20 cars how fit ijab. not to mention souvenirs.... A. sampeyan lucky mbak yu can be good and like his son is also a good young man" buk le Etin sister of my mother also gave praise to both parents mas Tama.
"Hhh... Thank God at least I won't hear any more talk out there if my girls in town hang out. I know my son but there is still pain when slanders and prejudices are directed at my son. Not to mention the time before, son Tama and buk Tatik drove Rana home when I was sick, it was almost a month of talk neighbors throw no-no until someone said watch out later get pregnant first....Hhhhh" I heard my mother's voice and I heard my mother's cries from behind the room.
"God will give the best people a soul mate who is also good for him. So sometimes I often dawuh the same all your nephews and students do not need to bother thinking of a mate or busy dating. Just keep improving ourselves and refute ourselves to the desired matchmaker we are like now hopefully Rana and Tama are paired because they have both established themselves for their respective soul mates. Example of wanting to have a partner dear life of our parents then will not meet if we ourselves do not love your parents, especially you Lia... Buk le often reminds you even on your social media" Buk le Fatimah was also heard to give advice to my cousin Lia who also attended college in the city but was a little brave in terms of showing off intimacy with her boyfriend in social media.
Lilik appeared from behind the door and looked towards me.
"May you be happy, Ran. "
"Aamiinmmmmm... Yes nothing at least when you get married I will not be bullied by you because you are still alone and at the end you are paired with brother Fhey hehehe..."
