Marriage Dilemma

Mom's Decision

My statement apparently managed to make Bang Angga down lethargic with tears. I'm sorry bang, but I don't want to go back into the abyss that would obviously hurt me. And for you Devan, I'm sorry. Maybe my words later can be held accountable, for giving you hope about the heart. But for now I still can't, haven't gotten used to it, and this trauma of mine I haven't been able to beat. I'm sorry..

"Can't be Ra, you must be lying right? He's just your friend, isn't he, Ra?"

"Aren't you horrified? Devan calls himself Papa to our children. I think that's clear enough to prove that Devan is closer to the kids than his father, because soon Devan will be a part of their lives."

"Abang can fix everything as you want Ra, but please come back to live with Brother. Poor Ra's kids, baby Dara needs a father figure. Brother please Ra!"

"Even from before Dara was born bang, she obviously needed the figure of Dad. But Brother himself who does not care, even just to take me to check the content of the Abang always refused, vitamins and milk what else, Brother willing to lie to be able to fill all the pregnancy intake of nephew Abang. While his own wife was abandoned. Dara and Rama don't need a father figure like that bang."

Nyesel-nyesel lo bang, who told me to be a husband has no stand. Loyo, kayak water kecemplung crackers. Respecting parents is not wrong, but do not despise the wife and child for what he says is the same parent. Be fair to both, because apart from Mother, wife and child are also important!

Bang Angga seemed to have no face to look at me. All the mistakes he did to me, I brought him back to make his regret so real.

"Sorry, I interrupted. You're too selfish to be Dira's husband, bro. Here Dira is not lacking, his life is luxurious, all-sufficient. But he is willing to live a simple life as long as it is with the person he loves. But you're making him even more tormented, sorry, if I have to go forward to make Dira and the kids happy."

Uh. I can only look at this creature of God with a haru look.

Devan really stood up for me, it seemed like he understood about the feelings I experienced during my marriage to Bang Angga.

"Dira, tell your brother that it's just your nightmare, tell Ra, say it!"

"But unfortunately, this is not a dream like you think. It's real bang, I refuse to refer to and have Devan as my future husband and father for my children. But relax, I'm not a selfish person until I have to keep you away from children. Whenever you want to visit them, I give it up. However, Brother is his real father, until at any time it will remain so."

Bugh...

"It's all because of you, Devan! Dira rejected me because of your presence. I can't take this."

Mama and bi Jum approached us because they heard the commotion that Bang Angga created. Bi Jum immediately took over baby Dara and invited Rama into the room.

"Enough bang Angga! Don't because I don't want to refer to Brother Nyalahin Devan, obviously this has nothing to do with Devan's presence, bang. This is purely my own decision" I said firmly.

"Ma, Angga beg Ma, persuade Dira to refer Angga, Angga please same Mama!"

Instead of answering me, bang Angga even rested at Mama's feet begging to help her to persuade me.

"Wake up Angga!"

Bang Angga woke up from his crevice.

"Listen Angga, I used to be against your marriage. But slowly, I began to come to my senses and felt the loss of my daughter. I have been sincere to accept your marriage, I bless you, and hope that Dira's choice is the best for her own life. But after 5 years passed, suddenly God sent his miracle to lead Dira back. I hurt Angga, as a Mother my heart aches to hear the story of the life that my daughter experienced during your time together. You seem to have no upbringing to treat humans well, let alone a wife. And now you're begging me to help persuade Dira to refer? Even if Dira says yes, I will still oppose his decision, even more so I know how Dira's life before, obviously I as a parent feel not accepted by your dirty treatment."

Mama really expressed her disappointment to her ex-daughter-in-law.

"Ma..."

"And the decision to divorce from you is the right decision. Next week, we'll send you an invitation to your house."

"I mean Mama?" I asked full of confusion.

"You and Devan are getting married two weeks from now. Remember Dira, this time Mama does not want any rejection of any more objections from you. This is Mama's final decision, if you still think Mama is your Mama, of course you know what to do, Dira."

Degs...