I'm a Widow of Ustadz

chapter 151 Understanding women

In junior high school today Arsala is chasing the students who are there because now they study until the afternoon they are still there.

Arsala felt very confused he felt very lonely what else there was no one who could help him, Kathir the person he told him about was not news.

Arsala regretted not talking to Yadna about it if only he told Yadna he might have a chattermate and friend to make plans together.

Now Arsala feels very confused he feels very alone now.

"If I had told Brother all this trouble, I might have a friend to talk to me about what else now feels so confused to me, but if I tell Brother Yadna if he will not think about my problem, what else is the problem he has very much" murmured Arsala.

Arsala was just silent while watching his student, because now he was in the middle of the exam so Arsala was in charge of supervising only.

But without Arsala realizing there were now two policemen looking for Arsala at the school, the police even asked the teacher who was there as well.

"Is there Mr. Arsala" asked the police.

"Pak Arsala taught in the second class of Junior High" said someone who now tells Arsala whereabouts.

And for her the police was wearing ordinary clothes not wearing her Uniform so no one panicked when Arsala asked.

"Is there Arsala" asked the two policemen who were now on the doorstep of the second-class smp.

Arsala was surprised to see the whereabouts of the police he immediately rose from his seat.

"The son of the father wants to see it first yes, work properly and do not chat" said Arsala to his student.

"Good sir" in unison.

Arsala approached the two policemen and asked them if they had come because Arsala thought they were parents because of their ordinary clothes.

"What's up sir" asked Arsala.

"Are you Arsala" asked the two policemen.

"It is true that I am Arsala" said Arsala.

"Follow us to the police station, you are reported on charges of molesting Fathir's now deceased brother" the police said.

"Someone reported me but who" asked Arsala.

"You'll know when you're at the office" he said.

"But I'm not wrong" said Arsala.

"Explain this in the office" said the two police officers were going to take Arsala by force but it seems they can't do that what else is in the school environment.

It is impossible to make a mess at what school anymore when students are studying.

Arsala just resigned himself to what would happen to him.

Arsala asked the police not to talk if he was held to his family, because tomorrow his brother was getting married so he did not want to destroy his brother's marriage.

Arsala was only silent when taken by the two policemen, but unfortunately while on the way there was someone who intercepted the car they were riding in.

"Take him off" said the man, who put a gun on the car.

"We know him" the police asked Arsala, who is currently sitting on the bench.

"No, I don't know him" Arsala said.

Unfortunately when the police opened the door of his car the man immediately injected something on the two policemen, Arsala saw that clearly and unfortunately Arsala could not do anything because of his hand in handcuffs.

"Who are you" asked Arsala.

The man took Arsala very rudely even Arsala is currently drugged and immediately taken to one of the places his boss has determined.

"Please let me go" said Arsala.

"Silent shit" he was furious who immediately drugged Arsala.

At the Luthfi residence.

Prerack

Rena accidentally broke the glass in her hand, even though at this time Rena's hand is not slippery at all.

"Astaghfirullah" murmured Rena.

Rena picked up the broken glass on the floor that is currently dirty because it was spilled by the tea that Rena just made.

Rena cleaned her up she was afraid that someone stepped on the shard and bled.

But Yadna who was about to take a clean tissue upstairs had come back there.

Yadna was very surprised because Rena was there cleaning Beling on the floor.

"What's wrong" asked Yadna who immediately helped Uminya to wake up.

"This is Yadna Umi accidentally dropped this glass" replied Rena staring at her daughter.

"But Umi was not hurt" asked Yadna.

"Alhamdulillah no" said Rena.

"Now Umi just rest this all let me get it done" said Yadna.

"Thank you adna but how is it possible that the cuisine is still very much" said Rena.

"Umi rest first" said Yadna.

"Well, I'll take a five-minute break" said Rena.

"Yes" said Yadna.

Tonight they all gather in the living room, they will chat while enjoying the warm drinks they usually drink every night.

They got together without Arsala because he said Arsala could not go home because he was having a sudden need so he could not go home.

Rena could not protest because it was the path her son took, but Rena felt very happy because there was a Waffi who had just returned from the pesantren.

Although it feels very awkward but since then Waffi tried to change the atmosphere that is very gripping because it is so awkward.

"Waffi what have you learned in the pesantren" asked Yadna.

"I learned the science of the shorof nahwu, learned the book, the Qur'an do not forget now is learning to try to understand women" said Waffi.

"It was good that Abi also learned about it and Alhamdulillah Abi can" said Luthfi.

"Yes Abi I am also exploring it, he said it is difficult what else women are very difficult to guess" said Waffi.

"Women are not to be guessed but to be understood" said Yadna.

"Why should there be a woman's lesson, I used to have no lesson in understanding men" asked Adiba.

"Yes well, why there are only women's lessons that must be understood but the lessons that can understand men do not exist" said Waffi.

