I'm a Widow of Ustadz
chapter 68 wedding invitations
When Luthfi finished, he invited his mother to speak in the living room.
"What's up" asked Luthfi.
"Luthfi please help mamah at this time Mamah at the same trick in Herman" said Mayang.
"Then what does this have to do with me" asked Luthfi.
"Help me find that Herman" growled Mayang.
"I'm sorry but I can't help me not to interfere in other people's lives" Luthfi said, looking intently at his mother.
"Oh Luthfi you don't like that mamah need your help what if mamah poor" asked Mayang.
Luthfi took her cellphone which she always carried in her pants pocket.
Luthfi tinkered at his hp in his hand.
"I've transferred money to the mama account, now it's up to you what you want" said Luthfi.
"Mamah's losses are very much Luthfi" Mayang said.
"then" asked Luthfi staring in wonder at his mother.
"Any money as this may be enough" said Mayang underestimate the money Luthfi gave him Even though the money given was quite a lot.
"What do I have to do" asked Luthfi.
"At least you give a branch of your company so that you can return this loss money" said Mayang.
"Why did you take the factory because of my request? didn't you? then why should I take responsibility for it" asked Luthfi.
"At least help mamah reply this to Herman" said Mayang.
"I'm sorry I can't" said Luthfi.
"I already know that this is the answer from you" said Mayang.
Mayang immediately went from there Luthfi can only shake his head because he did not think about the mamahnya.
"Astaghfirullah" muttered Luthfi.
Luthfi saw the message he had not been able to read.
{Assalamualaikum Gus I Yasya, the plan is I want to get married, can you come along with Ning Rena to this address, please, sorry I told you suddenly I also actually have no preparation but I hope you guys come, because from the boarding school there are only a few that will come and Umi can not come, hope you guys have time to come Wassalam} message from Yasya his friend in pesantren.
"Gus Yasya is married" asked Luthfi.
"Who" asked Rena.
"Gus Yasya married like his married in the city because of the address sent this about 5 kilometers journey from here" said Luthfi.
"You're coming" asked Rena.
"Let's just come" said Luthfi.
"What time" asked Rena.
"Either" replied Luthfi who did not know because Yasya did not specify what time the event was.
"Let me ask" said Luthfi.
{Waalaikum greetings Gus, oh yeah guess what time I should come} message from Luthfi.
{His wedding ceremony afternoon} replied Yasya.
"We're coming in the afternoon" said Luthfi.
"All right" said Rena.
"Faiz we just put on Bi Cici how" asked Luthfi.
"Can" said Rena.
Luthfi did not want to bring Faiz just bring a baby on the show was afraid that it would make the baby uncomfortable because it met many people.
But suddenly Luthfi remembered something.
"Rena will rarely be invited if she has good clothes, her clothes are good but I want in this event Rena is very beautiful" said Luthfi.
Rena looked at her now confused husband thinking about it.
"What's wrong" asked Rena.
"May you help me buy you a present" asked Luthfi.
"Well when" asked Rena.
"Now" said Luthfi.
"Alright come on, take Faiz as well" said Rena.
"Yes, come on" said Luthfi.
They set off Luthfi towards a boutique that was quite crowded.
"What do we want to buy" asked Rena who realized that what they came to was a boutique.
"Buy clothes"
cap Luthfi's.
Ren"For whom" asked Rena.
"For me" said Luthfi.
"Oh well come on" said RRena.
They go inside, with his Luthfi directly choose women's clothing he won't even know how likes Rena.
"This gus is a woman's dress" said Rena.
"Yes I want to buy one for women too" Luthfi said.
"For whom" asked Rena.
"for you" said Luthfi with his ease he said it.
"But why do I have clothes at home" said Rena.
"Yes well thank you for buying me clothes" said Rena.
In the previous chapter there was the word prejudiced bad, now we discuss here yes.
Bad prejudices are despicable and unwelcome to God
In a number of narrations, the Prophet warned of his dangers. He said:
which means: “Beware you of prejudiced acts, for prejudice is a lie of speech. Do not look for the bad news of others, spy on each other, spite each other, turn your back on each other, and hate each other. Be ye servants of God who are brothers.” (HR Bukhari No 6064, Muslim No 2563.
