I'm a Widow of Ustadz
chapter 121
Tonight Rena wants to rest but while going to rest Rena looks at the Black prayer beads hanging there.
"Abi remember this no" asked Rena showing the black prayer beads.
"Tasbih" asked Luthfi.
"Hm" said Rena.
The flash back on
Luthfi and Rena headed into her room, Rena sitting herself on the edge of the bed.
"you won't change your clothes" asked Luthfi.
"want but only later" said Rena.
"why" asked Luthfi who was insensitive to Rena's speech.
"yes I will change now" said Rena who immediately walked towards the closet she took her nightgown that Luthfi had bought for her.
before Rena came there were many clothes in the closet, said Gus Luthfi clothes that he deliberately bought for Rena.
Rena took long blue pajamas with cartoon images in each of her fabric designs.
without Luthfi realizing that Rena changed clothes there, Luthfi quickly closed her eyes because she did not want to see Rena who changed clothes.
Rena looked at Luthfi who just closed her eyes without even looking at Rena.
"gus" said Rena.
"hmm" said Luthfi.
"you don't want to help me" said Rena.
"what" asked Luthfi.
"please get this" Rena told Luthfi at this time she wanted to take the usual veil because she was going to sleep.
but the veil Luthfi put the top of Rena can not reach it.
Luthfi saw that Rena was wearing full clothes.
"why change clothes here" asked Luthfi.
"wrong yes" asked Rena.
"it's not wrong that there's only me why you're not ashamed" Luthfi asked.
"why is your shame my husband, besides why is your shame also close your eyes" said Rena.
"it's wrong of me too" said Luthfi.
"why is wrong" asked Rena.
"because I didn't see you changing clothes, I didn't enjoy the beauty just now" Luthfi said.
"ish you are" said Rena smiling.
Luthfi took the white veil that was on top of it.
"not this one Gus but that one" Rena said.
"black" asked Luthfi.
"yes, black" said Rena.
Luthfi took it he gave it to Rena.
Luthfi took something in his closet.
a long black box.
"i've never seen you dressed in a tasbih, I have this tasbih I just bought when I played to Mecca, for you aja Ning anyway I've got another" luthfi said giving the black prayer beads.
"wow thank you, yes I forgot my prayer beads left behind in the pesantren" said Rena.
"yes, may you be more spirit of worship" said Luthfi.
"yes Gus" said Rena.
"But wait he said you played to Mecca" asked Rena.
"It wasn't that I went there for worship" Luthfi smiled.
Flash back off
Rena smiled remembering those memories,
"Time goes by very quickly yes, I even forget what we did all this time" said Rena.
"Not so Umi, at least we've been through a lot of time together and thank God we never had a problem until one of us left, right, I really don't want that" luthfi.
"No Abi" said Rena.
"Yes I'm very happy, but Umi what if I'm fine you'll get married again" asked Luthfi.
"There's no way I won't be able to get married again" Rena said.
"Right" asked Luthfi.
"Let's not be like that, if Abi no longer has anything to do with me" said Rena.
"Beda Abi they will get married and they will have their respective partners, I hope our death is close so we can die together" said Rena.
"There is no way my task is done but your task is still long, remember when you share the inheritance please share with children fairly I do not like if someone quarrels over property" luthfi.
"Yes Abi I will try to be fair but Abi someday I will send Faiz to Abimana, I'm not sincere he to Abimana just that Brother Abimana should be responsible to Faiz as he said before right" said Rena.
"Don't be ashamed, Faiz doesn't know if Gladys is his mom, so maybe he'll accept Abiman's papa" Luthfi said.
"I just don't want Faiz out of the way he already is, I want the old Faiz who appreciates us who came with a lot of laughter instead of the current one that even he's after debt collectors, to, I'm grateful that Gladys didn't know that if he knew somehow Faiz's fate, what else he said Gladys had given twenty million to Faiz" said Rena.
"Right" asked Luthfi.
"Yes I don't believe it either but Faiz has deceived his own biological mother" Rena said.
"He's out of the way" Luthfi said.
"Is this our fault" asked Rena.
"It's us" asked Luthfi.
"Yes we did not equip Faiz with Islamic law, we did not put him into pesantren what is our sin" asked Rena.
"It's not why we're wrong, we've given him what he wants instead, so what should we blame" Luthfi said.
"Yes I know" said Rena.
It is in the Qur'an and the Hadith about the obligation to give knowledge to children.
It is in (Quran Surat Al-Mujis verse: 11).
which means: "O you who believe, when it is said to you: "Stretch in the assembly" Allah will make room for you. And when it says: "Stand up", then stand up, Allah will exalt those who believe among you and those who are given knowledge of some degree. And Allah is All-Knowing of what ye do."
From Abdullah bin Umar radhiallahu ‘anhuma said, that: Educate your son, for you will be held accountable for the education and teaching you have given him. And he will also be asked about your kindness to him and his obedience to you (Tuhfah al Maudud, page. 123).
In addition, parents are more obligated to educate their children than to give alms every day. Regarding the obligation to educate this child, it has been described in a number of Hadith of Prophet Muhammad including:
which means: Prophet Muhammad said: “Someone educates his son better for him than he shadaqakan (every day) one sha.” (Hadist History. Tirmidhi)
which means: Prophet Muhammad said: “There is no gift of a father to his son who is more important than (education) good manners.” (Hadist History. At-Tirmidhi and Al-Hakim)
As well as the narrated hadith Abu Ya’la of Aisyah RA:
Which means: Prophet Muhammad said: “Really in heaven there is a house called the house of happiness that is not entered except for those who make children happy.”
From some of the above hadith it is very clear that the importance of education in human life. Because with the fulfillment of education well, then life will run well. A good education given to a child can be a long reward for his parents. As the Prophet said:
Which means: When a person has died, then all his charity is cut off except three, namely almsgiving, useful knowledge and children of prayer who pray for him. (Hadist History. Muslim)
Obviously, it is important to provide knowledge to our children, our children, what's more now a lot of news that says that parents kill uh their children just because the child is fussy there is also a child who says that there is a child who needs his parents because of the wishes of a child a child who is not filled.
So there are so many obligations of parents that must be done to their children.
because if it's wrong who will be blamed.
But what about a child who is disobeying his parents..
Alloh SWT says in Quran Surat Al Isra verses 23 and 24
Surat Al Isra verse 23
What it means: And your Lord has commanded that you worship none but Him, and that you should do the best of good to your parents. If either one of them or both of them is old in your care, then never say to them the word "ah" and do not shout at them, and speak to them noble words.
Surat Al - Israel Verse 24
What It Means: And humble yourselves to them both fondly and say: "O my Lord, love them both, as they both educated me in childhood".
there are 11 acts that include disobeying parents:
Physically hurt
Hurt her feelings
Said 'Ah' and hardened the voice
Talk about the bad of parents
To berate or be the cause of being reviled by people
Deflects eyes
Curmudgeonly
Overburdening
Don't care and stay away from the old man
Not admitting parents
It is wrong to the parents
Narrated a hadith, the Prophet said:
"Who makes the heart of his mother and father sad, then he has disobeyed both," (HR. Thabrani of Ja'far bin Muhammad As Sholah).