"Keep thinking" said Luthfi.

"Why Abi" asked Adiba to his Abi.

"Because it is the nature of men to understand women" said Luthfi.

"It's not too difficult for me" Adiba said.

"You like it to make me want to catch you" said Adiba.

"CK brother" muttered Waffi.

Why do you think a man should understand a woman??

the answer is because women are madrasatul uulaa for the generation they produce. Indeed, man lives not only to produce offspring that create the chain of civilization, but how to get the primacy and pleasure on the side of God from the civilization that has been produced.

From Imam Al Bukhari wrote in his hadith, “It was narrated from Abu Hurairah, that the Apostle said "The woman is like a rib, if you force her to straighten it, you will break it, and if you are kind, then you can be close to him, even though there is a bend (imperfection).” (Hadist History. Bukhari)

There was also the Prophet SAW.said: "Do not a believer scold a believer. If he's unhappy with one fight, then there's another one he likes." (Muslim History Hadith).

How do men understand a woman??

Understand women wisely.

Advise meekly when women are wrong.

Face it patiently.

Be a good listener.

Cover women with affection.

How can you understand women??

Is it hard to understand women? yes, but it's even harder to be a perfect woman..

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Yadna felt very surprised because Arsala number could not be contacted Yadna fear Arsala why why what else since this morning Arsala like his many thoughts.

{What Arsala told you was a message from Yadna to Kathir but unfortunately Kathir was preparing in his company, so he did not have time to see his phone.

Yadna thinks that maybe Kathir is busy what else is seen from his inactive phone.

"Maybe this is just my feeling" murmured Yadna.

"Oh yes Abi there was a woman who asked me" said Waffi.

"Who" asked Luthfi.

"Either because he was the same teacher there, he said this way he asked me if you were the son of Gus Luthfi I replied Yes what is, what is, keep saying again you know that Abi you were once very handsome he became the talk of the students here, but he is very ignorant and like him is not interested in women because he is very cold to women, Abi said" said Waffi.

"Oh yeah did he talk about it" asked Luthfi.

"Yes Abi I'm not lying" Waffi said.

"Then you say how" asked Luthfi.

"I say this, Yes Bu Umi teacher I am very lucky because I got Abi who is very fond of him and can take care of him, as I said" said Waffi.

"Then" asked Luthfi.

"He was like his angry Abi because it looks from his face that became sour" said Waffi.

"Then" asked Luthfi.

"Then Abi if you are curious just look at the boarding school who is she instead of asking questions to children" upset Rena.

"No Umi just heard it" said Luthfi.

"Yes if curious just come to him" said Rena.

"No Umi" said Luthfi who was very timid what else he was afraid when Rena was angry what else if Rena was angry always long to be persuaded.

"If you want please go" said Umi.

"No Umi" said Luthfi.

Rena went straight into her room on the top floor, Lutfi is currently threatened because she is afraid she is told not to go outside.

"You started Waffi" luthfi growled.

"So don't blame me because I'm just being honest" Waffi said.

"Hurry to sleep now it's night" said Luthfi.

"Yes well" said Waffi and Adiba.

While Yadna is currently just silent while occasionally drinking the tea that is there.

"Why am I wrong" Waffi asked Yadna.

"It's not wrong just that you if you talk never in the filter yes if you talk first see the condition and circumstances you do not just plaited" said Yadna.

"Why am I wrong" Waffi murmured.

"Let's go to sleep" said Yadna who stood up and went upstairs.

Waffi and Adiba follow Yadna because tonight Waffi will sleep in Yadna's room along with Adiba and Yadna.

"Where do you want" asked Yadna to be sure because the bed was only enough for two people.

"On the sofa" said Waffi.

"It's up to you" said Yadna who immediately lay down and slept on the bed.

"You can talk but do not be loud until you laugh out loud" said Yadna.

"Yes" said Adiba and Waffi simultaneously.

Adiba wants to ask Waffi about Arsala's attitude towards him later this year.

"Waffi can tell me, here's a guy I like and I don't know if he likes me or not" Adiba said.

"Then" asked Waffi staring at Adiba.

"His attitude is good and often love me gifts, even he also often spoil me, what it has been said that he likes it too" asked Adiba.

"It's complicated anyway, why don't you just ask people" asked Waffi.

"Waffi if only I dared to do this why should I ask you to answer this if I can ask directly, I am ashamed to ask Waffi" said Adiba.

"Then how about being embarrassed to ask hard" said Waffi.

"Yes eat it" said Adiba.

"But my brother I've heard from my friend he said he was also so on a woman he was very considerate and always he gave a gift because he was afraid that his woman was taken people" waffi.

"Oh yes" asked Adiba.

"Maybe it's so big brother, and maybe the brother who likes to experience it" said Waffi.

"Really" asked Adiba in disbelief because it would happen to him.