Marriage Ends in Love.
CHAPTER 34 The Process to Halal
BELIMBING SARI, JUNE 1, 2024
The sound of Dayu mixed music is clearly heard in my house because today is going to be my special day because today I am getting married. Yes, with the capital of confidence and comfort that the man named Bagus Pratama is a man who will be able to guide me across the household ark. Intention to worship made me decide to accept a proposal from mas Tama one of the advice that is still remembered enough in my memory is the message buk le Fatimah wife of mr le Yatno and cousin of the mother mas Tama on me when I was worried about the stability to accept or reject mas Tama for the second time.
"Nduk .
If marriage is only based on mutual love so the message of Umar Bin Khattab then where is the position of Faith??
How many love each other but their marriage is not blessed even ended in a dispute or divorce
Because of faith, the Prophet was patient when in his house only vinegar was available and ate it.
Because of the faith Ali bin Abi Tholib patiently became a porters draw water with the wages of a handful of dates
Because of the faith Fatimah Az-zahra patiently grinded the wheat until his hands blistered.
Marriage is not as beautiful as what motivators or pre-marital books say will be many trials and tests, so understand the love that sometimes can not join the war
Only strong faith with the sword of patience when it is hard. The weapon of gratitude when happy who is able to face the trials and trials therefore may be married because they love each other but make sure that the feeling is only a makmum and Faith must be his priest.
Understand that not all love gives birth to Faith, but all Faith God willing will give birth to love.
It is desirable to worship if indeed the man already has all your criteria let God grow the seeds of love in your heart.
Keep your heart, do not hesitate...
Rarely do people get a second chance and you come back as if God wanted to give that good young man to you and so it is a pity to be a match with another young man. And you were reunited through the intermediary le sir and buk le.
From that steadiness I dare to take the decision to accept mas Tama because it is true what is said buk le. all the criteria for my future husband are in Tama mas and his bonus both parents who also approve of me even clearly his mother wants me to be his daughter-in-law.
I'm ready to wear long golden velvet to form like a train like a modern bridal dress. Hijabnya then covered cundhuk mentul as well as ronce jasmine tibo dodo and shawl scattered behind the back. On the wrist, decorated with a cane bracelet.
Somehow when I was going to rent a mopaminan and bridal clothes mas Hardi said that mas Tama asked for her bridal clothes wearing hijab. I asked Mas Tama over the phone.
"During the process of the ijab and reception later we will be the king and queen of the day Ran and I do not want the eyes of men who are not your mahram to enjoy your aura which will clearly look very charming on the day our wedding. Isn't it after Ijab everything you do will be my responsibility when the day ends Ran....Please I just want my wife to be mine. I do not want any other man who thinks dirty especially to enjoy the beauty of my wife even though not to have to cover your face with a veil Ran... Please understand... Ran..."
Hearing his sincere explanation and clear reason made me unable to resist. I am only worried because my daily life I am not hijab and when married using hijab will not be the talk of people. But when Mak e heard the reason Mak helped solidify my heart that mas Tama was right and as a person who later I will be a wife must listen to my husband's request. Wouldn't it be after Ijab I would still change clothes 3 times and that would have gone into my husband's responsibility to me.
"All right to the whole committee to get ready because the bridegroom is already present in our midst. To Mr. Narso and the pengombyong (bride introductory) we welcome and enter the place we have provided"
The MC's voice made me even more nervous. Lilik who saw me so nervously tried to calm me down with his guy who always just spoke.
"Pacify your heart Ran. later if it's the first night Ndak will be a man deg deg an kayak gini....."
"Okay... ouch." said Lilik half grimaced because I pinched his waist which sinlessly discussed the first night.
"You were like the first night..."
"Yes.at least I've read the artike what to do and prepared for the first night that obviously no pinching scenes couples...."
"Own...........!" I half screamed and glared after hearing her vulgar language.