The Hadith clearly commands us to be careful of prejudiced actions. Then we should stay away from acts of prejudice.
Even in the Qur'an prejudicing others is sin, as in the letter of the Hujurat verse 12:
Which means: “Hi, O you who believe, stay away from most prejudices, for in fact some prejudiced acts are sins and do not seek the faults of others.”
There is also the danger of prejudice, among others, first we will feel dizzy ourselves. Second, constantly suspect others. Third, it is hard to make friends. Fourth, it is hard to trust others.
the characteristics of bad thinking, which is the first person who does not directly know or see a fact and usually this person only knows from the news that he hears solely and is not based on the truth.
Second, before expressing thoughts, assumptions or opinions, bad people think they have a bad assumption. So bad assumptions will give birth to bad prejudices, otherwise good ones will give birth to good prejudices.
Third, not in accordance with reality, this becomes another important feature whether an attitude, speech, or word is a bad idea or not.
If it does not fit the statement, then he has been ill-judged. It is bad to think that this is called tuhmah or accusation, so it is clear that someone is accusing others of what others do not do as their deeds, then this accusation becomes slander.
Fourth, when a person has a bad experience about another person, then he will have a bad assumption over the other person based on his experience.
This is included in the bad character of thought, because our judgment of others is only based on our own personal experience while personal experience is not entirely the material of proper judgment.
It is important not to think badly...
May we be kept away from the bad nature of thinking yes, Amin..
Continue again....
Luthfi chose some games for Rena to wear, Luthfi also who is looking for a veil that will be used Rena later.
"You try first I will take care of Faiz" said Luthfi.
"Miss come with me" said the official there showing Rena the place to change clothes.
Rena wears a black robe with some interesting designs on some of those shirts.
Rena saw her reflection in the mirror turned out to be a nice black robe for her.
Rena also tried a pink dress just like her Rena looks fat wearing that shirt what else during this time Rena does not have a bright color gamis like that.
Rena's out she's closing in on Luthfi who's there.
"I'll just take this one" Rena said.
"Why" asked Luthfi.
"Black is good for me" Rena said.
"But all the games fit right" asked Luthfi.
"Pas is all loose" replied Rena.
"My mother took it all" said Luthfi pointing to all the gamis that Rena brought.
"But Gus isn't this much" asked Rena.
"Why take too much of it to copy you later" said Luthfi.
"But right" said Rena.
"Here take this card and pay I'll wait here pity Faiz sleep" said Luthfi.
"Yes well" said Rena.
Luthfi also bought some clothes for Faiz he did not choose him he immediately agreed when the store clerk said it was good Luthfi immediately agreed and bought it.
Luthfi felt something warm in his hands.
"Astaghfirullah Faiz you wet your bed" muttered Luthfi looking at his wet clothes not only that even the Sofa that Luthfi was sitting on was wet because of the urine from the little baby.
Lutfi was surprised that Faiz had used pressers but still he could leak.
"Where is the owner of this shop" Luthfi asked an employee who had just come there.
"Is there a problem sir" the clerk asked frantically, fearing that Luthfi would complain to his boss.
"Please call him right now" said Luthfi.
"Okay sir" said the employee who immediately called who had a shop.
the employee was very afraid of what else is rife once now a buyer complained because it was not greeted well by employees in a store or restaurant.
"Is there a problem sir" asked the store owner.
"Miss of gratitude you came" said Luthfi.
"Sir what my employees do not serve you properly if yes please forgive sir" said the shop owner's mother.
"Not Mom but I want to complain about this, my son peed on the mother's sofa, mother, I'm sorry Mom I don't know but I have put a presser on my baby but my baby peed carelessly forgive me Mom if mom wants compensation then I'm ready to compensate" luthfi said at length feeling guilty.
"Gosh sir what do I think" he said breathing relieved what else the officer who just now he was very relieved.
"I'm sorry" said Luthfi.
"It's okay sir let our employees who wash me think there is something, father don't worry me who will tell you to wash it, just pee the child" said the store owner.
"Sorry mom" said Luthfi.
"What's wrong sir don't worry" said the mother.
"All right, thank you" said Luthfi.
Luthfi headed straight for the cashier who now had Rena there.
"The clothes that I wanted to put together this one" said Luthfi.
"Good sir" he said.
