I'm a Widow of Ustadz

chapter 19 study

The next day Misbah came again there but because it is now Sunday the santri clean the pesantren yard.

Luthfi and the senior teacher also took care of her there, Rena saw Misbah from a distance.

Misbah brings coffee to Luthfi seen by Rena if Misbah approached Luthfi.

"assalamualaikum Ustadz" said Misbah.

"waalaikum salam" said Luthfi.

"i brought you some coffee" asked Misbah when Luthfi was about to take it but the coffee was already taken by Rena.

"sorry Ning does not want to interfere, but Gus Luthfi has a stomach disease he is not recommended to drink coffee" said Rena.

"oh yeah sorry I don't know" said Misbah.

"nothing" said Luthfi.

"other times not because Gus Luthfi really likes coffee but unfortunately he should not drink because of illness" said Rena who immediately went from there.

"Ning Rena is very attentive to mu Ustadz" said Misbah.

"yes he is" said Luthfi smiling at Rena's behavior.

"please excuse me Ustadz I will come again later" said Misbah.

"yes" said Luthfi.

inside the house Rena saw her brother who was preparing.

"where are you going" asked Rena.

"i want a talk" said Zia.

"the real lecture ah" asked Rena in disbelief even though Zia had attended the lecture many times.

"i'm welcome, I can" asked Rena curious about what her sister-in-law would be up to.

"alright come on" said Zia.

Rena immediately took her bag without wearing any makeup what is natural white Rena even though her skin is brown but Rena looks beautiful natural.

they leave Luthfi who saw him just smile because he understood that if Rena went to study then there will be many ustadz who will approach him.

"when can I arrange him yes" Luthfi's mind.

Rena and Zia headed towards the mosque which was quite far from the pesantren.

they immediately entered into the many mothers who were present there, even when Rena was present for a lecture at the mosque next to even no mother who came because she looked at Rena one eye.

"ustadzah Zia there is a request from the mother's side he said we want to discuss the affair" said the head of the study.

"oh yes Mom" said Zia obediently because every time she came there Zia always arranged the host.

"assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh, Alhamdulillah we are still given the age to attend this study event, well to shorten my time Zia will explain the chapter of cheating in relationships or households" said Zia.

Rena is quite surprised by the theme that will be brought this time by Zia.

what else in the village there are quite a lot of people who are caught cheating even up in marriage.

"the mother of the mother of the affair is the enemy for every woman yes, because there will be no women who are willing to cheat, then how to cheat according to religion, according to the hadith according to the Qur'an, mother mother one thing that mothers must understand Islam is the most complete religion because in the Qur'an even how to hooded just explained there, infidelity and many others are described in the Qur'an, so we should be proud to be a Muslim.

first is the betrayal

Husband or wife who cheated, he has betrayed his partner. The meaning of treachery is described ar Raghib al Asfahani rahimahullah:

which means:" “Traitor is violating rights and secretly ruining the agreement” (Al Mufradat, 305).

Traitor is a great sin. Allah ta’ala says

which means: “Allah will not guide against the deceit of those who betray” (Quran Surat. Joseph verse 52).

The act of treachery will also eliminate the blessing in the family, so that the household will feel gloomy, tight and narrow, even though the act of treachery is not known. Anas bin Malik radhiyallahu’anhu said:

“When treason occurs in a house, will be lost blessing” (Makarimul Akhlak, by Al Khara’ithi, page. 155).

the second is Al Ghishy or cheating.

ghisy means cheating; being dishonest; playing back. And the one who cheats will definitely do ghishy. Because he hides an affair from his partner who if his partner finds out, of course he will hate him. Al Ghishy is a great sin. From Ma’qal bin Yasar radhiyallahu ’anhu, Nabi shallallahu’alaihi wa sallam said:

which means: “Whoever God has destined him to be a leader for his people, then he dies in a state of ghish (dishonest) to his people. Surely Allah will forbid it paradise” (Hadist History. Al Bukhari no.7150, Muslim no.142).

clearly yes if in the hadith the Apostle explained the leader just as the husband and his people are his family.

the third is a lie

Cheating will certainly not be separated from lying. Lying is a big sin. Allah ta’ala says:

which means: “Verily Allah will not guide anyone who exceeds the limits of liars” (Quran Surat. Ghafir verse28).

And that lie will drag a man into hell. From Abdullah bin Mas’ud radhiyallahu ’anhu, Prophet shallallah alaihi wasallam said:

which means: “It is mandatory for you to be honest. Because honesty leads to goodness and goodness it leads to heaven. Someone who is always honest, he will be written on the side of God as Shiddiq (a very honest person). And keep away from lies, for they lead to the deeds of the fajir (message) and the deeds of the fajir lead to hell. Someone who often lies, will be written on the side of God as a kadzab (a very liar)” (Hadist History. Muslims no. 2607).

The affair of the mother can also lead to a lot of obedience, among her Zina, Zina eyes, Zina hearts, tabdzir or removing property on things that are not worth it, and wasting the family.

a lot of mothers who commit infidelity because their minds are being influenced by lust in the opposite sex, when in fact for what Cheating if the taste and form are the same, right" said Zia explained.

haha

the sound of laughter rang out in Rena's ears he could not believe that Zia's lecture would make mother laugh when she spoke no mother's mother laughed.

"sister Zia is really brave yes" murmured Rena.

Zia explained everything to the mother who was there.

even Zia also often makes mothers laugh until the open bahak.

Rena was amazed at her sister-in-law.

"my mother also as a woman I do not want my husband to cheat because there will be no woman who is willing to be on honey, then how we respond to her, he said, like this we only need to go home to the parents or other words separate ourselves from our spouse so that nothing happens that is not desired, he said, because if you continue together it will be easier to have a bigger fight, then if you can't go a woman can ask for a divorce if there is no reason to be together again" said Zia.

"ustadzah how about a polygamous one" asked the mother's mother.

"for polygamy depends on each of us because actually giving up a husband to marry again is difficult what else if we do not have enough knowledge to do it" said Zia.

until finished they went home to the pesantren as usual Rena took wadhu and performed her Dzuhur prayer alone in her private room.

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