Marriage Dilemma
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I saw that Angga could only sigh and then go back to his pants and give back some money to his mother.
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Can't say anything more, I'm so lazy to argue with bang Angga.
This time I took Rama and accompanied me to check the contents.
Never bored and always try to invite my husband to accompany me when you want to check the pregnancy. But the answer I always get from the past remains the same.
"The lazy thing to wait, you just go alone, besides puskes is not so far from home."
It was always the answer whenever I asked him to accompany me.
"Mother, can the baby hear Rama's voice?" That question made me smile.
"It could be a pity, but the baby's adek can't move."
"Well, Rama can't wait to meet the baby boy, mother," he said.
"Prophey baby, it's not time yet. But we'll definitely meet the baby."
'Be a role model who can lead your family to be my son, if God gives a daughter in my second pregnancy, then Rama will be a second father for him. Do not want and do not let my children follow in the footsteps of his father' I said in my heart.
"Have not been too tired mom, the first trimester should be a lot of rest, and again you have to eat a lot, a little but often! It's better if you also drink pregnant milk, "That's the doctor's advice when I do the examination.
'How to rest Doc, having super crew in-laws makes me unable to relax. Moreover, drinking pregnant milk, huh, it seems very impossible for my husband to grant my bathin.
I just nodded and confirmed every suggestion from the Doctor who examined me.
When it was over, Rama and I rushed home.
The house sounded crowded, the laughter of many people made me wonder who they were. I started to enter the house, while Rama asked to play in the front yard of the house.
Oh, it turns out Tika's schoolmates. I sat down and walked past them.
"Bude, please make me a drink for my friends?!" Suddenly Tika told me to make a drink for her friends.
"Didn't you see Bude just got home? Why not make it yourself?" My protest was against my husband's nephew.
"I can't be soybean said grandma, will you get pregnant again," replied Tika so proud by stroking her stomach is still flat.
"What's wrong for a moment, a guest is a king who must be entertained well," continued my in-laws who suddenly came out of his room.
"Nothing, why don't you make them drink?"
I was so furious with them, My mother-in-law always pampered her granddaughter, even more so when she was pregnant, it would definitely be treated more like a queen in the kingdom.
"You want to get this old lady to work, Dira? How outrageous of you, what kind of daughter-in-law do you have the heart to tell her in-laws to work," she replied emotionally.
"Indeed why? After all, just make a drink, not cooking or some houses. So doang mah not tired times ma'am," I replied without looking at it.
"Bashful son-in-law! Started to dare to volunteer now huh?" After our little argument, my mother-in-law went somewhere. Maybe gossip with RT and the others.
"Eh, Tik for info dong, how does it feel to be pregnant, not good?" Asked one of Tika's friends while I was serving drinks to them.
"Yes delicious not good, but I'm more loved by my grandmother. Whatever I want, must be obeyed," replied Tika.
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The next day, still early in the morning I rushed off as usual.
Ibu Marni's stall is so complete, all the needs I'm looking for are there. No wonder the store is always crowded with buyers. Like this morning, people were crowded in the Bu Marni stall, some were still choosing groceries, some were paying.
I who just came directly join the crowd to choose and weigh something I want to buy.
"The buying cocks are just about Ra, is that enough?" Ask one of the buyers who is my neighbor as well.
"Oh, yes, God is enough" I replied with a smile.
"From the hawker outside, mending the most abundant rice buyin, Ra. The important thing is that there is rice, any side dish, do not be picky!" Added again.
"Dira rarely snack outside the mom, even never," I said trying to defend myself.
"But said your mother-in-law, you are wasteful, at home only dimasakin tempe know. The money is for snacks outside," he explained.
Again my in-laws throw tantrums, always spreading rumors here and there. What he thought was not true at all. He could only slander me, all because from the beginning my mother-in-law never approved of our marriage.
"According to Mother, the person who doesn't like us, will we always look right in her eyes?"
"Not really,"
"Well, I know, and so do Dira's in-laws. I understand how she does not like him the same Dira, whatever samples she will do to slander Dira," I answered trying to give her understanding.
Not knowing what my life really was, they assumed that I was really bad as my mother-in-law was talking about.
But this time I won't stay silent. It's enough I've been quiet with all their caci and maki. Now is the time for me to rebel in self-defense, giving up is not wrong, but if always stepped on, giving up is not the right thing to do.
You need to know, someone who used to be obedient, never denied, even always succumbed, someday will turn into a more terrible lion if the treatment is no longer appreciated, he said, it is even considered that there are not. Tragic right?
But that is the fact, the above and feel the most right and perfect, will not always be in the same position.
The world will turn and side with the one who is always patient and succumbing.
Be careful of those who never match between speech and action.
And I hate two-faced people. It's hard to decide which face to slap first
Maybe now my mother-in-law is still freely insulting me as she pleases.
Slandering me here and there, even brainwashing his son to always follow and obey his words.
I'm not saying it's wrong, but look what her mother's request is. If the mother requests to abandon even the bodo period with his child and wife, does it have to be obeyed?
Is that the purpose of marriage?
Then and yesterday maybe I still gave up and kept quiet. But now, I will give all your qualities and treatment to me.
They can do it, why can't I?
TBC.
